he already thinks i'm using him for sex which i'm not, and that word came out....what should i do??? i really do love him but we haven't said that word to each other yet,,did i screw up?
2007-06-13 03:01:45 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ahh.. didn't you say in your other question that he said he was going to make you love him? Im confused.. but hey if he said that and you said that you do love him.. whats the problem?? Did he say it back? Or did he give you the deer in the headlights look?!?! If i knew the face or the reaction he gave you I'd be able to help you more! Good luck!
2007-06-13 03:05:41 · answer #1 · answered by 04/12/2008 :) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay. So you two are having sex, but you don't think he loves you.
YOU actually DO love him, and HE thinks that YOU are using HIM.
It kind of seems like he's using you. What did he say after you said you loved him? Did he stop? Did he keep going? Could you see his face? If so, did it change?
And it wasn't an accident that you told him. You do love him, and you two are having sex. You shouldn't be hiding anything and he should love you back. Because, what if you get pregnant? Are you two ready for that? What happens if he leaves you?
Here's what you do. Stop having sex with him. Prove that you don't want him for sex. Do other things like go to a movie. But don't let anything go past an affectionate kiss or hug.
See who wants the other for sex, then. It will most likely be him.
2007-06-13 03:08:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
each and every beiginning has an end. So i replaced into questioning what else u predicted. Did he, besides to professing love also promise to marry u? If no longer then what's d issue? might want to he want sex continually if he did not like u? the blunders u are making is pleasing the sensation that u were doing him a favour by giving him sex and so now u sense that he has cheated u. substitute that options set and replace it with the sensation that u did all d sex because u loved it too and he wasn't using you. do not get again at him. basically pass on.
2016-11-23 17:12:01 · answer #3 · answered by fechter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was all taken aback- he obviously wasnt ready for that yet. However, i think, if you're already having sex, and sex should be about love and caring then you should love eachother.
It's fine you told him that but dont use it too much, or it wont mean anything.
Hopefully, he understands that he doesnt mean only sex to you!
<3
Good luck!
2007-06-13 03:07:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you didn't screw up, you told him how you felt!
If sex didn't stop it can't have bothered him that much.
Try just hanging out with him gf/bf style without the sex and see if that makes a difference.
He might be scared to tell you his feelings so give him time.
2007-06-13 03:05:31 · answer #5 · answered by Kym 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wasn't an accident, but if you think he might be a little bothered by your choice of words during an intimate session; i say blame it on the mood and great sex. lol
2007-06-13 03:05:28 · answer #6 · answered by plumprump26 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i think you just said what you feeling... But make sure he isnt using you for sex because you could get hurt.
Good luck and just go with what you feeling
2007-06-13 03:14:06 · answer #7 · answered by Babybear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one should be held responsible for what is said in a moment of passion. Next time when the urge hits, say something else, call out someones name, then when he ask who the hell that was, you can laugh and say the above statement.
2007-06-13 03:09:18 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No you didn't screw up. Maybe you should talk to him and be honest let him how you feel. He may feel the say way about you , but afraid to tell you his true feelings.
2007-06-13 03:06:28 · answer #9 · answered by Top Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didn't screw up at all, you simply expressed your feelings. although, sometimes it is hard for people to hear this if they do not love you, or if they feel you are moving too fast. you should wait to see how he acts now you've said it
2007-06-13 03:06:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋