What do guys like in a girl?

Question

I was just wondering what kind of personalities guys like and what kind of girl guys like coming from a guys perspective (I'm only 13 anyways...I'm just wondering.)

Answer 1

I don't know I'm a girl here are some coolio tips though :)

suggest taking a browse through these. They make a lot of
sense and are pretty much on the dot ;)


--Guys hate sluts even though they have sex with them!
(oh yeah..you're not "popular" if you've slept with more than 5 guys..you're a HOE)

--"Hey, are you busy?" or "Are you doing something?" ~ two phrases guys open with to stop from stammering on the phone.

--Guys get so pissed when girls say there fat right after we told them theyre not and a guy will just keep saying your not because he needs to be right in a situation about looks

--Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

--Before they call, guys try to plan out a little about what they're gonna say so there aren't awkward pauses, but once he's on the phone he forgets it all and makes it up as he goes.

--Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.

--Guys will do anything just to get you to notice him.

--Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest. Unless they're goin for the let-her-complain-to-you-an
d-then-have-her-realize-how-wo...
method.

--A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.

--Boyfriends need to be reassured often that they're still loved.

--Don't talk about your guy friends to your boyfriend.

--Guys get jealous easily.

--Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

--Guys are more emotional than they'd like people to think.

--Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what?!..uh...nevermind.." would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he'll assume he did something wrong and he'll obsess about it trying to figure it out.

--Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.

--Guys hate asking parents for money to buy girls presents. So they come up with ideas like saving their lunch money for a week. But it never works because guys are always hungry so they end up asking the parents for money anyway.

--Girls are guys' weaknesses.

--Guys are very open about themselves.

--It's good to test a guy first before you trust him. But don't let him wait too long.

--Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.

--If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice.

--A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

--Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.

--Guys will brag about anything.

--Guys use words like hot or cute to describe girls. We rarely use beautiful. If a guy uses that, he likes you a whole hell of a lot.

--Guys think WAY too much. One small thing a girl does, even if she doesn't notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant.

--Guys seek for advice from girls not other guys. Because most guys think alike, so if one guy's confused, then we're all confused.

--Any guy could write out a rulebook or advice book for flirting, but no guy can write out a book about relationships.

--Try to be as straightforward as possible.

--A guy has to experience rejection, because if he's too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won't be mature and grown up.

--If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl.

--No matter how much guys talk about asses and boobs, personality is key.

--Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.

--Guys worry about the thin line between being compassionate and being whipped.

--If a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he's probably faking it and is spazzing inside.

--When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that.

--When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me."

--Guys don't really have final decisions.

--If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn't happen that often, so when it does, you know something's up.

--If your best guy friend seems to avoid you or is never around when you're with your boyfriend, he's probably jealous and likes you.

--When a guy tells you that you are beautiful, don't say you aren't. It makes them want to stop telling you because they don't want you to disagree with them.

--When a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he's definitely thinking something.

--Guys like femininity not feebleness.

--Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do.

--A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.

--Don't be a snob. Guys can be intimidated and give up easily.

--Everything in moderation. Put on makeup, wear perfume. Just not too much.

--Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys.

--Guys hate rejection, but they hate being led on even more.

--If you are going to reject a guy, just do it. Don't say they are like a brother or just good friends, it just hurts even more. Tell them that you aren't interested in a relationship and they will respect you.

--Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them.

--A guy would give his left nut to be able to read a girl's mind for a day.

--No guy can handle all his problems on his own. He's just too stubborn to admit it.

--Not all guys are assholes. Just because ONE is a jackass doesnt mean he represents ALL of us.

--We don't like girls who are too skinny.

--We love it when girls talk about there boobs.

--Always make sure you know what kind of stuff your getting into before making out with a guy ...like wheather it's a one time deal or not ....

--Believe it or not shy guys are the most easiest to talk to..it may not seem right but trust me they will start opening up like books after you just ask them questions about their lives and unoticable tell them about yours...

--When a guy hits your butt it means that he wants you sexually

--Even if they refuse it all guys are ticklish on the ribs..

--Guys love neck rubs and if he lets you keep doing it ..it means that he really likes you or his neck really hurts...

--Guys will test the waters to see how far they can get with you. Even if he doesn't intend to it will happen. Know how far it is you want to let him go and he will respect that...after you let him know a couple times.

--When a guy sacrifices his sleep and health just to be with you, he really likes you and wants to be with you as much as possible.

-- Guys cant think of anything to say to a girl they really like, cause they dont want to screw up.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

I know. If the guy hit the girl first it is terrible, beat his butt. If the girl hit the guy first....eh. It really does all stem back to the whole men being bigger,stronger,tougher,whatever. But. If people did not notice yet, looks are very deceiving. The girl could be a ninja assassin for god's sake and trying to slice the poor guy in half but everyone is like...don't hit her!!! I am really sorry about the double standard fellas, I really am.I did not make them. I am a female too and unfortunately fought some boys before. I am not proud of it at all because they were not fast at all. They hit hard. Yes. But they were not able to grab me. They also started it, I never start anything with anyone and feel like you should defend yourself against anyone willing to violate your personal space.OR get some friends of the same gender as your attacker and have them kick their butt for you. That is what I did when other incidents like that happened. You do not have to stoop to their level either.

Answer 4

I've liked the same girl for 3 years... why do i like her?.. yes, she is the most beautiful girl i've ever seen, but until i got to know her personality, it was just a physical attraction. However, once i got to know her: she's damn smart (4.0 gpa), funny (no one ever makes me laugh as hard), kind, caring.. she's just a very lovable person... she dresses modestly (wheres nice clothes) and doesn't care what the fashion is and doesn't care what other people think...

be yourself! Thats what i love in a girl

Answer 5

Well, all guys r not d same so it's kind of a complicated kwestion. nevertheless i think i hav an idea of wt u're askin'.
Most guys will lyk a gal who:
-has confidence in herself.
-dresses nicely but not indescent.
-takes gr8 care of herself.
-lyks challenges. (is fun of challengin guys)
-knows exactly wt she wants
-does not always agree with him
-is respectful
-is honest and trustworthy
-is down to earth
-is not afraid to be herself no matter d situation or who she faces.
-doesnt seek for guys' notice.
-is content with wt she has
-does not try 2 pliz guys.
in short a gal who is just herself, natural. I've got a whole list of dt. u can mail me if u want more info.
have a nyc day.

Answer 6

Why do you care? Are you going to change yourself to match whatever is answered here? What if there are 50 different answers, which one will you pick? Quit worrying about it, be yourself and the right guy for you will come along.

Answer 7

I like for them so have maturity, common sense, able to listen & understand, not stuck up, be themselves when I around, not too fat, accept me for who I am. There are more other things but I can't think of them now.

Answer 8

guys like girls that arent BITCHY, stuck up, flirtly, loud, stupid, slow, raciest. guys likes girls that are sweet, quite, open minded, adventurous, kind, intelligent, money doesnt have to be involved everywhere you guys go. good movie night will do for a date.

Answer 9

well, besides certain physical attributes, guys like girls who are 'fun'. by this i mean we like them to have a good sense of humor. also we like it when girls are willing to try new things, i.e. camping, bungie jumping and other goofy things like that. all we want is to have someone we enjoy hanging out with.

Answer 10

13, what are u doning on the internet.

Answer 11

Fun loving with fantastic legs!