He drives all the way to pick me up to dates. He pays for everything during the dates. He opens the doors. He loves to take my pictures. He uses my pictures as wallpaper to his phone. He tells me about his family. But he hasn't kissed me or hold my hands yet. We met last November and we've been going out since March. Is he just dating me for fun or is he serious? I'm so worried becasue i like him and don't want to loose him.
2007-06-10 09:16:32 · 17 answers · asked by My Dear 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My god someone who not only has manners but respects his woman, most likely shy, next date thank him and give him a kiss.
2007-06-10 09:20:06 · answer #1 · answered by Pengy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you like him and dont want to lose him, just hang on. Maybe he is of old school (old fashioned) and wants to wait until the appropriate time to hold you hand or kiss you. I would have to say he must be one of a kind to have been going out this long with no contact at all. I know you have been patient. Maybe it would be best to just talk to him about this and see where that takes you. I would find it odd as well, but to move on??? no, not yet. See what he has to say first then make a decision.
2007-06-10 16:22:33 · answer #2 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's serious. What guy would go through all that just for fun??? Maybe he's a little shy or maybe he doesn't want to come on to strong. Try holding hands, or try to make the frist move to kiss him. See how he reacts. If he resist try talking to him about it.
2007-06-10 16:23:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont want to continue wasting your time if you want something more. My suggestion would be to come out and ask him how he really feels and you tell him the same. This might be an opening to discuss what you are really looking for in this relationship. If he just wants to be friends, then you will know where you stand and can move forward with or without him.
2007-06-10 16:25:01 · answer #4 · answered by Jes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was you i would go in for a kiss or to hold his hand. Make the first move. you know girls now days have the grip on the relationship if you know what i mean. so just go ahead and make the first step. he could be shy.
2007-06-10 16:24:14 · answer #5 · answered by layla. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask him the same thing you just asked us. If you're going to have any sort of relationship, you need to COMMUNICATE.
It could be that he is waiting for some clue from you that it would be okay to kiss you or hold your hand. He may be really old-fashioned... only he knows. So ask him!!
2007-06-10 16:20:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want him. send him my way. JK. Have you tried to make the first move? If no, then try it. If you have tried making the move, then you should talk to him. Relationships are all about communication and if you can't communicate openly then you should move on.He sounds like he is crazy about you and good guys like that are hard to find.
2007-06-10 16:22:15 · answer #7 · answered by In My Red High Heels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
geezzzz... for real, whats the problem again? he is good to you and that's not enough... well you must not have very much experience if you feel the urge to just walk away from a "nice" guy... I think you'll loose this one because you just don't want yourself to be happy...
2007-06-10 16:22:38 · answer #8 · answered by I Heart 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion he does like you but he's probably afraid of moving too fast with you and possibly ruinning it. Maybe in his past he moved too quickly and so he's afraid that the same thing will happen with you. I think you should talk to him about it.
Good luck! ^_^
2007-06-10 16:21:41 · answer #9 · answered by ⓡⓐⓠⓤⓔⓛ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems very respectable but you can only tell if this is for real or something casual. Let him know how you feel and what you want and what you are ready for. Then see what he says!
2007-06-10 16:19:44 · answer #10 · answered by mdaneshrsenior9990272 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋