can any one tell me if friends can become lovers ? would this be the end of the friendship?
2007-05-02 07:05:21 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes and possibly if it goes wrong. if its a mutual ending friendship can be maintained but only if neither of you want more.
2007-05-02 07:10:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive been through this recently. Yes friends can become lovers but knowing when to make that move can be tricky and if it isn't mutual on both sides it can put quite a strain on the friendship--so be cautious! But live for today because you may never have tomorrow so if you really feel the opportunity is there go for it!
2007-05-02 07:14:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can become lovers and depending how good of friends you were, then yes you can be friends again! Trust me, I've done it. we were friends, then we slept together, then were friends again, then kinda lost touch, then met again and started dating then we broke up and i still love the guy and we have nothing but smiles for eachother. we both respect eachother and are there for eachother, we just dont have romantic feelings anymore, but there still is some attraction, but we are with other people and we are both in support of eachother.
2007-05-02 07:21:13 · answer #3 · answered by tralw2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can become lovers and friends but what if you fall hard for him and he just wants to be friends again. You have to think can you be friends with him again then i would say go for it just becareful of your feelings until you find out his true ones. He might just wanna have sex and if that is what you want then go for it but make that very clear. It does work out sometimes but sometimes it don't
Good Luck to you both
2007-05-02 07:34:42 · answer #4 · answered by jennifer s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes friends can become lovers but never friends again.
2007-05-02 07:09:49 · answer #5 · answered by Please help 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I got close to a man, who became a lover, ( he had a partner) and then we had to stop, we are close friends, nothing happens but i do miss him, but does not spoil our friendship.
2007-05-02 08:13:31 · answer #6 · answered by Emma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. and No it would not providing neither of you are married already. Friendship will grow into love and love must be preceded by friendship to be true love.
2007-05-02 07:10:03 · answer #7 · answered by pwwatson8888 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on your situation. I had a close friend who became my lover, and then i got married and now my friend is just my friend again. It can happen. Depends on if you are adult enough to handle the situation.
2007-05-02 07:45:58 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try reversing it and lovers becoming friends
2007-05-02 07:11:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it will be the end of your friendship should it all fall apart
2007-05-02 07:25:01 · answer #10 · answered by Stivey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋