she totally is getting slut*y. but not in a "sleeps around" way. in a "doesn't sleep around or give up anything, but leads guys on like she will and then wonders why ppl don' t like her and she never has good relationships." way. i'm torn, though. part of me just thinks shes stupid. part of me has thought about doing stuff like that before, so why judge? one thing's for sure. i'm tired of listening to her talk about the newest guy she's "texting, and flirting, but would never date" he's only looking to get laid, and he thinks she's a whor* just like the last girl he had, only she won't follow through. god she is such a tease. i'm sick of her.
2007-05-02 19:21:36 · 19 answers · asked by memyself91 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I knew a girl like that. Worlds biggest flirt. Never dated a guy in high school. She eventually stopped being a tease, and gave in and now pretty much is a ....you know.
2007-05-02 19:25:26 · answer #1 · answered by The GMC 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the issue here is not what your friend is doing...... it's how you're reacting to it.
I mean, how is what your friend's doing a problem for you? You said that you've thought of doing stuff like that before,
Why didn't you?.......
You probably didn't because when it came down to it you knew it wasn't you and it goes against one of your values.
The reason that you are affected by her actions is that it makes you jealous and your friend is probably aiming for that hence the telling you about the newest guy etc.
Your friend is getting reassurance when these guys show interest. Rather then envying her realise that you're different and that you like to treat guys differently that's why you haven't gone ahead and done the same.
I mean if your friend has had to resort to making herself out to be a "whore" as you've written, what do you think that says about how she must feel about herself?
If anything i would feel sorry for her and maybe try to make her see that what she's doing is not in her best interest long term.
Chi Chi x.
2007-05-02 19:58:00 · answer #2 · answered by Chi Chi 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you care about her. My advice would be to bring it to her attention that this could lead to dangerous situations by making the bad and poor choices about how she goes about doing things, without thinking that there will be consequences and a price she will pay for her obnoxious, notorious behavior.
Or you could just stop hanging around with her, because people will start thinking you both are the same. So bring it to her attention by writing her a letter of your concerns and how you don't feel comfortable hanging out with her if she continues to carry herself the way she has been doing. You could end up in a situation where you both will be in trouble, do to her dangerous behavior, like because she is just a tease and guys could get together that she has hurt or just messed with, get together to teach her a lesson and you will end up getting caught up in the game, so be careful. Don't be so hard on your friend, ask her why she is doing these things, maybe someone hurt her and just is trying to get out of her system all that junk, and just toying around to teach guys a lesson that just because she has a wild side to her does not make you a s***...Guys do need to learn to respect boundaries and they don't know the true meaning sometimes...GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-05-02 19:37:31 · answer #3 · answered by HOPE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jehovah's Witnesses don't have a rule asserting that so as to be baptized, you should become enemies with any specific group of persons. we are unlike that, even however there are a good number of persons here who attempt to declare in any different case. i'm a Witness, I also have a chum who's gay, yet he's no longer my close pal. he's extra like a "hi, how are you?" pal. even however we've prevalent one yet another our finished lives.
2016-10-04 07:35:13 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok..simple solution..
Dont talk to her or hang around her anymore..do not even spread runors about her ( when people spread rumors and such it makes them seem obsessed with the person they are trash talking about )...
Find some new friends you would rather hang out with that will not give you a bad reputation from just being seen around them..
2007-05-02 19:26:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you sick of her or upset with yourself for also having harboured such thoughts? Often what turns us against a friend is what they make us see in ourselves. She may be leading people on and frustrating them but she probly has her reasons. Do you? What is it about her behaviour that hurts you?
2007-05-02 19:29:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
She's playing a pretty dangerous game. Leading people on can get you effed up. Or worse. And if she keeps giving off whore vibes, and acting slutty, she's only gonna attract people looking for sluts.
2007-05-02 19:28:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anastasia Beaverhausen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is a c*ck tease !!! I hate that with chicks. They say all these things and mess with a guys mind. If you are truely sick of her then phase her out of your life slowly. Start spending less time with her and do other things with other friends.
No one says you have to remain friends with someone.
2007-05-02 19:26:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that I would tell your friend how you feel and that even though she may not be giving it up, it's really annoying and if she's not careful she's liable to get some psycho wound up and end up getting hurt. Some people don't like to be teased.Peace.
2007-05-02 19:42:40 · answer #9 · answered by godmamaz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't understand why you call her your friend and get agitated. Drop friends like this they just don't derserve you. They can do what they want and what goes around will come around and she will soon meet a guy who will lead her on and will turn her to become a whore.....
2007-05-02 19:26:00 · answer #10 · answered by Freakout 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋