Singles & Dating - 30 April 2007

I have only been goin out this girl for 3 weeks, i really love everything about her and she says the same. The only problem is her ex, she wont tell him about us because 'he will shout at her and go mad at her'. She tells everyone else about us thought. She see's him everyday a college and spends every lunch with him, just the 2 of them. They were together for 2 years in high school and split up a year ago, he hasn't had another girlfriend since they split up. She has had afew short term boyfriends but nothing serous. He is constantly ringing her checking on her, making sure she isn't with any other guys. She tells me they are just friends and i trust her, but i think he still has feelings for her. I can accept her spending time with him at college but i just don't like the fact that he doesn't know about us. I just want to know what other people would do in my situation. I'm just worried about losing her. She told me she will tell him soon.

2007-04-30 23:58:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am dating one of my closest friends. He is really nice and everything, but he's just so damn "friend"! I want tokiss him but it just feels weird. It's not that I don't like him like that, its just that it takes a while to get used to the idea, but he wants to kiss and hold hands and all the stuff couples do, but im not sure im ready. What am i supposed to do, because i feel like a totally horrible girlfriend!

2007-04-30 23:54:33 · 9 answers · asked by Ollie 2

why is it that its so hard to move on?

2007-04-30 23:35:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-30 23:31:42 · 5 answers · asked by shuaishang591 1

losing your virginity before marriage is stigmatized as a sin.
but generation y has almost no regards for this "rule".
it's almost as if it has become a norm.

i'm careful when i say this and i don't mean it in any offence, but i believe virginity to women holds a more deeper importance and impact, than it does to men.
when a girl anticipates having sex before marriage, it seems a lot is at stake.
there's the issue of protection, the idea of "popping the cherry", the partner, and the emotional rollercoaster.

i myself believed i would wait until after marriage.
i grew up with my mother telling me to 'stay pure' until marriage, and i agreed.
then i found someone special. it happened earlier than i thought and yes, unexpected.
with all the reassuring, i couldn't bring myself to come forward to her.
i don't regret it. it was beautiful and meaningful, and my relationship holds strong and true.
but i have to admit, there is a little guilt.

so, is it really that wrong?

2007-04-30 23:30:10 · 17 answers · asked by psychedelena 1

2007-04-30 23:22:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Women are excellent liars of course, from all the practice, naturally very sneaky and also continually suspicious.

Men on the other hand are trusting idiots who couldn't lie straight in bed.

Is the great disparity at which men and women are caught out cheating all down to the fact that men are idiots?

2007-04-30 23:21:25 · 12 answers · asked by Desperate Loser 5

A few years ago, I was a virgin (18) and had been dating my boyfriend at the time for two months. He was friends with my friends, the topic of me being a virgin never came up (we fooled around but never had sex) and although I should have mentioned something I just assumed he knew that I was. One night we came home from a date and he started to have sex with me. He didn't ask, he just did. I was in so much shock I didn't know what to do until after 30-40 seconds I told him to stop and he did. He said sorry and went to sleep. It was never mentioned agian the entirety of our relationship (about a year). It bothers me to this day. Was I raped? I really don't know.

2007-04-30 23:19:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

at the bar with friends, guy walks up our table and asks this girl to dance girl says no thanks! guy leave and then we all asked her why did you say no he was a good looking guy. and she said i know is was really cute! why do girls turn guys down even when they like them?

2007-04-30 23:01:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-30 23:00:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

She said she'd known but for a while, but she didn't feel the same. We're still friends and I'm still with my girlfriend but I feel like crap.

2007-04-30 22:59:17 · 16 answers · asked by barnaby_362003 3

im single and i was starting to talk to this girl on msn i herd she likes me but im not sure if i like her , we only started to talk for about 10 mins and i was told by her m8 (who gave me her addy) that she wanted to met up with me tonight the same night that we started to talk im not sure about her yet she is 16 and im 19 , but i dont realy want to be single and i dont have a job to pay for stuff

2007-04-30 22:23:45 · 20 answers · asked by ak222002 4

I'm pregnant and my ex dumped me when i was 5 weeks gone he soon moved onto a 17yr old gf (he's 25 married still but not with her and has 3 kids!) i want them to split up so he will be here for the baby and so that we can maybe start again. If not i want him away from my hometown and the only way i can think is if he got fired he'd have nowhere to live here. he has previous criminal history including beating both his pregnant exes and stealing from an old job what can i do?

2007-04-30 22:21:56 · 26 answers · asked by saffy50 1

That's what some girl in my class just told me. Was she hitting on me...?

Should I ask her out?

2007-04-30 22:18:51 · 4 answers · asked by sweatypig7 s 1

There's a lot of potential between us. Let's convert some into kinetic.

2007-04-30 22:15:21 · 10 answers · asked by sweatypig7 s 1

2007-04-30 22:05:20 · 8 answers · asked by sisa 1

Hi guys, I really need some good sound advice. I have been with my current boyfriend for almost 3 years, and we have our ups and downs as usual. My ex got in touch with me a while ago, please believe me when i say we didn't part on bad terms, we just fell away from each other. anyway, he told me that he was ready for whatever i wanted (told me this back in feb) he knows that i have a bf and is happy just being friends. so i forgot all about it and carried on with my bf as normal, but on sunday, it all just hit me and now i've been thinking about my ex constantly and I realise that I still love him. I know that my bf treats me badly but I cant help loving him too, even though he is going to Ibiza with his friend instead of me, he's been saying that he wants to stay over there to work (dont know if he's kidding or not) and before sunday I didn't want him to stay away, now i'm secretly hoping that he does, as it clears the way for me. I dont want to be the one to break us up.

2007-04-30 22:04:37 · 9 answers · asked by nc 3

my bf says i am not worth for him but sometimes asks me to think abt his proposal

2007-04-30 22:03:03 · 4 answers · asked by whitu 1

What is the average age? 12, 13, 14? What is it?!?

2007-04-30 21:58:13 · 25 answers · asked by hoosier_bball94 1

2007-04-30 21:50:50 · 14 answers · asked by Ashima K 2

I still live in my mom's basement, and she's cool with me having chicks over, but I usually try to bring them over when she's at her book club, so I can just pretend it's my house. But sometimes mom is like, home, watching jeopardy or lawrence welk or something and I still want to have my way with a lady, but I don't want her to go upstairs because my mom might offer her milk and cookies and like, talk to her, you know what I'm saying?

So how can I tell the girl it's my house, but not let her go upstairs? I was thinking of saying I have fear of heights or someone died upstairs or something.

What do all my other basement dwelling bros do?

2007-04-30 21:49:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a female friend says this to you, after a day out with mates:

"I hate to admit it, but it was good to see you again, it was just like the old days. We should definantly do it again".

I then said that I lost her number (her reaction wasn't happy!) and she said she'll txt me soon.... 2 mins later she txt me saying "thanks again for today,here's my number".

1. Did she miss me?

2. Is it significant as we didn't speak for 4 months? Contact only resumed this month really via email.(I got to close and broke contact-not wise I know!)

2007-04-30 21:46:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, so theres this girl im with and she just recently told me she loves me, and i love her too. But yesterday, i kinda ran into my ex (My first love) online. (Bad timing huh?) and we hit it off pretty good after not talking for a year after she dumped me in the worst possible way. I think i may still have a little bit of feelings for my ex.

But no!!! I love this other girl too much to quit her. This girl is the girl i think may be "the one." The other girl's only special cuz she was my first love. But anywho, just wanted to share.

2007-04-30 21:46:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-30 21:40:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

A few years ago when I was a teen, I had this guy who was AMAZING in my life. We were very close & really were perfect for eachother. He is definetly the one who got away though, I was too dumb to not take him for granted. I just thought he would always be there you know? But time went by & we simply slipped away. I haven't even seen him or talked to him in 2 years now.
My problem is that I really LOVE him. Its a waste of my time now that he isnt even in my life (& I cant find him). Throughout my whole LIFE I haven't met even one person who could even compare to him. As cheesy as this is, his soul was just...unexplanably beautiful. There is NOTHING better in this world.
I am not really pining over him or anything still, but I just can't seem to meet anyone who can even come close to that feeling I get from just the thought of him. I know I need to move on--and in most ways I have, but its just the comparison part & its not like I purposely compare him
How do you replace PERFECTION?

2007-04-30 21:26:09 · 8 answers · asked by Intuitive Dreamer 3

2007-04-30 21:24:53 · 13 answers · asked by liliaceae_aletris 2

2007-04-30 21:23:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

He lied took all my money sold the whole inside of my home. spent everything on him even bailed him from dui of alchohol... He played with my head so bad for months....he got me fired from two jobslll He caused me not to get hired at a job.. because he was talking to woman there and didn't want me to find out I pay his cell phone bill cause its in my name I fed him for a year. I believed this guy... I moved to another state with this guy moved from all my family Im a single mother 44 years old he is 47 and really has decieved me once he got me here... HELp

2007-04-30 21:20:18 · 10 answers · asked by Chellsea 1

Which profession would you choose to be and why?

2007-04-30 21:16:52 · 7 answers · asked by superniort 1

Hey well First of I am not gay, bi, curious or anything else like that. I don't know what the hell happened. I was hanging out talking with my fiance's dad got really drunk, and the next morning I woke up naked in bed with him. I know what you're gonna say that how do I know that we actually did anything together. Trust me I know. I wont say how, but I know. I just don't know what to do. We're getting married next month. I know I have to tell her. I also know it's really gonna **** things up. I just don't know how to tell her, or what to do.

2007-04-30 21:15:37 · 10 answers · asked by Big Steve 1