First of all, learn how NOT to be afraid of regection. I know it kills, but not everyone can like you in that way. Putting yourself out there means letting someone know you wanna date them. The answer "No" could mean anything...she can't date, she already has someone, you aren't her type, she's focusing on school...you name it. Not every no is a "OMG ew, YOU??!!"...in fact, that is rarely if ever the case. So step one, therefore, is not to be afraid of regection.
Step 2 is to convince yourself that she'll say yes. Why? Confidence (not pride, CONFIDENCE) is key to a women's heart.
Step 3 is to be sweet. Make it heartfelt. Don't freak her out by using the word love, but at the same time, be nice and lose all edge. Smooothness.
Step 4 is to talk into it. Start a convo about a new movie, a conffee shop. Then go for it. That's the very best way to make her feel comfertable.
GOOD LUCK!!
2007-06-10 04:17:11
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answered by Cloudyheartgurl 3
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Just ask her out. Be yourself. No corny lines. Ask her to a sporting event (live or at your home). Don't be scared of rejection. If she says no, try again next week. I always say no a few times before I say yes. Most men are VERY upset when I reject them. I never here from them again. But then there are those that keep asking. This shows their confidence - and I love confident men. I will eventually say YES. I don't know why I say no at first. Don't take NO personal. Brush it off and try again.
2007-06-10 11:09:24
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answered by ByeBye 1
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I wish I had an answer for you, im sitting with the same predicament right now and I dont know what to do either. Good luck.
2007-06-10 11:27:30
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answered by Michael9 4
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this is how i asked a girl out (F=her; M=me)
M- hey samantha
F- hey jarred
M- ive to ask you sumthing
F- sure
M- not here, can we meet in the cafeteria after 10 mins
F- uh.. ok..
M- see ya there then.. bye!
F- bye
cafeteria
M- so hows everything?
F- cool
M- how are ur studies going?
F- uh.. pretty well, except i hate studying science
M- yea. i hate it too.. um.. can i ask you something?
F- sure.. go ahead
M- please don't mind ok?
F- why wud i mind?
M- ok.. here goes.. do you have a boyfriend (just wondering!)
F- uh.. no.. why?
M- do you want to have one?
F- i dont know
M- ok forget it
F- no tell me
M- nah forget it
F- please.. u trust me rite? tell me!!
M- well.. i wanted to ask you out.. but i guess you probably wont be interested since you dont know if u want to have a boyfriend or not
then its up to her.. good luck!! =)
2007-06-10 11:08:42
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answered by Anonymous
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Just talk to her in a very easy conversation.Then ask the question.
2007-06-10 11:30:43
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answered by Mario Vinny D 7
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you just let it sim for a little bit and then see if she likes you
thats all i can say
2007-06-10 11:04:32
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answered by Luke W 1
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