Singles & Dating - 2 May 2007

this guy always flirted with me and when we hooked up and he saw my body he couldn't get it up. he told his friends he wouldn't date me b/c i'm fat. i'm not overweight but i do have a large bodyframe b/c i'm 5'7. he was probably shorter than me with a smaller body frame. was he nervous and tyring to cover up that he couldn't perform? or was he really unattracte dto me-even thogh he wanted me for a long time and his friends thoth i was pretty-but i'm not very htin w/ a small frame=but not fat?

2007-05-02 07:28:39 · 16 answers · asked by girl 3

how can i tell my bf i have been raped with out him thing i was out cheating on him becuz i love him and i am a fraid tohave sex now since i was raped i do not want to go through life with my bf thing i am some slut that cheats i am only 15 and i need someone to talk to so help me as sooon as possible i need some one to talk with so if yall can give me yall e-mail adddress mine is mean_punk_chick@yahoo.com

2007-05-02 07:27:19 · 21 answers · asked by mean_punk_chick 1

have you ever fallen in love with someone online? and if so can you tell me how it worked out for you.. are you two still together and has it been a long distance relationship???

2007-05-02 07:26:02 · 3 answers · asked by wounderwoman44 3

seeing if this works

2007-05-02 07:25:16 · 10 answers · asked by mike 1

i've been dating this girl fot three months. she is very cute and totally inlove with me. but i dont feel the same way. i really like her but i dont love her. well, in the last few days, there have been a few girls that i've been talking to. and some of them are actually interested in me. what can i do to keep them as friends. cause i dont want to break up with the girl im seeing now. i dont want to break her heart. and i dont want to date any of the other girls. i sound like an ***'hole dont i?

2007-05-02 07:24:36 · 7 answers · asked by axis-s 2

I've been dating a guy for almost two months. We are long distance, and he kept saying that he has something important to tell me in person. He broke the news to me today that he has an ex-wife and two daughters. They live in another state, but he sees his kids at least once a month. I feel like I have been punched in the stomach, and I have no idea what to do. I am only 21 and he is 25, this is so much baggage for such a new relationship. He said that he waited to tell me because he wanted to give us a chance, because a lot of women have been scared off in the past the second he told them about his kids. I really care about him, he makes me laugh and I feel so happy with him, but i almost feel like the trust in our relationship has been damaged. What should I do, I am so confussed right now?

2007-05-02 07:19:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

At what age did you do it the first time?

2007-05-02 07:18:11 · 17 answers · asked by r 2

some say left for the commitment and right if you don't??????????

2007-05-02 07:13:14 · 31 answers · asked by James D 1

there is this girl i have been friends with since like september. We for the last month and a half have been spending every week night hanging out, she has a boyfriend that works out of town during the week. I have developed feelings for her and i dont know if she is feeling the same thing. She will text me in the day to see what time i get off work so we can hang out. We have these moments of just like looking at each other even when the conversation is over there is this moment of silent eye contact and i dont know if she is feeling what i am. We hang out until like 12:30 every night and when we are sitting on the couch she always sits next to me we also go on walks at midnight with her dog, walking to the lake by her house. we go up on the cliffs above the city and just sit and talk, and i just dont know what is going on anymore. She has been with her boyfriend for almost 2 years. Someone give me some good advice on what to do, or share a similar story.

2007-05-02 07:07:10 · 1 answers · asked by Jesse N 2

K lets say you met a professional musician(no, not famous, but up and comming) he devotes a lot of time into EVERYTHING that he does, including his music, his art, and if and when a relationship comes about, that as well. Say you were living in Ohio, not in school or anything just had your job, and its JUST a job... not a career or anything. and your family was here, well you really like this guy, you see that he is trustworthy and you can see a future with him... Would you move to Texas with him to further his Career as a musician, if you know he could support himself finacialy and support your decision as well?

By the way, i am a graphic designer, I have a good job already down there, just wondering if any girls would go for it or not...

2007-05-02 07:06:45 · 21 answers · asked by Deformation Age 4

can any one tell me if friends can become lovers ? would this be the end of the friendship?

2007-05-02 07:05:21 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

He never tells me he loves me any other time, not after making love, or anything! Makes me think he just wants a (buddy) friend. I have been living with him for over 3 years and I feel I'm wasting my time with him. What do you all think????

2007-05-02 07:05:18 · 14 answers · asked by moon_girl 2

my male friend, gets known that i just broke up with my bf and takes action to keep close contact with me. then, he sent me a message that wrote: I lost one thing, my heart, please help me to find it out, thanks..... so, what's the meaning of it?

i am kinda stupid to guess what he saying.

2007-05-02 07:02:47 · 11 answers · asked by maryjoyce 1

if u like a guy but now one els findes him a tractiv and u just happen to be a modle and people keep teling u that u
"ur way out of his leag" and there is a nother guy how u could get if u chooes to what do u do if u really like that person noone els dose

2007-05-02 07:01:45 · 25 answers · asked by nicole 1

i don't know if it's wrong or not, cause your not making contact with that person your doing "Phone Sex" With. Your just doing it for fun. So yeah, i need some advice. Thanks :)

2007-05-02 07:01:36 · 17 answers · asked by Dylan 1

How do I tell her no when she wants to go? The costume reminds me of my friend, Satan.

2007-05-02 07:00:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I went out with this boy. Everyone thought we were the weirdest couple, he's a freshmen while I am a senior. I left him for a girl. I realized I messed up, and I really do love him. But I don't know how to tell him. I sent him a text message asking if there was anyway we could get back together when I get back from basic training.

2007-05-02 06:59:58 · 1 answers · asked by Lizard 3

im in love with a man who has feelings for me, he says staying friends is best that way no one will get hurt, im married and would leave him tommorrow for this man . why does he say this ? im really upset about it.

2007-05-02 06:52:59 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

about my curiousity of how it would feel to try her panties on? Im totally straight and totally into her, but for some reason, I'm dying to try on her undies. She has so many great pairs and Ive always wanted to know if they feel as good to wear as they actually look on her. I need to know how (from a womans standpoint) I can ask her about this in a way that won't have a bad result.

2007-05-02 06:51:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Guys always tell me that it does not bother them if GF goes on internet and looks at pictures of Paul Walker, or Brad Pitt, or naked photos of hot male models.

Is this really true? If you logged on and saw this in the internet history, would you just shrug it off?

And are you okay with GF chatting with hot guys at bars as long as nothing happens?

2007-05-02 06:50:57 · 9 answers · asked by cathoratio 5

2007-05-02 06:49:56 · 8 answers · asked by love&fury don't mix 1

ok so me and my girlfriend have been going out now for over a year and honestly things are going really well. we love and care about eachother alot and know almost everything about eachother. so after a while i asked her what she thought when she masturbates and she wouldnt tell me. i didnt press the issue because its not to important to me or anything. but today she decided to tell me. as it turns out she thinks about me cheating on her, like having sex with other people. im not quite sure what to make of this. she says she likes the pain that i causes. she also just said "pain is love. i need chaos." i dont know what to think or say or anything. she feels like she is so messed up. its not a big deal it dosent bother me and frankly i am just glad that she thinks about me at all and not her ex girlfriend like i thought she might. i dont want her to think these things but i dont know what to do or say or antyhing, any help is greatly appriciated.

2007-05-02 06:48:47 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-02 06:45:29 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

feel bad for liking him? Whats that mean?

2007-05-02 06:41:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

how small they where. He didn't say if it was a good or bad thing to him. Now I feel SUPER insecure. Even more than i was before. I am only an A. What can I do to be less insecure? I weigh like 105, so I can't help being small.

2007-05-02 06:40:11 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like to be a gentleman. I like to open doors for the lady. Treat them like a queen. Make sure they get food before I do. Do my best to please a lady and keep them happy. I also like to make ladies laugh. Thank u for answering.

2007-05-02 06:38:18 · 16 answers · asked by eegle70 2

I ran into an old friend through my-space that I haven't seen in about 13 years. We have been talking for a few days now and it feels like no time has past. He is so easy to talk to and I feel really comfortable talking to him.

He knows that I am seeing someone (new relationship only about 2 months), but has been telling me that he really likes me and feels like we made a connections. He said that he is willing to work at this one because women like me don't come around too often. He has said that he thinks I am intellegent and he hasn't been able to talk to a woman this easily in a long time.

Obviously he wants me to dump this guy I am with and see where we could go with our relationship. Is he just spiting out lines or is he being sincere?? I really believe him, but I have issues with words and actions.....

2007-05-02 06:29:45 · 14 answers · asked by asking away 3

I met my gf 2 years ago in Los Angeles. We started dating for 4 months.Then one day she decided to leave America and move back to Korea.She was having difficulty adjusting to the new life in L.A.She wanted to stay together and start a long distance relationship.I decided to give it a try.A year goes by and I make the decision to move to Korea to be with her.I really love her and I want to marry her.So I left my job and eveything I know for an English teaching position in Korea.So I arrived to Korea 3 months ago.My girlfriend and I have been spending time together but not as much as I expected.We only see each other on the weekends because are work schedules differ.On the weekends we are happy and we enjoy the new life we have together.Then all of sudden she wants space from me.She says she doesnt see her friends and that she feels pressure to marry.She also says that I have no friends here and that she feels obligated to see me.What should I do?Give her space or move on?

2007-05-02 06:27:36 · 19 answers · asked by A Fool in Love 1

let's say eventhough you don't want to...
or it's your first time or whatsoever...

What makes you give in to the pressure?
*or no pressure at all*

2007-05-02 06:25:52 · 58 answers · asked by Jimmy the Cricket 3

Any ideas please, am I strange? I always seem to attract them when I am out!

2007-05-02 06:23:42 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous