He lied took all my money sold the whole inside of my home. spent everything on him even bailed him from dui of alchohol... He played with my head so bad for months....he got me fired from two jobslll He caused me not to get hired at a job.. because he was talking to woman there and didn't want me to find out I pay his cell phone bill cause its in my name I fed him for a year. I believed this guy... I moved to another state with this guy moved from all my family Im a single mother 44 years old he is 47 and really has decieved me once he got me here... HELp
2007-04-30 21:20:18 · 10 answers · asked by Chellsea 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow - is his name Jonathan? Cuz that happened to me. I moved from Arizona to South Dakota and he totally changed!!! I stuck around for 2 months and saved enough money to move back. The way I messed with him was I made him think that I was moving back to Arizona and getting this great job and great apartment and we would be sooo happy there. So he followed me back about a month later. I had found someone else and rubbed him nose in it. I didn't get a great job or great apartment but made him think I did. I know he felt bad he lost me.
2007-04-30 21:30:43 · answer #1 · answered by Vickie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sure hope that you learned not to be so trusting. You must not have know the guy very well before you left with him. Looking back did you see the signs, and try to look past them? There a plenty of people out ther just looking for someone as naive as you were. Pick up your pieces, and start over. This time be a lot more careful who you trust. Go back home. You need your family's support right now.
2007-05-01 04:28:22 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey it sounds like he knew he didnt love you, and he possibly doesnt love the other women either, it sounds like he has real problems to do this to you. It would be a good idea if possible to move away from that state, make a new beginning.
When you go to a job interview your next one. Let them know you lost your last job because of your partner that your no longer with him anymore and that wont be happening again.
What he has done will catch up with him one day and it wont help you holding onto him. But you dont have to do anything about it, you dont want to get caught up in his mess. Do the best thing you can for yourself and get on with your life and add this situation to your belt as knowing not to let some one get to you like this again.
I suggest you make your standards higher for who is good enough for yourself as a your future partner and for your children.
2007-05-01 04:33:08 · answer #3 · answered by Karen D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you pay the cell phone bill if you are unemployed? Sounds fishy. The only way that you can mess him over is have sex with every guy he knows, make videos of it and post it on the Internet then complain about how bad he was in bed on every blog you can find. Bad advice but if the shoe fits as they say then wear it.
2007-05-01 04:32:22 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ideas on torturing a guy:
=Sell his social security to people involved in identiy theft
=withdraw money from his bank account
=have him diagnosed by a friend doctor that he has AIDS
=shave his eyebrows while sleeping
=seriously, JUST HAVE THE COURAGE TO LEAVE HIM WITHOUT SAYING ANYTHING.
2007-05-01 04:27:54 · answer #5 · answered by LIA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its you, you need to run away from! yes this guy screwed you over but you let him by letting him have more and more. so take him to court get your money back better yet kill his life (dont kill him) tell everybody he has a small thing then when he says no i dont show all of his friends the pictures
2007-05-01 04:27:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two are broken up, I see no need to get revenge. Him being the way he is, that is torture enough to himself.
2007-05-01 04:31:12 · answer #7 · answered by omorris1978 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know EXACTLY how you feel!!!! I liked the previous girls suggestions... especially selling his social security number. That's a great idea!!!!! Happy Revenge!!!!!
2007-05-01 04:30:10 · answer #8 · answered by ~Crystal~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you just have to hit him with a billion tennis rackets on his dumb head!!! Just kidding. Just ignore that ninny!
2007-05-05 01:21:01 · answer #9 · answered by Miyu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bless him and Avoid him at all costs. Run but don't walk.
2007-05-01 04:23:53 · answer #10 · answered by Bright 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋