there's this guy at my school and we're just in the flirting stages, but he says he loves (very strong word) me and he calls me sexy and beautiful on mxit... yeah we mxit ok! we don't really talk in "real life", but he's in my Sunday-school and we see each other there.
everytime he says he loves me, i just send a smiley back because i don't know what to do!!
i want your help to know if he likes me or only my looks? i asked him if i that was all i was and he replied that i was nice...
help
2007-06-13 03:41:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anneke B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get him to divulge his real feelings. Then pass judgment on that. There are crushes for props and there are crushes for love. Never go for the first.
Ps: thanks for before!
2007-06-13 04:09:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't really talked and hung out, chances are at this point he is attracted to you and that's good, but it is not a solid base for a relationship. He may be a player, guys don't use the L word loosely unless they think they can get something in return. You need to interact with him more, even in a crowd, you can tell a lot about a person by the way they act around other people. I don't trust that this guy's motives are all good.
2007-06-13 10:50:01 · answer #2 · answered by lippy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this is somewhat normal for a adolecent boy. He really cannot go too much further than saying all that. Since he is so young there is little likelyhood of him being around for a long time so just smile back and let yourself mature too. Don't get romantically involved at a young age.
2007-06-13 11:06:24 · answer #3 · answered by Mike R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use extreme caution here. When they "love" you so powerfully before knowing you, they often get possessive in a hurry. Your looks excite him.
Many unusually-pretty women have told me stories of guys who started out like this, and it quickly deteriorated. Many times, they got aggressive soon and began to shove the girl around and threaten her.
Use care.
2007-06-13 10:51:01 · answer #4 · answered by SaturnMan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In general, we gravitate around the things we like. So if he speaks mostly about your looks, that's what he likes.
If he talks to you about other things - your hopes, your dreams, how your day was, etc. - then he's interested in the whole package.
Most people - especially young people - confure LUST (physical attraction) with LOVE (a deep feeling on many levels).
Listen to what he talks to you about and what he asks you about.... then you'll know what he really likes about you.
2007-06-13 10:47:27 · answer #5 · answered by ookami007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would burst his little romantic bubble. Tell him that it is sweet he thinks he loves you but he does not even know you yet so he can't really be in love with you.
Then if you are of the mind to add, "but I would like to go out and get to know each other and see what happens, but please stop saying you love me, it makes me uncomfortable."
Men need things short and to the point sweetie.
- Inez
2007-06-13 10:48:30 · answer #6 · answered by Inez K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is immature. Sorry. He doesn't know any other thing to say to his girlfriend. Try to change the conversation up a bit.
2007-06-13 10:51:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep him at bay.. if he really wants to get know you.. he will respect you. If he does not, drop him and just be polite and friendly. He probably just want to get in your pants.
2007-06-13 10:46:14 · answer #8 · answered by sunnyw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes calling u sexy
yea just looks sorry pretty girl
2007-06-13 10:46:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not love...i'm 100% sure of that. young love rarly last. and if your pretty i'm sure it's your looks. to know if someone love you, you should talk to them and be personal with them. if he said i love you too fast it's probably not love.
2007-06-13 10:51:31 · answer #10 · answered by Joe L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋