me and my friend have been getting real close, i started having a crush on him. He is funny,sweet and very romantic. The only thing i didnt like about him is the pervy comments he used to make like ' so do you think about me in the bathroom?' etc etc, and he knew i didnt like this. So one day when i met him he stopped doing it completely at first i thought ok this will be good but now... well am embaressed to say it but i am missing those comments he made. I guess its because when he said those things to me it made me feel wanted and desired not only in a romantic way but a sexual way to which was quite a turn on. How do i tell him that i miss his pervy comments? its so embaressing?
2007-07-08 04:15:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe you can start making some sexy comments yourself. (i don't call them pervy. there is nothing pervy about what he asked by the way. pervy is sick. i don't think your friend's comments were sick).
2007-07-08 04:26:58 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think its the actual comments your missing it's the attention he was giving you at the time that your missing.
It appears to me that he has grown up a little and realized by your reaction that you were uncomfortable with them, so he stopped because he cares about you and didn't want to risk loosing your friendship.
All good relationships start with friendship, so now what you need to do it start joking around with him so he see's that your able to handle joking around and that it's just the pervy comments as you put it that your uncomfortable with.
Right now he has stopped totally because he isn't sure where your comfort boundaries are and he is waiting for you to take the lead and let him know what is off bounds to say. So you take the lead and I'm sure his cute comments will return only now they will be within your comfort zone.
After you have established that you will be able to move on to another level in your relationship if you both choose to.
Good Luck!
2007-07-08 11:43:14 · answer #2 · answered by unknown friend 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make one or two mild petty comments to him.. (you know I
was thinking about you in the bathroom the other day)
Since it was something that he liked to do and now you are
doing it, That may start them back.
2007-07-08 11:21:35 · answer #3 · answered by nutsfornouveau 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what would be so bad explaining it to him the way you have here? telling him you miss these things will tell him exactly how you feel. think if it were the other way around, wouldnt you be glad to hear it? just tell him
2007-07-08 11:20:37 · answer #4 · answered by ♠ Merlin ♠ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm it is just the first step he flirts you , mess up your mind and such . Forget it all . Be yourself sis!
2007-07-08 11:26:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start saying them to him, he should get the hint!
2007-07-08 11:19:03 · answer #6 · answered by harleychic 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Always be wary of what you ask for..... Sometimes you get exactly what you did ask for.
2007-07-08 11:20:30 · answer #7 · answered by snvffy 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Say hey you nasty perv talk to me dirty.
2007-07-08 11:18:52 · answer #8 · answered by Kate 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I DON"T KNOW THAT"S FUNNY
2007-07-08 11:18:54 · answer #9 · answered by :D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋