I'm 13 years old right now, and a lot of people in my grade including my best friend, have girl friends... should i jus wait till my older ( my gut instict), or i am i about that age were i shud be getting a girlfriend? Glad to have your input...
2007-05-02 18:25:19 · 13 answers · asked by Karlen U 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well when I was in middle school, my best friends all had boyfriends and girlfriends and were holding hands in the hallways and were making out. I didn't. I liked a guy on and off (along with several other guys LOL) but no relationships came out of that. At the time I was upset that I was going into High School never having a "real boyfriend" (if that's what you want to call it) and never "making out" with someone. I got into High School in August, and by December I had my "first real boyfriend" and kiss, it was worth the wait. I was much better and I was a lot comfortable and I was just ready. Don't be influenced by what people around you are doing, and don't be influenced to be thinking you have to fit in. You want to wait until you are older, so wait. There is no need to start out now, you have the rest of your life. We only cause extra stress and drama, be free for a couplem ore years. :)
2007-05-02 18:29:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a girlfriend when you find a girl that you really like, and want to be your girlfriend. And everyone has they're first kiss at different ages. I'm 15 and never been kissed. It all depends on people and they're situations. And just because your friends are doing something doesn't mean you should be. If your friends were jumping off a bridge...would you feel as if you had to do it too? Hahaa. Don't stress=]] Your totally normal.
2007-05-02 18:29:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you're ready and the right person comes along. That's different for everyone. Learn now not to give in to peer pressure. Most of your friends are probably just faking it to look good anyway. It's so much more special when your first kiss is with the right person. My first kiss was when I was 15, but my first special, amazing, incredible kiss was when I was 18 and that's the one I will never, ever forget.
2007-05-02 18:28:58 · answer #3 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is not a barrier to love but maturity is.
so, if u r not that desperate, i ll say wait for a while and get the right gal dont just jump in for the sake of it..
U will know when u have to get ur first kiss.. its when the flow of emotions inside u really gets strong..
2007-05-02 18:36:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely mate i'm 18 years previous and characteristic not had my first kiss. even with the undeniable fact that i for my area ( to not sound narcisistic ) am a stable looking individual and am the captain of my tennis team. i think of i'm basically socially awkward through me working at a resteraunt considering i became into 14, I by no ability had that oh that's my first dating to subject with a woman. I continuously attracted stable looking females that predicted me to be responsive to what to do, even with the undeniable fact that i'm nevertheless clueless and characteristic yet to have my first kiss, or something of the variety. you will at last locate somebody, i could actual advise which you employ a relationship internet site ( not for long term objectives yet you by no ability be responsive to ) placed on your profile which you're completely green and somebody who contacts you would be accepting and the two a individual new to the ideals of a dating or can practice you interior the area. Cheers I choose you as lots success as I choose myself!
2016-10-14 10:18:44 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isnt a right age...you just kind of have to wait until u find a girl your interested in then on you just go with flow.
2007-05-02 18:30:11 · answer #6 · answered by pez388 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 13 to and u will know when u r ready for a girlfreind so take it from some one your age
2007-05-02 18:28:37 · answer #7 · answered by girl_that_is_blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with your gut. just because your friends have girlfriends doesnt mean that you need to. everything will happen when it happens. dont rush it enjoy being a kid. it ends to fast
2007-05-02 18:29:43 · answer #8 · answered by Stephanie K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u have the urge to get one then go for it... but ur in middle skool so y would u care?... u just need to worry about skool and if u find a great girl.... not just another girl... then go for it.... but dont just date to date... but its my opinion that middle skool dating is pointless
2007-05-03 13:47:20 · answer #9 · answered by dirky15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no set age, go with the flow
2007-05-02 18:28:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋