My Boyfriend (of four yrs)and I broke up for a few weeks and during that time I had sex with a guy in my theatre dept and now I'm seeing both of them. The theatre guy knows about my boyfriend and has even met him...but my boyfriend has no idea that I'm sleeping with anyone else- but now that I've been sleeping with this guy...I wont have sex with my BF. How can I tell him?
2007-07-08 07:04:18 · 3 answers · asked by Aries Love 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, the good news is you are a one man woman. The bad news is your coworker is not if he is ok with this. Why did you break up with your boyfriend? If you want to be with the 4yBF, you will have to quit your job, quit fooling around with a man who likes that you fool around, and never ever under any circumstances tell 4yBF. Otherwise, 4yBF is not stupid. He will find out and you will lose them both. You can wait for that to happen or help it happen by telling 4yBF. The other one will dump you as soon as you want him as a BF. He's just using you for sex without responsibility and with a one man woman who won't give him the crabs. It's all gravy. Forgive yourself and forget it. You were vulnerable and the snake moved in on you. It's like sharks smelling blood in the water. Don't wait for this to play out. Not if you really want to be with 4yBF.
2007-07-08 07:34:59 · answer #1 · answered by Kathleen b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm having difficulty liking you...but maybe telling your "boyfriend" that you just want to break up is kinder than giving him all the gory details of how you've slept with this other guy. (It's sort of adding an insult to a substantial injury). Free him up to find somebody decent for himself. Good luck.
2007-07-08 07:25:32 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you cheating on him?
Can't you just finish it?
Your lying to him.
You probably enjoy the attention your getting from both of them, but your not being fair.
What kind of bloke is the guy at work if he's happy to know that your seeing two guys?
Tell your boyfriend the truth and have the guts to own up to what you have been doing.
If your boyfriend forgives you then you should choose who you want to be with and end it with the other guy.
Stop lying to yourself.
2007-07-08 07:15:25 · answer #3 · answered by dangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋