You might not agree with this, but I have been so hurt and manipulated by every man that has been in my life, and I've just met someone new who seems rather promising.
Rather than say "I'd like him to be like / do this" (in my mind, not asking him!), my friend suggested I make a list of ten hotspots that if he does, even once, then get rid, because they are a sign of me ending up in another abusive relationship. Thing is, I can't think of many, I've started the list, could you help me finish it with things that you perceive of warning signs of a bad egg? The things I've listed I've experienced, so these are definitely staying.
1) Behaving aggressively towards me
2) Humiliating me in public
3) Telling me what to do (telling, not advising)
4) Being rude to other people (think this is a sign that he is just putting a mask on to you... that will eventually slip)
5) Making me feel inadequate.
Any more for any more? It'll be really appreciated, I need 5 more. Thanks! xx
2007-06-13
02:41:16
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rollacoasta
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