Its been a day and I have my own room next to his unbearable mother.Im 5 months pregnant with his baby.I broke up with him because we fight so much mostly about his mom who is problematic for me which I will explain in a second.I reject my ex when he trys to kiss me or call me baby because that is what couples do to eachother.I see him tear up and he hurts me inside so I want to hug him but I cant because nurturing is what I would do if we were together.I feel if we are not together then its the best because my thoughts, and opinons dont need to be said which doesnt cause the conflict which is him not listening.I'll just keep my distance to save my daily stress and misery which what is was while we were together.About the mom let me type some things she does to give you the understanding.
1.constantly nags to him or us even outside the door or when hes in the bathroom
2.Intrudes on me when Im cooking,or cleaning
3.Tells me how to keep our puppy ,listens to us have sex ect.....
2007-06-10 19:09:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to get out of that nut house. It is not healthy for you nor will it be healthy for your baby to grow up there. Can you move back in with your parents, older sibling, or another relative? Whatever you do you make sure that you take him to court and get child support.
2007-06-10 19:14:52 · answer #1 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do all 3 of you live together or something? Thats pretty weird but it sounds like he still cares for you a lot. Maybe you need to lay it on the line, he needs to deal with his mom or you have to move on.
Just a thought...does she mean well? Really, is she just trying to get the two of you to do what's best.
um, and what makes you think she's listening in on the sex?
2007-06-11 02:14:53 · answer #2 · answered by angelfish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very much simple you need to be very cool and calm in this situation, because if you have patience and if you are willing to forget the painful situation of your life then it is better to switch on to some exciting moment which you have enjoyed with your fiance, do not let your fiance forego the exciting moment which you have enjoyed in the tinyest and cutest way be understanding and always smile and make some compromise with the mother of your fiance try to get simple and friendly with your fiance mother get to know her likes and dislikes so as to go to closest to the heart of your fiance and her mother.
Bye take care and have happy life,
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Yours Sincerely,
Rocky
2007-06-11 02:21:30 · answer #3 · answered by rocky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough situation. You live with your ex and his mother... and you are pregnant with his child. I say you guys need to get back together, and start talking... and get your own place. There is no way that relationship was going to survive like that. I also suggest you two get couples counseling.... it will help a lot. At least give it a shot with him, because it doesn´t seem like you are ready to take care of yourself, much less you and the baby.
2007-06-11 02:14:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out! It'll solve all the problems. Seems your boyfriend is responsible enough to stick with you when you got pregnant. Are you gonna let his mum jeopardize your relationship? Sounds to me you are both still quite young.
2007-06-11 02:17:09 · answer #5 · answered by angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you and your boyfriend should've moved out on your own. to let his mother interfere with your relationship was the worst thing you could do.
2007-06-11 02:13:10 · answer #6 · answered by just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋