OK I HAD BOUT 3 4 5 BOYFRIENDS BUT I STILL NEED HELP CUZ WHEN IM AROUND BOYZ (THAT I LIKE) I TEND 2 GET NERVES AND SHY BUT I DON'T KNOW HOW 2 LET THEM KNOW THAT I LIKE THEM I GUESS IM SAYING I DON'T KNOW HOW 2 FLIRT
2007-06-10 18:47:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok look i like 2 type in caps so u can shut up and i did not say that i had all them bf in 1 tim period and if u think flirting makes me look like a whoe then oh well so be it
2007-06-10 19:06:07 · update #1
imo flirting usually makes you look like a whore.
2007-06-10 18:51:03 · answer #1 · answered by bootleg 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Imagine standing in line...It sucks to have to wait for someone in front of you to make a decision. Imagine you, standing in line with 4 other girls just for this one dude. How would that make you feel? Does the other 4 boys know that they are in competition for you? I'd be willing to bet that if they found out, you selections would diminish. If you are loving the attention of these 4 or 5 guys all wanting you..imagine what this looks like in the public eye...imagine the whispers that are being said about you...
Flirting is an art. One that takes time to develop. Practice being friendly and kind...don't let your hormonal imbalance dictate what is in your heart. I am certain that out of those 4 or 5 guys, there is one that sparks your interest. Wouldn't it be grand to devote your attention this one guy?
2007-06-18 16:23:33 · answer #2 · answered by trujrnyfan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what gender you are, no one likes to hear the word "NO!" Experience has taught me that most people will put the other gender on a pedestal and live with the belief that they are not good enough for the other person. No one should be put on a pedestal because when you get kicked off it is mainly the person who put you there doesn't feel you lived up to "their" expectations of who you should be. When a guy likes you, it should be for who you are and they should never be looking for faults. When they find one fault with you they will continue to do so. Real love will know that you have quirks, idiosyncracies, different habits and everything else that caused them to be attracted to you, but they will never see these as faults, just you being you and they will always love you for them. The prettiest women are the loneliest! Why? Because guys are afraid of hearing "no,' just the same as women are. My friends always asked me how I could walk up to any woman and talk to her, the answer was simple, they are just "people."
2007-06-18 16:42:31 · answer #3 · answered by Angel D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try more until you realize that relationship is not like 3 or 4 bf. Put a tag behind your back and stand in front of the every new guys you want to tell that you like him but you are shy. This way you can tell the boy that you like him. Or visit to a mental doctors who can help you. Poor you!!!
2007-06-18 21:39:11 · answer #4 · answered by june_the_21st 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, STOP TYPING IN CAPS!
I know a girl in high school and she had 3 boyfriends in a period of 30 days... All of the guys called her names and she was not to nice to me... Don't take so many guys i just looks bad!
2007-06-10 18:52:14 · answer #5 · answered by Matt 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just when you are around him show that you have an opinion and personality and that you are smart and mature and sometimes make eye contact and smile.i am a girl and it almost always works at least he becomes interested in you as a person and then later you will have enough opportunities to make him like you
2007-06-19 11:05:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i dont hink you should go out of your way to flirt with a guy cuz if you meet a guy that is compatable with you then you kind of meet in the middle and he will like you for who you are
i sewar to god i am giving up on guys cuz all they seem to care about is getting a peice of ***
2007-06-18 16:03:08 · answer #7 · answered by Laura V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all u can do is be yourself if he doesn't like that move on. as for flirting just smile walk up and start a conversation. that is all guys need for an invitation
2007-06-18 18:28:25 · answer #8 · answered by santana91302 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the next time you see him give him a hug and make it last for 20 secs. when giving him a hug your hands should be on the lower back as this shows you lk him. u should also pay him lots of compliments but hell no if you lk him.
2007-06-19 06:19:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be friendly but not overly flirtatious or agressive. This will let a guy know you like them and are interested.
2007-06-18 16:16:44 · answer #10 · answered by Ms. Common Sense 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to flirt with so many. Don't go for more than one, you'll end up in shreds.
Acting innocent is the best.
2007-06-10 19:11:11 · answer #11 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋