i've been dating this girl fot three months. she is very cute and totally inlove with me. but i dont feel the same way. i really like her but i dont love her. well, in the last few days, there have been a few girls that i've been talking to. and some of them are actually interested in me. what can i do to keep them as friends. cause i dont want to break up with the girl im seeing now. i dont want to break her heart. and i dont want to date any of the other girls. i sound like an ***'hole dont i?
2007-05-02 07:24:36 · 7 answers · asked by axis-s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not at all! You are being sensitive to your girlfriends needs. The other women will respect that and will be on the waiting list if things go south with you and your girl. It is a good game plan! Just be a friend.. Women love it!
2007-05-02 07:31:51 · answer #1 · answered by BigWashSr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't sound like an asshole. You sound like a considerate, kind of confused guy. Gently say that you're sorry, it's not her, it's you, and you'd feel like a liar if you continued a romantic relationship.
If you aren't interested in the other girls, don't pursue them. Act like you have no idea they're flirting.
2007-05-02 07:30:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me ask you something? If you're not in love with the girl you're dating now why would you wanna keep seeing her. It seems like you haven't found love in your heart yet? How long can you stay with someone you really don't love?
2007-05-02 07:36:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well i have had this problem except with a guy of course..lol..umm i like this guy as a friend but we were dating and he was like in love with me and one day i just got up enough courage to tell him how i felt..and now we are best friends..and about the other girl thing..if they like yo as much as you think they do trust me they will stay around..but dont rush into things..just remember that
2007-05-02 07:33:46 · answer #4 · answered by lesley m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u dont reciprocate the ladys feelings its better to get out now or u will be the a hole later
2007-05-02 07:30:57 · answer #5 · answered by kibebrau 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love takes time...if u dun love her...dun do anything more with her otherwise u'll hurt her more...and dun tell her u love her if u dun...coz that'd b lying...if u want to keep other gals as friends...just b there friends...and see wat happens
2007-05-02 07:30:35 · answer #6 · answered by Forever happy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't love you...............she likes you and is infatuated. But you do need to tell her.......................
2007-05-02 07:30:25 · answer #7 · answered by megan261980 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋