ok there is this one amzing girl i really like. The problem is that she has a boyfriend. So i decided to tell her i like her and i did, and she responded by sayin ur the sweetest guy ever, and she loves me and we are bestfriends. I need to get her. I started to call her. Any advice on how i can get her, I like her way too much..hER BOYFRIND IS A TOTAL jakass. he kissed another girl and she is still wit him. i jus dont understand.
some1 help,,,,,,,only ppl that can really help me.........no idiots
2007-06-10 04:13:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's hard. Well don't try to break them up b/c if she finds out she wouldn't trust you anymore. But my best advice to you is wait it out, if he really is the jerk you say he is then it should b soon before she realizes it too. Just don't be the one to tell her but she'd get defensive with you. Just wait it out, and good luck!
2007-06-10 04:18:53 · answer #1 · answered by alexisanned 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think he's a jackass but apparently she doesn't, or she wouldn't still be with him. I'm sorry that your hurting we all know what that is about but she's telling you that she loves you and your the sweetest guy, then why isn't she with you, because of this other guy, I think not, she loves you as a friend and I'm afraid by the looks of it that's about it. She must really be into this other guy or why else is she still with him when she's aware that he's been kidding other girls, she's got it for him like you have it for her. Bide your time, there still might be a chance if he's out of the picture, maybe if he kisses enough of the other girls and she catches him she'll get fed up and start looking at you, one never knows!!
2007-06-10 04:26:03 · answer #2 · answered by chessmaster1018 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same situation. Does she know that he kissed another girl? If she doesn't i suggest you start with that and tell her that you don't want her to get hurt. Then she will probably talk to her boyfriend about it and break up.
2007-06-10 04:18:20 · answer #3 · answered by Attila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what you should do is tell the girl that her boy friend kissed a girl.And when you tell her than she will dump her
boyfriend.Ad after that you can ask her and she will say yes but tell her in a soft way. Don't say it really fast and in a good way because she will think that you are happy about it okay.
2007-06-10 04:21:51 · answer #4 · answered by NB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her what you really feel. sometimes its better to get things off your chest than to keep them in. if she still wants to be with the jackass just make sure you're there for her no matter what the circumstances are. love is blind and right now she is blinded by it. sooner or later she'll open her eyes and see that you are really there for her. and then she can see you more than just a friend perhaps a companion.
2007-06-10 04:21:45 · answer #5 · answered by Aldy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She'll come around. You're on the right track...talk to her regularly. Let her know how you feel. Find a mutual friend who will tell her that her current boyfriend is cheating on her.
2007-06-10 04:17:31 · answer #6 · answered by hottotrot1_usa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stick around and continue to be a friend eventually she'll get rid of her boyfriend since you said he is a jakass and thats when you come in play! so all im saying is wait if shes worth it
2007-06-10 04:51:26 · answer #7 · answered by highking937 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try chilvary and little gifts and cards, not to expensive its the thought that counts
2007-06-10 04:17:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
carring her
2007-06-10 04:18:09 · answer #9 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to HER about it . not us
2007-06-10 04:16:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋