Singles & Dating - 10 June 2007

long story cut short

Me and my boyfriend have only been together around 2 months. last week was a bad week for us me for my PMT and he kinda took the flack for it. He said he understood and just ignored me. He started being distant wed night and on friday he broke up with me. Telling me he doent no what he wants anymore, he wants to be alone and needs me time. I was devastated. And kept calling friday crying on the phone to him. saturday i tried so hard not to call but i had to and started crying again to him. i wen out sat night to take my mind off things and i told him i was going out. Sunday everything seemed a little easier and it felt like i was coping so much better. So i didnt feel the need to call him. But at 3pm the phone rang!!! It was him calling ME. 4TIMES. Just wanting a general chat i played it cool didngt cry or mention anything about the break up and sounded happy. is he missing me. do you think he will realise he does want me.

Sensible answers please.
xxx

2007-06-10 23:56:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

rum.I've been hiding it from my wife for years now and she caught me red handed and i told her i don't drink.
How do i get out of this.

2007-06-10 23:54:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

If your in a bar or a club and a guy comes over to you how would you most like him to start the conversation - offer to buy you a drink, use a cheesy chat up line, pay you a compliment, not approach and wait for you to make the first move or some other way?

2007-06-10 23:50:21 · 11 answers · asked by Spurs10 1

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2007-06-10 23:18:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i finally spoke to my boyfriend who has been distant with me and he said that if it wasn't our difference in religion he would never have been this way with me. He said that his parents would never agree to us together and they are very strict. He said his feelings for me are strong and that a year down the line this would be much harder so better to keep it friendly.

I told him i wanted him in my life and he agreed we should be friends. He spoke to me more than ever before, and as i've been diagnosed with cancer, he even cried over the phone too. I felt it was genuine, i don't know. He also told me that he never cheated, but i know he did because i have evidence but i want to just put that behind me and be friends. Is that a smart idea? or am i playing into his hands?.. i still love him so being a friend is going to be hard. Any tips on how i can make this work? i want to call him now but am holding back.. it is probably best we remain friends. Should i trust him now?

2007-06-10 22:37:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-10 22:37:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mom is the kinda girl who is in and out of alot of realationships. She has been married at least 4 times and everytime she says shes going to have a baby with that man.but then they get a divorce and she promises me she wont get married again. But now shes married AGAIN and she says shes going to have another baby with her husband and i think this time they are serious. shes even went to the doctor a couple of times and everything. im very upset about this because i dont know if this marrage will last long either and then what will happen with this baby. my dad was stuck raising me on my own since i was 2 and i dont want that to happen with my mom or her husband..Do i have a reason to be upset with my mom about this????or should i just be happy for her?

2007-06-10 22:31:35 · 3 answers · asked by Melly 2

I've arranged a few dates withe women, but found that most of them keep changing their mind at the last minute. I've chatted away to them on the phone and all seems well, but then after a while they seem to just lose interest. Then they refuse to answer my calls and respond to my texts even though they sounded really enthusiatic only a week or two ago. Why would they do this; it's a complete waste of time for both of us and I'm getting really fed up with it. They're all the same. All I get is a final text saying something like "sorry I won't be there" or just "sorry" (if anything). No explanation. Nothing.

I don't get many women show interest in me, but the ones that do just seem to mess me around. Does this sound familiar to anyone else or am I the only one who has this.

2007-06-10 22:28:40 · 13 answers · asked by Ray S 1

or to young to fall in love

2007-06-10 22:27:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have met 2 guys online who I have fallen in love with and they with me. One is 23 from the US and the other is 21 from Australia. Now the one from the US asked me to marry him and I said yes and this made the other guy made,saying he never wanted to speak to me again.
I have now learned that the other guy got mad because he wants to marry me.
What do I do. As I said I love them both and I dont want to hurt either of them.

2007-06-10 22:23:14 · 16 answers · asked by smehea 2

I want to try a few things with my partner, what do men like in bed? What would turn you on a lot?

2007-06-10 22:21:32 · 22 answers · asked by aihsacak 1

I am the type of girl who has never had a boyfriend, and am completely inexperienced at flirting with boys, even though I am 19!! I avoid all eye contact, and limit my conversations to yes or no answers. Normally, I am a funny and witty person, but whenever I talk to guys I think are attractive or cute, I freeze up. Recently, I started liking one of my good friends, and was surprised to find that he was hitting on me one night. I know that he was trying to make a move on me, but everything he tried, I deflected it. It is not because I was trying to play hard to get. I just don’t know what to do when I am in that type of situation. I know that I should have been excited that he liked me, but instead I was a freaked out. Now I do not know what to do when I am around him. Any suggestions? I want to start something with him, but am so terrified that it will ruin our friendship. What would you do to show that you are still interested, but still play it safe in case he isn’t any more?

2007-06-10 22:02:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

life is so very unfair.we dnt get wht we want n we always want wht we dnt hav.jus dnt knw y????????????

2007-06-10 21:54:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 19 years old and have never had a boyfriend in my life. It is not like i am hideous either. I am attracted to guys, but I am terrified of commitment. My problem is that I can have a crush on a boy, but when i find out that he is actually interested in me as well, i immediately lose interest. Am i going to be single for the rest of my life??? Andd, if i did have the opportunity to get a boyfriend, I would be so embarrassed to tell him that I have never had one before in my life. Would you think there was something wrong with a girl who told you that she has never had a boyfriend before? This is just another excuse I use to block myself from relationships

2007-06-10 21:19:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

What eye color are you more attracted to?

2007-06-10 21:15:23 · 14 answers · asked by yolkyolk 5

2007-06-10 21:15:09 · 1 answers · asked by rarejewels23 1

Hi it's the usual ...
I have met this gorgeous boy. We saw each other 4 times last week.. he has texted me emailed me etc. But I saw him last friday and tected him the next day saying I liked him.(he texted back saying he likes me too and we could have something special) and now he has suddenly stopped texting me. I really like this boy and don'y know how to get over it if he stops getting in contact!I wouldnt mind but it's not as if he doesnt have any means of contacting me!
Please reply!

2007-06-10 20:41:21 · 9 answers · asked by stunnin_always 1

change one thing about ur gf/bf/partner what would it be?

2007-06-10 20:28:13 · 15 answers · asked by Kristy 4

he calls you first every morning and last thing at night.sends u text messages during the day.always visits.says he loves you so much and he'll do anything to prove it.always talks with you and listenes to you but you havent accepted to be his girlfriend.one day you find a text on his phone to another girl sayin how he treasures her and will always cherish her and that she's so beautiful and he sometimes thinks about both of them beign together.what do you think, does he really love you or the other girl? is he a player? is he confused? guys please give your opinion

2007-06-10 20:26:57 · 43 answers · asked by **NoUr** 1

I am 24 and she is 53. Why is that too big when we are in love?

2007-06-10 20:13:45 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

hi,everyone..i dont understand why i suddenly think back many things..i think back the day that incident happened..i felt so scary..i still could feel the pain inside me..my heart beats so fast..i still remember it very clear..maybe it happened too sudden already..i just couldn't accept even though i know i have to..we had lots of sweet memories but everything i ever knew,is a lie..i think back everything we did together..we says together..everything about us..but till now,i dont know whether its all true out from her heart or what..im so confused..i told many things to myself..ask myself to wake up,dont think about her anymore,dont expect anything from her..n some of u were right with ur speech..it made me decided not to call her n msg her anymore..but i still miss her so much..i said to myself that i will still be happy without her but.................why like that??

2007-06-10 20:13:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive been with my boyfriend for a month and also i have a daughter which is a year he is really sweet

2007-06-10 20:09:47 · 4 answers · asked by sweet 1

Its been a day and I have my own room next to his unbearable mother.Im 5 months pregnant with his baby.I broke up with him because we fight so much mostly about his mom who is problematic for me which I will explain in a second.I reject my ex when he trys to kiss me or call me baby because that is what couples do to eachother.I see him tear up and he hurts me inside so I want to hug him but I cant because nurturing is what I would do if we were together.I feel if we are not together then its the best because my thoughts, and opinons dont need to be said which doesnt cause the conflict which is him not listening.I'll just keep my distance to save my daily stress and misery which what is was while we were together.About the mom let me type some things she does to give you the understanding.
1.constantly nags to him or us even outside the door or when hes in the bathroom
2.Intrudes on me when Im cooking,or cleaning
3.Tells me how to keep our puppy ,listens to us have sex ect.....

2007-06-10 19:09:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

So my girlfriend is leaving for the summer to work at a summer camp, and I wont be able to see her for a while, would you think it would be sweet if I sent her flowers to her camp about a month after she left? Would it make her feel cared about or do you think it would just embaress her around the people shes working with? I want her to know Im thinking about her but I dont want her to just get embrassed over it if they show up at her camp and her boss gives them to her lol.

2007-06-10 18:49:19 · 4 answers · asked by teh_masta_of_all 2

which one is harder to say? saying something ull regret later? or saying no words at all that hopefully you've had?

2007-06-10 18:48:20 · 8 answers · asked by heaven 1

on the last day of school, my friend decided to be a *****. i had a huge crush on my guy friend who waz hinting he liked me back. i mean we hugged, talked and held hands allt he time! she knew it to. she came to me and waz like "i think he likes me. would u be mad if i asked him out?" i told her i probably would. he said no. he said his mom wouldnt let him date. that waz a lie. she forced him and told him that she wouldnt find out. She waz all over him all night. when i wouldnt talk to him, he kept trying to get me back. "megan, dont be mad. come on! megan......" and he would hug me and stuff. i told him i had the rightto be mad. then my "friend" started crying cuz i waz mad at her. duh! so i wouldnt talk to either of them and left for the summer angry (actually, i waz really sad.) i almost cried the whole night.
he went over to a friends house that night and said he felt really bad about me. he sadi that he liked me alot and that he didnt even like her. he didnt wanna date ehr in the

2007-06-10 18:47:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK I HAD BOUT 3 4 5 BOYFRIENDS BUT I STILL NEED HELP CUZ WHEN IM AROUND BOYZ (THAT I LIKE) I TEND 2 GET NERVES AND SHY BUT I DON'T KNOW HOW 2 LET THEM KNOW THAT I LIKE THEM I GUESS IM SAYING I DON'T KNOW HOW 2 FLIRT

2007-06-10 18:47:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-10 18:46:22 · 2 answers · asked by ? 2

I have recently met a boy who I really like. However, there is this other boy who I have been talking on the phone with since January (on and off) . How do I tell this other boy that I have found a boyfriend without hurting his feelings?

2007-06-10 18:43:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, I am not a virgin, I had sex with one girl who was a virgin (or so she told me), now I am going out with another girl, she had sex with one man as well. We both have practically the same expierence, but for some reason, I cant accept that she is not a virgin. By the way, she doesnt know I care.

So the question is, what is it that makes me feel like this, is it that she is second hand to me, or that I feel she will compare me to previous boyfriend, what is it.

And how can I come to terms with it.

I know its wrong for me to be a hypocrite but I need help please, thank you.

2007-06-10 18:38:07 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous