Hey well First of I am not gay, bi, curious or anything else like that. I don't know what the hell happened. I was hanging out talking with my fiance's dad got really drunk, and the next morning I woke up naked in bed with him. I know what you're gonna say that how do I know that we actually did anything together. Trust me I know. I wont say how, but I know. I just don't know what to do. We're getting married next month. I know I have to tell her. I also know it's really gonna **** things up. I just don't know how to tell her, or what to do.
2007-04-30 21:15:37 · 10 answers · asked by Big Steve 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is it possible that you were fed a date-rape drug by the guy you woke up with???
The reason I asked is because it seems strange that you were drinking with him then passed out until the next day! I am not sure about what you should do about that but maybe you should tell your fiance that that's what you think happened and I am sure that she will feel badly for you and be ok about it. After all, if you were slipped something you wouldn't have had any control over the situation.
Good luck with that one, it's a horrible situation for you to be in.
2007-04-30 21:29:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this girls's father is an evil,wicked man, I'm sure he probably knew what he was doing even if you didn't. This girl deserves to know the kind of father she has,one who gets her fiance so drunk he didn't know what he was doing and then takes advantage. HE'S EVIL. This doesn't take away from your own responsibility but are you sure he didn't slip something in your drink? If you haven't mentioned this to him I would ask him,let him know how disgusted and sickened you are. He's obviously gay or bi even if you aren't. If you marry her he'll always be part of your life,could you handle that? Tell her and take it from there!
2007-04-30 21:35:11 · answer #2 · answered by SUSIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went out with a date and his acquaintances and had some too many long island ice teas - blacked out. did not remember the walk homestead, apparently puked my guts out in my date's bathroom and ended up pissing on his futon in my sleep. It began out as a interesting evening and that i felt ashamed for having human beings I slightly knew ought to guard me and confirm i develop into ok. for sure, that develop into our very last date. Felt very undesirable about this for a lengthy time period yet I resolved to under no circumstances, ever back, drink demanding liquor even as out at a bar. So my suggestion - do what's significant to substantiate you do not repeat the experience and also you may likely sense extra efficient.
2016-12-05 03:57:39 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! I don't know that there's any way you can deal with this that isn't going to cause you embarassment and regret.
I'd say you just have to get your courage together and take the consequences. Let what happens, happen and then move on.
Good Luck, oh, and as the guy before said, you need to drink less.
2007-04-30 21:30:09 · answer #4 · answered by Claudia G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that you tell her, although a little wight lie may be required. Just say you woke up and you were both naked, she may see the funny side of it. You were both drunk and people do stupid things when they are enumerated. I don't think it's a good idea to actually tell her you had sex with her father no no no not a good idea at all.
AGONY UNCLE.
2007-04-30 21:23:19 · answer #5 · answered by coofooman 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
omg,4col,
DUDE, SERIOUSLY WHY EVEN BOTHER YOU KNOW THE OUTCOME. DOES HER DAD WANT TO TELL OR IS HE JUST AS FKED UP ABOUT IT AS YOU ARE. YOU JUST DONT GET DRUNK AND FORGET ABOUT THE STRAIGHTNESS MAN. IS THIS DAD A GAY INDIVDUAL OR NOT? GET TESTED FIRST. IF THE DAD DOESNT SAY ANYTHING THEN . I WANT TO SAY TELL HER BUT THAT WOULD REALLY GET YOU AND DAD BOTH DESTROYED. TROUBLE, YOU BETTER NEVER DRINK AGAIN. SKELETON CLOSET. DAMN DUDE.
2007-04-30 21:26:23 · answer #6 · answered by roughdelicate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to force her dad to tell her. then she'll be more angry with him. good luck man. that's probably the worst thing that could have possibly happened. do you think maybe it was his fault? is he an ok guy?
2007-04-30 22:48:31 · answer #7 · answered by laurie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
:-S
Oh mate, I am so sorry to hear this.
You need to tell her asap, so she has time to process this.
Also... If you can't handle your drink, don't drink so much.
Goin that far, and not having a clue is pretty dangerous....
2007-04-30 21:19:11 · answer #8 · answered by lami_by_design 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude dont say nothin to her....might be the worst mistake of your life.
2007-04-30 21:24:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
does that mean your butt hurts, just tell her that she is going to have to where the strap on for now on!
2007-04-30 21:20:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋