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Ok, there's a boy I have like for over a year.

About a year ago I told him I liked him, and he basically rejected me (he was nice about it). I think he was kinda freaked out about it.

Since then, we've spoken on occasions, but more recently, we've been speaking and messing around in lessons.

We've both left school now, and only go in to do exams. We haven't spoken since we left school about 3 weeks ago.

I still like him so much, but I'm not sure what to do about it. Should I forget it? Make a move? Just be friends?

I'm not sure what signs he'd give if he liked me, as he's shy and doesn't seem to have much experience of girls.

I'm worried about what to do, as time is running out (we're going to different sixth forms). I don't want to miss any opportunity to be with him, but would I just be making a fool of myself again?

Any advice would be very appreciated :)

2007-06-10 09:54:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

5 answers

I feel you must not propse yourself....for the second time.
You have already told him your feelings about him.....but he did not accept the relationship with you, although he went on with you as freinds.
So now during the process of your freindship and withing that period , he must have also realised how you are , and how you feel about everything and the kind of person you are.
So if he has also started liking you, he must now approach to you, as love is a two way traffic , if it is a true love it works on business terms....give and take.
You did your part of job, now its his turn.
Good luck.

2007-06-10 10:03:32 · answer #1 · answered by Sonu 2 · 0 0

You might have come on too strong a year ago when you first told him you liked him, though if he really liked you that probably wouldn't make a difference. You sound like a nice girl, so if he hasn't realized how great you are for him by now, chances are its not gonna happen. I'd say move on and see what new boys have to offer. Since you are going to different schools now is the perfect opportunity to put yourself out there for other men. Good luck!<3

2007-06-10 10:00:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I know it's tough but my suggestion is to approach him again. Consider this, every relationship depends on good communication. If you can't feel comfortable communicating with him (or anyone else for that matter), how can you possibly have a good relationship? So talk to him. If he is "freaked" or won't talk, then find someone who will talk. I know this may not be a satisfying answer but consider what it would be like to be in a relationship with someone and not be able to really communicate with them. In fact, such a "relationship" is probably impossible.

2007-06-10 09:59:54 · answer #3 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0 0

Just be his friend for awhile and see if he'll make a move like ask you out or something

2007-06-10 09:58:58 · answer #4 · answered by Teen 2 · 0 0

baby move on!!!!!!!dont wait on nobody.he already rejected you.find someone new.email me at dejazullo@yahoo.com.

2007-06-10 10:00:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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