he calls you first every morning and last thing at night.sends u text messages during the day.always visits.says he loves you so much and he'll do anything to prove it.always talks with you and listenes to you but you havent accepted to be his girlfriend.one day you find a text on his phone to another girl sayin how he treasures her and will always cherish her and that she's so beautiful and he sometimes thinks about both of them beign together.what do you think, does he really love you or the other girl? is he a player? is he confused? guys please give your opinion
2007-06-10 20:26:57 · 43 answers · asked by **NoUr** 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
plus he's your very close friend, like your best friend in all the guys i know.you were both best friend befor he started asking you out
2007-06-10 20:36:50 · update #1
he is a player... he doesn't love either girl, he is trying to play with both girls....
2007-06-10 20:29:44 · answer #1 · answered by I Heart 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Player
2007-06-10 20:29:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is a big time PLAYER!!! He doesn't really love either of you the way he claims to!! He just wants to use both of you for benefits,And get what he can when he can.. He probably has a few other ladies out there that you don't even know about yet. He is just setting you up to be one of his girls, And if you get involved with a guy like this,Then you can expect heartache and disappointment for a long time. I would advice you to dump him and find someone that will treat you with the respect and tenderness that you deserve. Someone who will really love you for who you are, And won't treat you like a plaything. I sincerely hope that you find that person who can make you happy and will be there for you. I hope this helped you and i wish you well!!
2007-06-10 20:40:02 · answer #3 · answered by master_escrimador 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He could be a player, BUT you say he's one of your best friends. Is he telling you he loves you as a friend? Reason being, I have been in my relation ship with my partner for nearly 7 years. We have a very close friendship with our friends, who have been in their relationship for 15 years. We've all been friends together since me and partner became a couple. Before then, my partner was friends with both of thme but not as close as we all are now. When I speak to them on the phone, I always tell whoever it is on the other end "love you both" in closing to our conversation. And we do love our friends, but it's more of a brotherly/sisterly love.
You need to look at this for what it really is, rather than what you would like it to be.
His messages though do certainly seem to be more than just very closely friendly, and it would certainly appear he's a bit of a womaniser. Steer clear.
2007-06-19 11:01:19 · answer #4 · answered by Loulla 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is just a player and u should just leve hum and move on but u should try to tell the other girl so she dose not get hurt, he'll play both of u until u 2 take a stand and there may be a chance she knows about and is woundering that same thing, do what u think u should do.
2007-06-18 13:50:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the only way to find out, is to ask him. You might want to leave out the part about reading his texts though. Honestly, it sounds like he is playing both of you, but you won't know for sure until you confront him. Or, you could call his other girlfriend up, and let her know that he is involved with the both of you, so that you can confront him together. Good Luck!
2007-06-18 19:08:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he's playing you and probably making you and the other girl look silly in the process. You don't think he shows those text messages to all his buddies. Don't you show yours to your girlfriends?? He is not confused, he's playing the field like most young men do. If you are looking to be in a monogamous relationship, get as far away from this guy as you can and find someone who only wants to be with you........
2007-06-18 17:42:13 · answer #7 · answered by Missouri Mick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy who has self respect could not play this game. And if he does not respect himself, he will not respect you, even if the relationship ever did become one to one, instead of one to who knows how many. Remember, you only became aware of that one other individual. Since we are not all-knowing, you'd best act on what little you know, and dump him like a bad case of dandruff. Before you find out how many others he loves the best. Remember that STD's could be waiting around the corner if you are not careful.
2007-06-18 18:24:41 · answer #8 · answered by healthsys2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, Im sure he knows exactly what hes doing! Theres no confusion there. Hey, hes just playing the field. The question is tho, is that what youre looking for? If not, then call it quits. Yeah, he shoulda let you know up front that hes not dating you exclusively, but just remember....its that y chromosome. Dont be so quick to be mesmerized by someone who tells you he loves you, cuz not only may his definition of love differ from yours, but he may have ulterior motives for saying it! If youre that stressed over him, then just move on.
2007-06-18 16:10:02 · answer #9 · answered by Debbie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The word love is used too loosely now a days, it is a word that is suppose to be endearing and reserved for that special someone, but when it comes to trying to obtain pantie pud-din, it is thrown out all the time, and everyone catches it along with other things. Leave him to the other and you move on and enjoy yourself and you will find someone that will say the "love" word and mean it. God Bless.
2007-06-19 00:52:43 · answer #10 · answered by Bethy4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a player. He's a dog. I see more than one lady at a time, but I never break they heart because I'm straight up. They know what's up from day 1! I don't hide nothin! Maybe you need to find a real man.
2007-06-18 19:04:25 · answer #11 · answered by Steve W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋