i've been w/ my boyfriend for about 3 years, (living together for 2 yrs) now. and well, i'm having a pretty hard time with some things. when things are great, they're great. we get along, laugh, have a great bond, etc. i mean, i couldn't be happier. but, when the stresses of his finances and/or work come up, he doesn't know how to deal. i mean, more then often he takes it out on me and/or our relationship. it's gotten to the point of where i feel like i'm walking on egg shells. i don't know whether to be in a good mood around him, distant, supportive, quiet, etc. i mean, last night for example...he totally lashed out on me! he called me selfish, told me that i dont love him, that he doesn't trust me, (bc i don't pick up my phone 24/7) that this isn't working, i'm always out w/ my friends, and so on. i mean, it's totally off the wall too bc everything he says is untrue a total actual reflection of how he acts towards me. he's the one that has started pushing me away, says hurtful
2007-06-10
06:18:23
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