Singles & Dating - 4 May 2007

We met playing pool, and now we talk like for hours a day. He asked for a picture, but Im afraid if I send him one, he'll be dissappointed and won't talk to me anymore? What should I do? I love talking to him and he says he loves talking to me, so I don't want that to change! Help me please!

2007-05-04 04:50:23 · 14 answers · asked by Brandi S 2

i met this bloke on line and we have been phoning and txting for the last week ....he said he would meet up this wk for a coffee but his been so busy with his job he hasnt had the time
hes a policeman and has been doing alot of over time
i didnt contact him one day just to see if he contacted me and he txted me that night ...
im going on hol next wk and want to meet him before i go ....
do i push him for a face to face meeting ? or shall i just leave it and see if he arranges to meet me ?

2007-05-04 04:49:15 · 11 answers · asked by cowgirl 2

Anyone notice how easily "fun" is made out of the topic of male erections? Countless comedies, and even nightly sitcoms there are constant innuendos and graphic images of males getting erections but you never hear anything about females getting wet?? I'm personally sick of all the movies such as Something about Mary, American Pie, Austin Powers, etc. filled with erection jokes, images, etc. NEVER do you see or hear about female excitement. Double standard to me.

2007-05-04 04:48:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am used to dating jerks and people who make moves a little bit faster.
This man does not. We go out, eat,drink,watch movies. Even at his home, he is not the guy that is all over me. And, yep its driving me crazy.
I think he likes me because we go out and we are flirty, but he has not held my hand or made a move? And I am confused by this. I think I see it as him taking it slow and getting to know me, is this the more mature thing to do? And I am I right at assuming?
Am I reading him wrong?
I like him so far, just waiting for him to do something dumb. Or do you think he thinks of me only as a friend?
Somebody help me.........I dont know what moves to make or what?

2007-05-04 04:44:37 · 11 answers · asked by baby_rost 3

i've been dating this guy for about 2 months now and i really like and he really likes me but, we are both very busy! Every week day i only see him for about 5 minutes and thats when he is walking me to one of my classes, n then later in the night after we get done with our practices/games we talk on the phone for awhile. so normally the only time that we have one on one time is on the week end but last weekend i saw 1 day and we weren't even alone n then this weekend im going to his game and then have to leave right away cause i have to work, and maybe if we are luck we hang out alil on sunday. I don't know what to do we are both so busy but i really do like him and miss him so what should i do? Do you think this will last?

2007-05-04 04:42:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-04 04:27:35 · 5 answers · asked by tanlaask 3

i ama about to have a child with the man who promised to marry me but he has decided he is not interested in me nor the baby. i am keeping the baby bcos icant imagine myself going thru physical pain to remove the child and more so bcos of my beliefs. what do u guys suggest i do. i live in my country but he lives abroad. my family is distraught and i am just going with the tide for now. people tell me i am strong but i tell them i have no other choice. and frankly i dont want to be dishonorable in my actions by doing the seemingly right thing but actually wrong thing. please answer me.

2007-05-04 04:23:51 · 11 answers · asked by hef 1

so theres this guy and hes really hot...we decided to be on the buddy system and not date...so now i think im fallling for him, after all he is only the second guy ive been with...is friends with benefits a bad idea?? should i end it or what??

2007-05-04 04:20:57 · 30 answers · asked by Leesh 2

HI..I AM A VIRGIN..ME AND MY GIRLFRIEND ARE PLANING ON HAVING GIRL ON GIRL CEX FOR OUR FIRST TIME...I WANTED TO KNOW IF IT WILL HURT ....DO U KNOW?
YOU SEE, IVE USED TOYS ON MYSELF...AM I STILL A VIRGIN EVEN THOUGH MY CHERRY ALREADY "POPPED"?

2007-05-04 04:03:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

We're both 21 y/o college students. Been together for 1 year 3 months, living together for 9 of those months. Lately I just don't know what's going on. I feel lost in our relationship. I don't even feel like myself anymore. I wonder if I could spend the rest of my life with him. I love him and he's very sweet most of the time, but sometimes we just don't click. He doesn't understand my jokes or sarcastic mannerisms most times. Sometimes I wonder if there's someone out there who's more right for me. I have no idea if I'm settling because it's easier to stay or if he really is "the one" and I'm just overthinking things. I don't know if it's just me being stressed or if something isn't right. Small things are annoying me more than usual... his long pointless stories, his late band practices, his constantly playing video games... Am I being too picky? I know no one is perfect, but these small things just make me wonder. Has anyone else felt these doubts in a relationship? Is it normal?

2007-05-04 04:01:34 · 27 answers · asked by Morgan 1

im asking because my boyfriend and i have been talking about it and were not sure we should do it cause, we want to, but we also know there's a lot of consequences to it like STD'S and getting pregnant. did i just answer my own question?

2007-05-04 03:55:57 · 16 answers · asked by bubbles 1

we have seen each other once after more then a month. talk everyday, but sometimes i dont hear from her til later at night. she lives in a foster home so she is preoccupied. but i dont think its to the point where she cant take 2min to call me to tell me if she's gonna be calling me late,cuz i dont wanna miss her call,thats my only way of staying connected to her. she sometimes doesnt call me at the times stated. when we see each other, its all love. we fool around a lil bit, but no sex. im her first kiss, she's 17.
and her first sexual craving physically.but i wanna wait. so does she.
she likes talking to me, but we've been rocky because of the keeping in touch thing and her not coming over as often, the foster home she lives in is strict now. she likes me to the point where she wanted me to promis id take her virginity when she turns 18 this year. i just want our bond to be stronger,i never wanna lose her.
so do you think that maybe i shoul take my time and not stress over this

2007-05-04 03:48:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex knows I love acting, but I kinda gave it up. Well anyways, he IMed me and said,"I saw this # on a commercial for an acting agency, and I really think you should give acting another chance... I know how much it means to you." I was sooo confused, I asked him why he was being nice and helping me, and he said,"I was thinking of you when I heard of this acting agency... good luck."
He's been talking to me a lot lately, so why is he being nice?

2007-05-04 03:46:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

hey i dont really have an important question i just wanted to say hi and whats uo? because it is between classes and im really bored! well bye

2007-05-04 03:45:58 · 18 answers · asked by sexy southern chick 1

which would be safer dating a guy off the internet or a guy ive met in person?

2007-05-04 03:39:18 · 8 answers · asked by a firefighters girl 1

Okay i went out with this guy but he dumped me after we had sex and i felt so nasty and betrayed well he called me several times and i voided him but after awhile i finally talked to him and he wants us too hook up angain and do it again and i don't know what to do he said he is sorry he used me like that but i don't know and if i have sex with him he would dump me again so he said how about friends with benifits and i dont know what to do cause next weekend im going to a party and he will be there and he knowes all my spots that make me horny and i will be tempted and i dont wanna do it again but then i do? Help please...................................

2007-05-04 03:37:58 · 11 answers · asked by erika 2

as well as demanding and vocal

2007-05-04 03:36:05 · 27 answers · asked by klara c 1

Okay....so who has done this? Some of you prob. gone to craigslist's "casual encounters" section. Do they work, have what have your experiences, posting online for a hook up? Did you host or she host ? how awkard or dangerous was it ? Just answer with any experience you had or heard about this...

Thanks.

2007-05-04 03:34:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-04 03:30:13 · 4 answers · asked by rebel 1

have u ever regretted dumping your boyfriend - the one u thought was the one simply because you needed space/time - or maybe u want to test the waters - see if the grass is greener on the other side? When u know that ur boyfriend was almost perfect (no such thing as perfect) - u know he would have done anything for you would have been there for u no matter what, and he loved u with all his heart - very romantic - feelings were mutual between the two of u - very much in love, talking about marriage and kids - moving in together, etc - knowing and telling each other that u were the one to spend the rest of ur life with - will girls be willing to throw that all away - just for a stupid reason like that? If yes - describe if u would go back, or what happened? would u go back if u knew that u broke his heart and hurt him so badly? and can there be trust after this?

2007-05-04 03:28:00 · 7 answers · asked by questions 1

i had a secret relationship with my neighborhood. he has a gf and i have a bf. I ended our relationship, coz i know that what were doing is wrong..my problem is, i was really hurt on what happend and worst is he's always on my mind....hhhuuuuhhhh, i dont know what to do..

2007-05-04 03:26:43 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

i had a secret relationship my neighborhood. he has a gf and i have a bf. I ended our relationship, coz i know that what were doing is wrong..my problem is, i was really hurt on what happend and worst is he's always on my mind....hhhuuuuhhhh, i dont know what to do..

2007-05-04 03:25:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-04 03:23:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonnex 3

I met this guy on an internet dating site, and we hit it off immediately. Since then we have had 3 dates so far and he told me that he is falling in love with me.

But the problem is 1. he has cancelled on me many times just before a date 2. he hardly ever answers his phone when I call him, his excuse is that he is working. But I find it hard to believe that he has to work late into the night, sometimes up to 10 pm. I spoke to him yesterday and he says that I worry too much. But something just doesn't add up, he hardly can make time for me, whats going on????? HELP!!! because I really like him.

2007-05-04 03:22:42 · 6 answers · asked by munchkin 1

Is it true that when someone cheated once before in a previous relationship that they are bound to do it again? My boyfriend and I have made 6 months together and things are great we dont crowd eachother and i dont poke into his personal stuff(cell phone email ) and vice versa but i was just reading something in a book and it just kind of bothered me. My boyfriend admitted to cheating in a previous relationship because he got bored and it wasnt serious and i was starting to think if that could happen to us if the term once a cheater always a cheater is true

2007-05-04 03:19:42 · 12 answers · asked by Lizzy 1

ex: should they kiss or just gold hands? should they go somewhere formal, or somewhere casual? should they go by themselves, or on a double-date?

2007-05-04 03:17:26 · 8 answers · asked by qtpie16707 3

okay. so i had a boyfriend for almost four months. we went out a couple years ago for about a year. we broke up and got back together in january of this year. everything has been fine. until yesterday. out of the blue he breaks up with me. he says he has too much on his mind. i asked him what was on his mind and he said school, his mom, his neice, and his dad. there is nothing bad going on at school. he's passing all his classes. his mom is getting ready to have back surgery. his neice...i don't really know what is going on in that area but i know his sister just had her second baby yesterday and she's only 19. he's seventeen and has a neice and a nephew already. and there is nothing going on with hes dad. i asked him what any of that had to do with dumping me. and he replied that he didn't want a girlfriend through it all. wouldn't you think that he would want a girlfriend to help him through these things? then he's like well you live right next door maybe we'll get back together in

2007-05-04 03:12:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Everyone always says "oh don't worry, you'll find someone, you'll find the right person, there's someone for everyone, it WILL happen", but they don't really know what will happen. There are plenty of people out there who never find the "right person" or anyone. So why do people always tell singles that they WILL find someone, let alone the right person? I think when people say stuff like this it should be taken as an insult.

2007-05-04 03:10:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Particularly remembering punchlines.

2007-05-04 03:10:15 · 23 answers · asked by carqueen1 4

Complete please.

2007-05-04 03:07:07 · 19 answers · asked by Sara007 5