do you all like that, girls making the first move i mean. i always feel like hes not onto me, which he probably isnt... i think i might like this relationship for the physical attributes , and maybe he does too. im always walking up to him, ringing him, IMing him. .. i want him to want to do stuff for me!!
oh please help. im such a ruddy mess.
2007-06-10 08:14:15 · 5 answers · asked by that girl next door 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some guys just don't do the whole sweet thing, they just don't make the first move.
Thankfully, I do have a guy that is very loving and affectionate.
2007-06-10 08:17:31 · answer #1 · answered by raysgirl15 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy is mature enough, ...and...if you have been dating for awhile, then the guy will make the first move. It should be the guys move, anyway, so he should let you know what he wants.
When I was dating the girl of my dreams, I always made the first move on her, and if she wasn't ready for whatever I did, she'd usually tell me so.
I was lucky though, and she was always eager to do whatever I wanted to do, because we were in love with each other. It took seven months before she was ready for love making, and when that happened, it was her idea, which was the way it should have been, anyway. So, let the guy make the first move on you.
He should also be the first one to say, "I love you", instead of you telling him that. But when he does tell you that, then if you really care about him, then tell him so. Good luck....
2007-06-10 09:03:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
If you doing all the runnin time to play it his way stop doin it and he'll try harder .... he hit the comfort zone where he is takin you forgranted so if you stop it'll give him an idea of what he might lose!!!!
I did this with an ex i was always doing the running she said jump i'd say how high star, tuck or straddle????!!!
after we split realsised what a muppet i was!!!
2007-06-10 08:19:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope i like to make the 1st circulate it shows self-worth and it additionally shows that Im no longer afraid to tutor my emotions. Why wait while i comprehend what i desire is ideal in front of me, and in basic terms take it.
2016-10-08 22:31:58 · answer #4 · answered by catchings 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a guy and will not make the first move, unless its my crush
2007-06-10 08:19:37 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋