Singles & Dating - 8 July 2007

He went away on business for a while, and I was left at home with his wife. I had known this guy for 3 year and hed never met is wife until I mived in. She was very sweet girl but suffered from depression. He and I used to hang out at the bar until all hours of the night, go gambling (we lived in Vegas) and all kinds of stuff. She spent all of her time at home with the dog. She did not have a job. While he was away, she and I fell in love. That was back in October. We had an intimate relationship and all. When he came back, he kept telling me that he wasnt interested in him in any way. I never said anything. He has been away again since March. She lives in Texas with her family and I am in Turkey at the moment for a year. I told her in May that I wasnt happy being the other guy anymore, so she is in the middle of the divorce now. (Yes, I do know this is a fact as he has written me many times asking me how I could do this.) I love her with all my heart. Am i terrible?

2007-07-08 05:00:44 · 3 answers · asked by bob h 2

2007-07-08 04:50:23 · 9 answers · asked by andrea 1

Hi. I really fancy this boy. I've fancied him for a year or so now, and we used to be really good friends - we have a lot in common. But now he really really likes another girl, and he's sometimes really rude to me. I still fancy him though. What do I do? Should I give up on him? How can I get him to like me? Please help, I feel really upset about this.

2007-07-08 04:47:22 · 7 answers · asked by Goldenfield 2

i like her and all but she is going off to college and i still have another year of high school and she is living at college. and i have trouble keeping my mind on just her when she is around let alone across the city and at the same time she has been doing stuff lately that has jut been bothering me and i am not sure if i should wait it out longer or utillize the rest of my summer being single or have less tied down relationships if you know where i am coming from.. or just stick with this one becuase overall so far it is working out ok and there is nothing seriously wrong. like there is another girl i am interested in..and we are very good friends and like share similar personality traits and stuff but i am scared we wont have similar ideas about how a relationship should work. i am also really scared to hurt the girl i am giong with. i would feel terrible. if i do break up with her i will use the college excuse since that is the most understandable and she may not get as hurt by it

2007-07-08 04:43:55 · 14 answers · asked by ed b 1

or what shall i do? i do everything for him but he never says thank you. what shall i do? he even told me that i'll never find a handsome guy out there? is it true?

2007-07-08 04:24:40 · 7 answers · asked by Mirage =) 3

Here's the backstory:

I've been talking to this girl I started working with at my summer job alot (she's 2 years younger than,18). We seemed to have hit it off, she has talked about me to my guy friends there, I've talked about her, we talk whenever we see each other (on Friday for almost half an hour).

So Friday after that little convo, I ask her for her number and her plans for the weekend. I told her there wasn't any rush (I'm swamped by kids, it's a day camp), and she kind of frantically called my phone to make sure I got her number before I left.

Alright, so after her early morning college class on Saturday, I was to call her to see what's up, well.. her class lasts alot longer than expected, then she apparently says she's going to visit family in Ardmore (a PA city) with her immediate family. Which is cool, but then I message her later that night about Sunday, and she never gets back to me (around 9 pm ish?).

I messaged her again this morning after my production meeting (for

2007-07-08 04:23:52 · 4 answers · asked by Jay 3

me and my friend have been getting real close, i started having a crush on him. He is funny,sweet and very romantic. The only thing i didnt like about him is the pervy comments he used to make like ' so do you think about me in the bathroom?' etc etc, and he knew i didnt like this. So one day when i met him he stopped doing it completely at first i thought ok this will be good but now... well am embaressed to say it but i am missing those comments he made. I guess its because when he said those things to me it made me feel wanted and desired not only in a romantic way but a sexual way to which was quite a turn on. How do i tell him that i miss his pervy comments? its so embaressing?

2007-07-08 04:15:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was just wondering what kind of personalities guys like and what kind of girl guys like coming from a guys perspective (I'm only 13 anyways...I'm just wondering.)

2007-07-08 04:14:20 · 18 answers · asked by mickeys.girlfriend♥ 4

He's asking me to send big ticket items to Nigeria and not even using the original name he gave me? I am not ignorant but just want some other opinions? Thanks!

2007-07-08 04:13:36 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay well me and my boyfriend have been going out for a week and 3 days and ive only gotten to see him once and he seemed liek he liked me and everything when i saw him and before i saw him he called me like 3 times a day and now after i saw hiim i have to call him but that day i think he had a baseball game at 10 but still and now my friend thats friendsw/ hiim called me at 12:00 this morning and i was worried that he wanted to break up w/ me or sumthing? im very worried HELP!!!!

2007-07-08 04:11:57 · 9 answers · asked by brittany ann ♥ 1

When makin-out with a girl, what is first base, second and so on? What r all the bases?

2007-07-08 03:58:57 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2

I love the colour red...particularly in clothing but I've been told by a guy recently that they read it as a girl is up for it (gagging for attention and perhaps a little easy). I was horrified to hear this, this isn't the case for girls but do guys really think this?!

2007-07-08 03:55:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

in dating and stuff

2007-07-08 03:53:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm not talking about etiquette, etc.
i'm talking about the way they eat, like... whether they eat slowly, savouring every bite and enjoying every taste... or whether they just rush and gobble their meals quickly towards their final goals.

does it necessarily describe how they behave behind closed doors?

2007-07-08 03:43:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

In other words, if she picks out his outfit and he wears it. Can other women tell that a woman picked it out? (assuming, of course, he is by himself when they see him)

2007-07-08 03:42:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

how do i get past the fact that my girlfriend who is my fiance now has a genital piercing? she says she doesnt have a reason for getting one, however they are to stimulate sex. should i just get out and move on, im not the type into all those piercing especially in the genital....why else would a girl get one. plus she was 25 when getting it b4 i knew here and just showed it to me the first week i knew her, not 16 and stupid

2007-07-08 03:41:22 · 13 answers · asked by amayseng 3

you would like a relationship with her or would prefer just to hook up with her?

And lets say she is not easy at all.

2007-07-08 03:41:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

instead of her cel phone number (she claims she didn't have one but lets just say she has a cel) what does this mean?

2007-07-08 03:40:57 · 18 answers · asked by Curious 2

well what is a flirt, and how do you get a flirt 2 like u?

2007-07-08 03:37:27 · 14 answers · asked by bob 2

everytime i see this girl, i cant stop gazing at her and when she turns to look at me, and do something stupid, and then i look away in embarrasment. Also i find it hard to even talk to her, but occasionally, i get an 'um' or 'hi' out before i go high tailing off. We are not even together, and I've known her for a few years and we've never even spoke before. What is it that i feel, cause i cant call it love its too simple, theres got to be a better more explainatory word. Any ideas on what i should do?
Is there a word for it?

2007-07-08 03:33:55 · 15 answers · asked by Nick W 2

2007-07-08 03:33:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

The question basically was: Why would you automatically think a guy was lying if he told you he didn't have a GF?

2007-07-08 03:31:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

We work fulltime jobs and have 2 kids so I'm more of a home body. We have this conversation every so often. To focus his attention on our family,should I become unpredictable?

2007-07-08 03:25:49 · 10 answers · asked by Selina116 2

okay so he's like either 2-4 yrs older than me, but the thing is, he's like an instructor for one of my sports (not gonna metion it just in case he goes on here) we like smile at each other like all day, and then when he says my name, he gives me like this big dopey grin, and then like, he tries to stan close to me(not in a bad way or anything) and i need to know if that like means he likes me or anything.... plz help....i like really need it,

2007-07-08 03:24:10 · 13 answers · asked by Brunette_Beauty 1

2007-07-08 03:20:54 · 14 answers · asked by Toves 1

been dating him for 3 months. we were just fooling around. i wouldnt let him put it in. claims i hurt him down there when i was pushing him away. i KNOW i didnt.
why did he pretend i hurt him?

2007-07-08 03:20:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive bin with him before n i still love him he had a girlfriend n he still likes her he started gettin over her n liked me but then one mornin we were all cuddled n had a few kiises then on the night he went to the party n was kissin wid her all night what do i do because i got realli jealous and went mad at him for it and now he wont even tlk to me n picked her HELP ME i still realli love him n dnt no what to say ........

2007-07-08 03:19:13 · 15 answers · asked by ema louise 1

2007-07-08 03:18:55 · 12 answers · asked by gina 1

Don't you think that is dangerous? They have been talking for about 8 months. Should I say something? Some people say I should but she won't listen if I did.

2007-07-08 03:18:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just 3 days ago I breakup with him...and all he said was

I love you,you know why?
cause Im an idiot!!

what did he mean by that?

2007-07-08 03:17:24 · 20 answers · asked by Gõlden angel 4