Guys always tell me that it does not bother them if GF goes on internet and looks at pictures of Paul Walker, or Brad Pitt, or naked photos of hot male models.
Is this really true? If you logged on and saw this in the internet history, would you just shrug it off?
And are you okay with GF chatting with hot guys at bars as long as nothing happens?
2007-05-02 06:50:57 · 9 answers · asked by cathoratio 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is a boundary issue.
I can't control my girlfriend, what she does is up to her. As a guy, I would probably play the idiot macho card and act as if it doesn't bother me....
But in reality, it bugs the heck out of me. Especially if it was done in secret.
Besides exterior looks are simply that...if my gf is obsessed with looks to the point that she looks at other guys and quite possibly has some fantasies about them...then there is a deeper issue.
I am challenged on this topic as a guy. I am loyal to my gf and although I struggle and am tempted to engage in other images, I am constantly reminding myself that I am the love of my life by my side and that there is none out there that completes me as my one and only.
Hey neither she or I are perfect and our eyes can stray, but the reality of the emotion is that it does hurt.
2007-05-02 07:02:43 · answer #1 · answered by warequalspeace 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If my girl was looking at Brad Pitt on the internet I would be turned on and sieze the oppurtunity because I know she would be red hot and ready to go. As far as the talking with hot guys at the bar, if it is not Brad Pitt I am going to be pissed.
2007-05-02 06:57:06 · answer #2 · answered by ncarlsongolf 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I know you want guys' opinions on here but I just had to answer...
I don't see anything wrong with looking at celebrities...I like Brad Pitt and it wouldn't bother my partner if I looked...same as if he was looking at Jessica Simpson or whomever.
If he was chatting up any women in bars though, that's when the gloves would come out....the same way he'd be upset if I was to chat up guys in a bar.
Hope that all makes sense. :-)
2007-05-02 06:56:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
my wife does it every now and then but it doesnt run her life. I've had guys talk to my wife in the bar and when she's asked if she's married she points my way , and they move on. I feel comfortable with what she does, if she gets into a wet t-shirt contest, thats ok as long as she doesnt have problems then thats were I step in
2007-05-02 06:57:16 · answer #4 · answered by Jerry R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are looking at guys online who cares. They can look at whatever they want.
I am not worried if they talk to guys in bars as long as she comes home to me, that means nothing.
2007-05-02 06:55:50 · answer #5 · answered by UPGRAYEDD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would not bother me at all to have my woman looking at pics of guys famous or not.
I'm ok with my woman talking to guys in bars or anywhere else. If I did not trust her to be honest and faithful I would end it.
2007-05-02 06:58:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i trust my lady completely so no it would not bother me what she does (well i may feel a little left out as she was not talking to me)
2007-05-02 06:57:56 · answer #7 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was models or like famous pep, not really...if it was like guys on craigslist or any dating site...yes...if she was looking at girls...now thats what im talking about!
2007-05-02 06:54:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm fine with it so long as she doesn't mind me doing the same thing.
2007-05-02 06:58:41 · answer #9 · answered by el_durro2000 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋