Singles & Dating - 2 May 2007

I recently have found I may a freak. Every day after I shower I use a fresh bath towel. Many guys I deployed with use their one towel all week 5-7 days. We have easy access and time to do laundry so not sure why one would want to re-use same nasty bath towel. One guy has not washed his sheets in 120 days, that answers itself he is nasty.
If you re-use your towel how many days of use do you get???

2007-05-02 23:27:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have known my boyfriend for about 8 years, we have been seeing eachother for 5 weeks and officially an item for 2 weeks. Last night he told me that he loves me and I said it back! I'm so happy, but my mates said that its way too soon and we should slow down! Does it really matter how long its been if we both feel the same?!
By the way, I'm 20 and he is 22 so we arent young foolish teenagers just mucking about!

2007-05-02 22:13:39 · 31 answers · asked by Me! 3

the answer should be realistic

2007-05-02 21:46:15 · 18 answers · asked by breezeb 1

I mean why do girls seem act one way one day and the next day be completely indifferent? Is it just the girls that i talk to or is it a general thing for all girls. Can girls even help themselves sometimes? Ugh i am a guy who likes to be positive as much as possible but so many girls act completely positive one day then they act negetive the next day. I understand i get angry sometimes as well but i don't let it effect how i treat other people i don't know. So could somebody please answer this tough question? Thanks Peace and love to all!

2007-05-02 21:36:25 · 21 answers · asked by sims 2

Ok i went on a blind date with this guy and we had fun. I But he didn't flirt that much. The next day he texted me and was friendly, but didn't ask me for date two. And again the next day we texted and nothing. So by day three i figured he wasn't into me but i wouldn't mind having this guy as a friend because he's relly funny and we have alot in common. So i texted him and said that i get it that he's not into me and i asked if he wanted to hang out 2 days later. He seemed confused and said he was just trying to take is slow and if he flirted too much i might be scared off. I aploygised (and felt like a tool) and asked if he still wanted to hang out on that day, he said yes. Well the day comes and he sent me a cute text but didn't say anything about hanging out. And he didn't text or call me at all. I decided if he wanted to hang out with me then he would have contacted me. I don't want to have to chase a guy. So what the H? Did i scare him off? he was still texting me. Did he forget?

2007-05-02 21:12:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would you be offended?

2007-05-02 21:03:28 · 14 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3

Ok... so i have this long time friend "lauren".. we met back in high school and have always had alot of chemistry between us. We have crossed paths since then several times and each time sparks flew, about 5 years ago we sort of dated but we both have a huge fear of commitment and slowly drifted apart. Thru fate(so i like to think) we met by random chance 5 days ago thru friends again and we are both single. She invited me to the beach last weekend and it was great, it was like no time had passed at all. I havent laid a single hand on her and am trying very hard to slow play the situation. (We have had sex several times in the past). At the end of this month we are going to FLA. to visit her parents in their new house.. should I make a move before then or wait until it has a significant moment.( i know sappy right) but for serious I really like her and have my vibes on her feelings towards me but I'm unsure. Whats the best course of action. I want more than just sex......

2007-05-02 20:53:58 · 8 answers · asked by jonathan b 2

2007-05-02 20:48:10 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Two weeks ago, I visited my ex. We had a nice visit and rekindled some old feelings. He has been brutal on email, but he was lovely in person. He asked if I wanted to keep in touch, and was very excited when I said yes. He called a twice last week and said he would like to talk, but that the ball was in my court. Our break-up was traumatic for me, and I had to go through a lot to be open to that: migraines and flashbacks for 2 days. Anyways, I lost control and called him a few times, and he wrote me this horrible letter:
The past few days are all a blur with many things that I had to do. I cannot worry about your feelings because they are not important to me right now. I am sorry you feel the way you do, but i have a life that requires me. I am sorry but you are not currently a part of any of my engagements. I haven't been on a computer 4 2 days. leave trust out of it, and stop talking about the past. i do not give a ****. okay?

2007-05-02 20:45:01 · 6 answers · asked by myrtlebough 1

Someone here on answers made that statement and I am just wondering how many of you think that is a fair or accurate thing to say??

2007-05-02 20:34:27 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met this guy a bout a month ago and we've been getting to know each other, he seemed lovely, always complimenting me etc. The other day he stayed over at mine and we had sex, he didnt leave til the morning, phoned me ad text me during the day and asked if he could come around yesterday. I said yes and he said about 8 ish...He didn't show and now i dont know what to think.

2007-05-02 20:09:34 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

"Bob" is someone whom I work with, and he quite a bit older then I am, 8 years to be precise.
His behavior is becoming rather exasperating. (clandestine touching, sexual remarks etc.)
It's just that I do not know how to deal with such a situation, not having a boyfriend, but mostly because such a situation has never occurred with me, and his advanced age makes him even more intimidating.

2007-05-02 19:44:53 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

what would you do? would you continue to date or dump him/her right away?

2007-05-02 19:24:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

she totally is getting slut*y. but not in a "sleeps around" way. in a "doesn't sleep around or give up anything, but leads guys on like she will and then wonders why ppl don' t like her and she never has good relationships." way. i'm torn, though. part of me just thinks shes stupid. part of me has thought about doing stuff like that before, so why judge? one thing's for sure. i'm tired of listening to her talk about the newest guy she's "texting, and flirting, but would never date" he's only looking to get laid, and he thinks she's a whor* just like the last girl he had, only she won't follow through. god she is such a tease. i'm sick of her.

2007-05-02 19:21:36 · 19 answers · asked by memyself91 2

2007-05-02 19:19:05 · 22 answers · asked by loque 1

I'm just curious.... I know that us women have TONS, but I'm just wondering if men have similiar fantasies as well.

Any fantasies except for disturbing killing ones are welcome

2007-05-02 18:54:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know how the stereotypical, 14-year old flirts--lots of teasing, poking, punching, and mocking. But, when a boy (say, for instance, 24) does things similar, would one still consider that flirting? Or just playful banter with someone they may see as a friend? I suppose the real question, is do boys ever grow out of that stage? If not, I believe, ladies and gents, that I'm being flirted with.

2007-05-02 18:39:52 · 9 answers · asked by BeachBlondie 2

My gf is very busy and I can never call her and she can never call me. Lately it has got that bad that I don't even see her for up to 36 hours with only a small text here and there. Some nights she won't come home. I have talked about it before but now I am threatening to break things off as she never seems to attempt to communicate with me just for even 2 mins on the phone when she has a sec which she DOES. I have told her straight that I think she is self-absorbed and it confuses me why she wouldn't want to come home as we live together or call to even just talk and ask how my day was. Should I not be feeling pretty bad about all this?

2007-05-02 18:36:05 · 27 answers · asked by DirtyHarry 1

My girl friend and I recently broke up, about 2 weeks later a grandparent passed away that I never met, I felt it would have been awkward to go the the funeral for her sake and decided not to . Now she is really angry that I didn't go. Was this a damned if you do, damned if you don't situation?

2007-05-02 18:35:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-02 18:27:46 · 21 answers · asked by meohyeah 1

i need to know if she likes me but i cant let anybody know that i like her.

2007-05-02 18:25:40 · 11 answers · asked by spencer 1

I'm 13 years old right now, and a lot of people in my grade including my best friend, have girl friends... should i jus wait till my older ( my gut instict), or i am i about that age were i shud be getting a girlfriend? Glad to have your input...

2007-05-02 18:25:19 · 13 answers · asked by Karlen U 2

ok, can you people please give me 7 facts of a math person like albert einstein (dont know how to spell it) but not him

please. i need to do a whole page and i just need a few more.

and yes i know its not made for this catergory and i know there is a lot more people here then other places so please help me and dont say that im stupid for putting it there

2007-05-02 18:23:41 · 2 answers · asked by chicken 1

Im 18 and ive been talking to a girl that is 15. She is a reallynice girl. I seem to like her alot and we have alot in common. Is she to young to start dating, or not. I dont want the sex and all i just really like this girl. It seems like we can just do nothing and as long as we are together playing pool in the garage for 4 hours we are having the time of our life. What do you think?

2007-05-02 18:17:03 · 25 answers · asked by Rob D 2

I have an issue with an ex-girlfriend. We broke up about 6 months ago after a short-lived but intense relationship. After some fighting and a rumor saying that I called her 'easy' was spread (and she refuses to believe it was a mere rumor), we didn't talk for a couple months. Now we rarely talk at all, and when we do she is very rude and condescending. She has also been telling mutual friends and co-workers of mine that she hates my guts. Normally I would just ignore her and move on but we both work at the same place (in different departments). Why is she doing this? Is she just bitter or is there something more to this. And also, how do I go about handling this?

2007-05-02 18:16:11 · 7 answers · asked by haha10488 3

I just broke up with my gf.shes been under alot of stress and broke up with me because I made a mistake. The mistake I made was that I had flirted with a girl on myspace and said some things I shouldnt.It meant nothing cuz i love this girl with all my heart.I also commented a friend saying that I wasnt single i'm just tryin to get her attention and that i hope things will work out between us but im goin to keep my options open.I also lied about it.I kno I made a mistake by doin what i did. She keeps tellin me she doesnt want to deal with this and just wants to be friends.I feel something different though because I feel that she is just basing her decisions on bein extremely stress and also cuz she is hurt and mad by what I did. I want so bad to get back with her because I really love this girl.Please someone help me with what I need to do to get her back.

2007-05-02 18:12:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance doesn't seem like mister right. but my friend is really nice, thoughtful, buff, athletic, funny, and cute. Now my friend may be my mister right. My fiance is two years older than me and i have not seen him and 3 weeks. My trouble is, my fiance is exstatic. I like my fiance, but now I'm seeing my friend in different ways. It's confusing! HELP!

2007-05-02 18:08:35 · 8 answers · asked by flirtygal23 2

2007-05-02 17:55:57 · 11 answers · asked by winters_wildfire 1

My girlfriend and i enjoy "chilling" in the car at some random park. we tell our parents that we are just driving around and exploring different neighborhoods, but our parents are getting suspisious and we dont want them finding out what we are doing together. (We arent going all the way so save the comments).
Some of our ideas for excuses are saying we are going to a movie and then not, or saying we are going downtown and then not.
any other ideas that we can tell them that we are doing?
thanks

2007-05-02 17:39:22 · 12 answers · asked by bob j 1

Lets just be nice people...;)....im an analyst of human behaviour but naive as hell!! haha

2007-05-02 17:30:33 · 18 answers · asked by Sexah Mamma :) 2