this guy always flirted with me and when we hooked up and he saw my body he couldn't get it up. he told his friends he wouldn't date me b/c i'm fat. i'm not overweight but i do have a large bodyframe b/c i'm 5'7. he was probably shorter than me with a smaller body frame. was he nervous and tyring to cover up that he couldn't perform? or was he really unattracte dto me-even thogh he wanted me for a long time and his friends thoth i was pretty-but i'm not very htin w/ a small frame=but not fat?
2007-05-02 07:28:39 · 16 answers · asked by girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When I first do it with a new partner I get really nervous about performing and I have trouble also. It has nothing to do with the woman, I just have to get more comfortable with her. That may be the case with this guy, but he kind of sounds like an ******** anyway so be happy you didnt.
2007-05-02 07:36:38 · answer #1 · answered by wrf3k 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if the guy you were trying to have sex with wasn't attracted to you then he wouldnt be in bed with you in the first place. If you are a little on the heavy side then he should know how your body would look naked. Maybe he was just nervous. You shouldn't think about what happend during the time you guys tried to have sex, rather what happens afterwards. Does he still want to hook up with you? or has he not communicate with you at all?
2007-05-02 14:36:57 · answer #2 · answered by CiNdiEe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey I'm 5ft7 and thick! And I have never had any problems getting a man. First off you need to have enough confidence in yourself to tell this guy to f*ck off. There is nothing wrong with you. Everyone does have there own preferences, and yes some men don't like thick chicks but I'm pretty sure he knew you were thick before you got home. He is just talking sh*t being immature and insecure. Don't let him get you down!
2007-05-02 14:36:30 · answer #3 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The question is, did you try to help him get it up or did you just lay there watching and waiting. You didn't tell us whether or not you participated at all. There have been a few occasions when I thought some lady was really sexy, but when it got down to the nitty gritty, she just lay there like a log and expected me to do everything to please her without doing anything for me.
I would get the lady off with hands or mouth, put my clothes on, and bid them good night. Sometimes, just offering yourself and waiting to be serviced is not a turn - on.
2007-05-02 14:39:11 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he couldn't perform Lol.....but hes and A** if he blamed it on you. A lot of guys like thick gals and if he wasn't attracted to you it wouldn't have gone as far as you taking off your clothes. He is a looser!!!!!! And if his friends think your cute they probably didn't believe him anyway. Guys wouldn't want their friends to know the truth they would have never let him forget it. Dont beat yourself up about it I'm pretty sure your very attractive its his loss. You probably would have given him the ride of his life YEEEE Haaaaaaa ride em cow girl!!!!! LOL take care
2007-05-02 14:41:51 · answer #5 · answered by VeNnY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is that he was so excited and thinking too much and he lost it. He then went on the offensive and started telling his friends that it was your fault so that he didnt look like the flacid little pri** that he probably is. Be glad he wasnt able to knock you up.
2007-05-02 14:41:23 · answer #6 · answered by Mike S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes just trying to act cool with his friends. If he couldnt get it up something wrong with his tool not you. Ive never had that problem even when i wasnt attracted to that person. Guys will be guys.
2007-05-02 14:37:02 · answer #7 · answered by Steve-O 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one but my guess would be he just couldn't perform. Your probably really hot and he didn't know what to do with it when it actually in his face...
2007-05-02 14:33:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
depending on the guy and his age i think. personally i don't think i could preform if i wasn't attracted to the women. I wouldn't allow it to go to that level.
2007-05-02 14:34:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well he sounds shallow dont be self conscience of urself he is the one with the problem
2007-05-02 14:32:45 · answer #10 · answered by kibebrau 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋