ok so i'm 14 and i'll turn 15 in december, and i like this guy who is 16 and turns 17 in november,. i know he is more... um "experienced" then me but i like him alot and i know that he isnt the type of person who would try to push me into something i didn't want to do, do you guys think he is to old for me???
2007-07-08 17:46:27 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think that's okay.
But do NOT let him pressure you into doing anything, okay?!
2007-07-08 17:49:35 · answer #1 · answered by ... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he were 22 and you were 20, and at any time thereafter, I'd say no problem. But there is a huge difference between 14 and 16. I know it seems like a few years is forever; but give yourself some time. You'll be glad you did.
2007-07-09 00:50:26 · answer #2 · answered by Terri J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's just at that point, that guys and girls are looking for different things, He may soon go off to college, looking at life differently etc. I think he is a tad old for that sole reason. At your age, you should not really date guys that are older. You may be setting yourself up for a big heartache. Sure you think you are going through an emotional struggle now, but in the end trust me, its nothing compared to the heartbreak you may experience later.
2007-07-09 00:53:04 · answer #3 · answered by MAN ON A MISSION 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh not at all!! i am 18 and my guy is 27..n i still dun find him old!!listen girl u needa understand tht guys mature at a different rate than girls!!even a 17 yr ol guy wud hv same maturity level as u...so u dun worry and dun put urself under experience pressure evn if he is more experienced he is still gonna take things the way u do...so dun bothre:)
2007-07-09 00:51:49 · answer #4 · answered by sugar_babe18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No hes not to old for you look around you many ppl date plp older then them. Plus if you like him a 2 year difference don't matter.
2007-07-09 00:50:46 · answer #5 · answered by nenamexicana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No... just don't let him talk you into anything you don't want to do. You think they wont... but then they do... not a big deal... they just like to see how far they can push... but trust me... a good guy will go at your speed, no worries. Take a chance! Why not?
2007-07-09 00:51:25 · answer #6 · answered by Rockstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that if this guy is going to push u in to trying to do thing when u are not ready then yeah he is to old for u. but he really want to be with u and i mean really wants to be with u than he can wait till ur ready.
2007-07-09 00:50:33 · answer #7 · answered by Cruz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes almost 17. At that age its all about the hormones. I would be careful.
2007-07-09 00:49:54 · answer #8 · answered by Becca24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally, I don't think that he is too old. But, being that he is more experienced that you he will probably convince you to having sex.
Just remember to always use protection, and never do anything that you don't want to do.
Maturity level has a lot to do with it.
2007-07-09 00:50:15 · answer #9 · answered by Ms Brown Eyez 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Trust your heart, & yes you're both to young to make any major life decisions, this might be better discussed with an older sister or someone you trust.
2007-07-09 00:51:59 · answer #10 · answered by Donald S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no!! thts how my relationship is
when i had turned 14 he turned 17
been together since :]
it'll work out if ya'll are really into each other
just like any other relationship
2007-07-09 00:54:52 · answer #11 · answered by Victoria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋