Test question here . . . Wouldn't first dates be best before 4:00 in afternoon ?

Question

I'm an adult woman and has it 's come to my wonder and discovery that maybe the first one or two dates would be best during the daytime instead of during the " cloak " of night that hints more towards thoughts of touching, romance etc.

First dates should be about being allowed to know about the person through sharing conversation...sharing thoughts, maybe a fun, respectable, activity such as bike ride, or walk to somewhere to look at something etc.

Your thoughts ?
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Answer 1

I like the first date to be a lunch date. It does seem easier to keep things lighter during the light of day and for some reason, there are so many expectations of how a date should end at night. So yes, I agree with you.

I also feel it is best for the 1st date to be in an environment where there's other people around. Of course, for safety reasons but also because activity around you can break the tension you'd otherwise feel if it's just the two of you alone.

Best suggestion is to go to a place where there's a lot of scenery and/or things going on that can inspire conversation.

Answer 2

I find that I get the best impressions about guys is when we have "day dates." My fav. being a multi-park (go-carts, mini golf, bumper boats, batting cages, arcade...). Depending on the type of guy you are looking for, most will relax in this type of environment and you can learn a lot about each other. You can each choose an activity that you are interested in and most likely you will have a story or two each to tell about that activity.

Not only will you learn some history, you can also find out if he is competitive, easy to anger, fine with defeat, if he is a gloater, or relaxed.

This is a good place for all ages. Most offer pool tables or picnic areas that make it easy to sit and relax between activities or get a bite to eat.

Hope this was helpful!!

Answer 3

I totally agree with you. But it depends for some people, who just wanna jump into a relationship immediately and just sleep with some guy/girl at night.
I really agree with you!