Singles & Dating - 10 June 2007

After 22 yrs of marriage, 4 yrs ago I found myself back on the dating scene. With not many places in my town to meet people my age, and after a few failed attempts at other relationships I decided to try the dating websites. I have been matched with who I thought to be some very nice men. After only a short conversation each one brings up sex. I can tell they are seeing if they can get me to cyber with them. If I were interested in cyber sex I would go to the sites where that is done. Why cant these men understand that not every woman wants to talk about sex right away. Yes it is an important part of a relationship, and I am no prude, trust me. I have wondered if maybe this is a way they are weeding out the good from the bad, to see if the woman is easy or if she is someone they would trust. But when they see I am not easy, they move on. Is there not anyone left that wants to get to know someone before jumping into bed with them or that does want a good trustworthy woman?

2007-06-10 09:55:34 · 9 answers · asked by Cathy S 3

2007-06-10 09:54:11 · 14 answers · asked by justin 2

Ok, there's a boy I have like for over a year.

About a year ago I told him I liked him, and he basically rejected me (he was nice about it). I think he was kinda freaked out about it.

Since then, we've spoken on occasions, but more recently, we've been speaking and messing around in lessons.

We've both left school now, and only go in to do exams. We haven't spoken since we left school about 3 weeks ago.

I still like him so much, but I'm not sure what to do about it. Should I forget it? Make a move? Just be friends?

I'm not sure what signs he'd give if he liked me, as he's shy and doesn't seem to have much experience of girls.

I'm worried about what to do, as time is running out (we're going to different sixth forms). I don't want to miss any opportunity to be with him, but would I just be making a fool of myself again?

Any advice would be very appreciated :)

2007-06-10 09:54:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i never break up with guys, they all break up with me.

2007-06-10 09:47:27 · 7 answers · asked by bAiLeY 1

my mom said the reason boys tease me is because that SECRETLY they like me my mom had her own personal experience because i have come from a long line of girls that have been teased in my family ALOT but once the got to high school the boys started to REALLY like them. But if the boys think im so pretty why don't they just tell me?? ever since i was born boys have called me nothing but UGLY and now im in middle school and i have to watch cute boys flirt with cute girls. When will my turn come?? I WISH I LOOKED LIKE BEYONCE' but im just so ugly HELP SOMEBODY PLEASE EXPLAIN BOYS TO ME THEY ARE SO WEIRD!!

2007-06-10 09:43:38 · 8 answers · asked by Tequan and Cami 2

for me, i am tired of the make up, and brake up life style, it comes a time in every man life, when he need to step up to the plate, choose 1 woman, and try to love that woman for the rest of their life, or he can wait to long, and wake up, nite after nite in his bed alone, not for me!!, i cant wait for the day i wake up, look next to me, and the woman of my dreams is their, and the birds are singing, and she looks over to me, and tells me she loves me, to me, that how life should be!!!

2007-06-10 09:38:37 · 12 answers · asked by hardybody111 1

i'm 13. and in grade 7. in my school there are 2 grade 7 classes, english and french. everyone in the english class has had sex before. their teacher does sex-ed with them. nobody in my class has done it. and my teacher doesn't believe in teaching us sex-ed. my boyfriend wants to do it. my question is, does the boy or the girl put on the condom?

2007-06-10 09:23:07 · 58 answers · asked by joelle a 1

He drives all the way to pick me up to dates. He pays for everything during the dates. He opens the doors. He loves to take my pictures. He uses my pictures as wallpaper to his phone. He tells me about his family. But he hasn't kissed me or hold my hands yet. We met last November and we've been going out since March. Is he just dating me for fun or is he serious? I'm so worried becasue i like him and don't want to loose him.

2007-06-10 09:16:32 · 17 answers · asked by My Dear 2

I'm an adult woman and has it 's come to my wonder and discovery that maybe the first one or two dates would be best during the daytime instead of during the " cloak " of night that hints more towards thoughts of touching, romance etc.

First dates should be about being allowed to know about the person through sharing conversation...sharing thoughts, maybe a fun, respectable, activity such as bike ride, or walk to somewhere to look at something etc.

Your thoughts ?
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2007-06-10 09:13:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-10 09:09:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-10 08:50:46 · 8 answers · asked by Daniel R 2

i like a guy from school and have his phone number...i dont know how to ask him out or get him on the phone. i m just really nervous...any help?

2007-06-10 08:45:16 · 8 answers · asked by guitar*rules 2

..if yes, why do you think you do?

2007-06-10 08:42:07 · 16 answers · asked by cockneyboy 2

2007-06-10 08:39:19 · 26 answers · asked by apple 5

My daughter will be a high school senior (we are American) and she was an exchange student in Latin America and is bilingual. 4 months ago she met a "23-year-old" man on a penpal site, but, I have heard his voice and it sounds much older, and his choice of music seems more for older men (tango), and claims he is in college for Engineering, yet, he knows no English at all. He has sent one grainy photo that you can't see his face, he has no webcam, he has sent no photos any other way, yet says he has traveled to Brazil and other South American countries. My daughter is a romantic and wants to study abroad in Spain to be near him (she has not had sex yet), and she is an honor student. Is it normal not having a webcam in Spain, to still be in college at 23 and not know any English at all? Why does he not send photos, or borrow a webcam at a friend's house, and doesn't like "younger" music (raggeton, pop, rock,) She believes him but I don't. I fear for her & appreciate feedback. Help

2007-06-10 08:38:23 · 15 answers · asked by Isabella 3

Ok...So i was around with my girlfriend and she saw on something that i used to call my old girlfriend "sweetcheeks" and she has kind of wanted/hinted that she wants to be called a nickname like that too...and Im going blank here...i thought about a hawaiian word because i love the language and everything...but idk...any suggestions on what to do OR any nicknames?

2007-06-10 08:36:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

do you look at all races as a potential partner

2007-06-10 08:36:14 · 10 answers · asked by raradaone 2

okay, so like i met this boy in september in a chatroom i barely knew anyone. this was while starting middle school. then like i met this boy. & started talking like ALOT. aha`. dont freak he's not an internet predator. i met him at school too. everyone thought i liked him. i just thought i was a person meeting another one. anyways his gf went all psyco making sht up about me & crp. anyways, everyone hated me. i got over that crp & everyone got to know me. but later me & that boy drifted apart. we stoped talking & i would do anything to talk to him again. i sound all psyco & all but he really makes me smile & all. just his personality i guess. then like i set him up w/ another girl & i hoped that it wouldnt work out & it didnt. but while he was with her he was talking to me like CRAZY. now he wont talk to me like he used to. & i'm trying to get that conversation going. i care about everything he does. what his friends do. i think of him ALOT & what would happen if he happens to like me

2007-06-10 08:32:00 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well I really like this girl in school and so I added to myspace and we chatted kind of often but what's weird it's that she never talks to me in person only through myspace, But now it's been like a month since we haven't chat or talked in school, and yesterday i left her a messege telling her how's she's been and what she's been up to and to message me back! and let me know but she just read the message but she never answers back, and I told my friend and she's like she so rude to you why do you like this girl? and then I thought It is rude to not message back, So does anyone thinks that this is rude as well?

Oh and also on the past I have left her messages as well (not a lot though) and she never replied back she just read them, and I'm so sure about that.

2007-06-10 08:28:32 · 13 answers · asked by Vicz101 5

Thanks for giving opinions, I very much appreciate it...

I am trying to figure out a typical MAN behaviour when he wants OUT and has dumped his girlfriend.

he has told me :
1) I had screwed him up big time
2) It took him a lot of effort but he is 'out' and 'never going back to that ERA again'
3) My dignity is important. You had zero respect for me. Your personal situation (my mum died and my dad has cancer) is NOT an excuse for the serious abuse you inflicted on me.

YET he says to me:
1) You are confused. When you see the big picture, come to me, clear headed, and then we can talk
2) Sit and think long and hard. Ask yourself 'what do I want'? And once you know, you have to work at it to get it
3) We cannot be friends as long as your mind is confused

His actions:
Whenever I contact him now, he is very quick to respond (except for last night where he texted late, apologising, then called me this morning).

IS THERE HOPE? is he open ? wants me to change? or that's it?

2007-06-10 08:17:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

do you all like that, girls making the first move i mean. i always feel like hes not onto me, which he probably isnt... i think i might like this relationship for the physical attributes , and maybe he does too. im always walking up to him, ringing him, IMing him. .. i want him to want to do stuff for me!!
oh please help. im such a ruddy mess.

2007-06-10 08:14:15 · 5 answers · asked by that girl next door 1

Ok so over the summer alot alot alot has changed about me and I like it. But everytime I tell someone about it they don't believe me. I really have changed but they no one believes me. What should I do?

2007-06-10 08:12:51 · 8 answers · asked by kkjdrb1992 1

WHAT do i do PLZZ i want her to say yes!!! i nedd to be her bf

2007-06-10 08:08:17 · 13 answers · asked by leer 2

2007-06-10 08:06:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 2 years and have a terrific relationship. We rarely argue and I could count the number of ights we've had on one hand. This past year we went to different colleges and this fall we will both be at the same school. One issue that we do argue about it alcohol. He drinks and I don't. He's supportive of my decisiona nd never pressures me but it makes me nervous to have him drinking and partying and not having me around. Do you think this relationship will work? Any suggestions?

2007-06-10 08:03:25 · 12 answers · asked by Lilly M 2

i've found 1 woman on here, that i consired to be a stong woman of God, God took woman, and carved, and molded here, compress her untill she became a fine piece of jewery, the he polish her off, and present her to adam, this is why i think that womaen are so beautiful, as long as a man seek him first, he will give us the desire's of are heart, he made woman, individually, 1 for every man, As men we need to learn how to love them, like christ loved the church, and their is alot of Godly men avialable, so women of God, where are you at?

2007-06-10 08:02:11 · 7 answers · asked by hardybody111 1

My ex left me and our son for the 2nd time just after new year for a girl he works with,i`ve met her once when we were still together and instantly disliked her.Anyway my ex has started taking our son overnight.When he left i vowed my son will never be in her company and when he was dropping him off yesterday my ex asked if this was still the case as he and her are moving in together soon,i felt ill but pretended i was ok,i just hate the thought of my son being in the company of the girl his dad left us for.My son has learning difficulties and wouldnt be able to let me know if she is ok with him.I dont know what to do as i want him to know his dad but cant bear the thought of them playing happy families with our child,please help as i`m going insane thinking about it?

2007-06-10 08:01:10 · 20 answers · asked by onlyme 5

ok this is a girl who is so in luv with her self do you think she is hott?
she has..
small brown eyes
large and oldly shaped nose
big mouth small teeth
fair skin
great hair
tall
extremely smart
not very sporty
only talks about herself
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WOULD YOU DATE HER??