confused !!!!?

Question

hi,everyone..i dont understand why i suddenly think back many things..i think back the day that incident happened..i felt so scary..i still could feel the pain inside me..my heart beats so fast..i still remember it very clear..maybe it happened too sudden already..i just couldn't accept even though i know i have to..we had lots of sweet memories but everything i ever knew,is a lie..i think back everything we did together..we says together..everything about us..but till now,i dont know whether its all true out from her heart or what..im so confused..i told many things to myself..ask myself to wake up,dont think about her anymore,dont expect anything from her..n some of u were right with ur speech..it made me decided not to call her n msg her anymore..but i still miss her so much..i said to myself that i will still be happy without her but.................why like that??

Answer 1

coz its like dat... lol
u'll surely forget her... find another one... gud luck

Answer 2

There is a personality clash taking place in you, be careful. The way you expressed is painting a picture that you are a lost case with out having any determinations about your love life. Be an optimist and lead life with strong hope and determination. Then only you will lead successful life other wise you will lead a dis-satisfactory life with out goals.

Answer 3

I have enough troubles of my own and reading your question has increased my trouble me even further. Why do you want to do this? Please have pity and spare us. Are we responsible for what you are undergoing? Finally in the last line you have admitted that "you will still be happy without her". Then why all this tantrum and drama. Be happy and forget the past.
P.S. No offence my friend. Just kidding in the first few lines

Answer 4

Well, I am confused because apparently you are going through a terrible breakup with someone you care for so intensly that you cannot think of anything else. However, it seems that you must have shared this info on yahoo answers before because your question (this one) just launched right into it midstream), I however was not privy to the facts and circumastances that brought you to this point but I can lend you some advice that is applicable I believe in just about every situation whether we like it or not and whether we want it to be or not. The Ending of a poweful love or a relationshio (or even just a temporary hiatus from it) can be the most painful emotion known to mankind. I do believe that every single one of us at some point in our lives have or will go through this and will experience this pain.Each of us handle the pain differently, thst does not in any way mean that any of us feel it any less or that it effects us any less or hurts us any less, some people are just much better at masking their pain. Some people throw themself full force into something that like work or family so that they are forced to occupy their day and as much of their night with other thoughts, anything you can do to take your mind off of your pain, because if you sit and reminesce all day and go through old momentos and old love letters cards, etc and re live and go voer and over conversations in your head of past things said between the two of you trying to decide if it was all a lie or if she ever loved you at all etc., you will drive yourself crazy and no person is worth that and you certainly are worth far more than that. They say time heels all wounds, well who are "THEY" It sounds liek you were really hurt bad, but not having all the info I cannor really give you much more than this. If you truly love this person, I am not suggesting that you ever give up, BUT YOU MUST BACK OFF AND GIVE HER SPACE OR YOU WILL ONLY MAKE THINGS EORSE, ALIENATE HER, CAUSER HER TO SEE YOU AS NEEDY and we all knw that people become less and less attractive to us the needier and more clingier they appear. From personal experience I can tell you that I left my "long time love" and I hurt him very badly, he never gave up, but he persisted too much at first and he drove me further and further away. we eventually remarried. I hurt him again (this was all my fault i do admit, i had maor iaaues dealing with a rape and i could not let anyone love me until i learned to love myself) to make a long story short, i fell in love with soemone else and i left him again and he hurt so much it pained me to evne look at him and hten he became mean and bitter. then the stangest thing happened. this man i though would love me forever who could not possibly get over me, appaerently he finally met someone, all these years later, who helped him do just that, and whenhe no longer ewanted me, guess what....yep, just like they say, i realized what i had lost, but this time it was too late, for real, i was too little too late in my aologizies ec. i thougth about habgingb on an dnot giving up on him (like he did me) then i relaized that after all the pain i had cause dhim over the years, if i truly do love him, and he has finallyt ofund love that does not hurt, then the best way i can prove my love is to let him go and gracefully ealk awa, guess who is the one crying herself to sleep now..???? But i take my own advice and keep busy and keep my mind occupied and focused on what I DO HAVE , MY CHILDREN AND MY JOB.
GOOD LUCK TO YOU
DON'T PUSH HER AWAY ANY MORE BY HANGING ON

Answer 5

hey dear stop worrying and get on with life

there r still a lot of people who love u and trust u and would do anything 4 u.

Answer 6

Missing may be problem and not forgetting. Therefor forget.

Answer 7

You still like her.

Answer 8

surely its really like that, anyway, i suggest you look for another one who is deserving enough for you, be happy and forget her... lol
she will feel sorry that she let you go... she will realize it soon...

Answer 9

You're confused?? Im confused just reading that..