He never tells me he loves me any other time, not after making love, or anything! Makes me think he just wants a (buddy) friend. I have been living with him for over 3 years and I feel I'm wasting my time with him. What do you all think????
2007-05-02 07:05:18 · 14 answers · asked by moon_girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He probably believes that you want to hear him say "I Love you," and will use that to manipulate you into doing/saying what he wants.
2007-05-02 07:09:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be brutally honest, he sounds like a dud. A little child who only likes someone when they give him what he wants. People need love all the time, not just when they want justification for their wrong actions. If I were you I'd get out, as soon as possible.
2007-05-02 14:10:35 · answer #2 · answered by LN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you want passion! I also think that a real man's life at the end can be qualified as good if he had passion. If it ain't there after 3 years, you will have to find it elsewhere.
2007-05-02 14:13:28 · answer #3 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darlin, I would say that to me he sounds like a selfish fool. If you are as loving as it sounds you deserve a b/f that is just as loving as you are ! Baby life is too precious to be spent doubting someones love.
2007-05-02 14:21:05 · answer #4 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has a lot of pyschological problems and needs to grow up! Find someone already grown up!
2007-05-02 14:09:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're wasting your time, go get someone who will treat you the way you deserve.
2007-05-02 14:09:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to say i love you after you have been a vindicitve, henious, vicious *****. He's letting you know the traits he likes about you, maybe your support, when he's unsure? Probably unconciously does it too.
2007-05-02 14:09:58 · answer #7 · answered by shadycaliber 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you have to tell him how you feel and why it is so hard for him to say the words because it shouldnt be.
2007-05-02 14:08:10 · answer #8 · answered by jeannie f 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your wasting what will probaly be the best years of you life on a loser
2007-05-02 14:09:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Follow your instincts. They're usually right.
2007-05-02 14:08:28 · answer #10 · answered by Clever_Cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋