How can I know that other people love me?

Question

I am a kind person but sometimes I got very nervous & other people get upset of me.How can I control myself?

Answer 1

First of all you have to give yourself the love you need
With that you will gain a personal confidence
Which will ease your nerviness
The more people you meet the easier it will become
Everyone get nervous around people simple things like saying the wrong thing, offending someone
It is just that some people can hide it better thats all

Love & Blessings
Milly

Answer 2

You know, I am having your same problem. But I think if you really love who you are talking with, then you will control your self. I f you kept this problem(controlling your self) in your mind, you will improve and will be more comfortable. Just keep saying to yourself that you wont loose anything by shouting or yelling for some minutes. But definitely you will never gain anything except the people's opinion about you.

P.S. By the way , you can know if the people really love you, when you watch carefully your behavior and see their reaction.