K lets say you met a professional musician(no, not famous, but up and comming) he devotes a lot of time into EVERYTHING that he does, including his music, his art, and if and when a relationship comes about, that as well. Say you were living in Ohio, not in school or anything just had your job, and its JUST a job... not a career or anything. and your family was here, well you really like this guy, you see that he is trustworthy and you can see a future with him... Would you move to Texas with him to further his Career as a musician, if you know he could support himself finacialy and support your decision as well?
By the way, i am a graphic designer, I have a good job already down there, just wondering if any girls would go for it or not...
2007-05-02 07:06:45 · 21 answers · asked by Deformation Age 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm the guy....
2007-05-02 07:12:40 · update #1
Yes i would definitly go to be with him if i thought that there could be anything between us. If infact that he wanted me to go would be a bug thing and that would show me that he really wanted to be with me and maybe he even loves me so why would i let let go?? I wouldnt
2007-05-02 09:50:15 · answer #1 · answered by dede 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I definitely feel it's important to support one another in a relationship, especially if there is potential for a future together. If he felt this move would further his career I would probably go with him. What would I have to lose besides a job??? Not a career right? Perhaps theres more to her decision to stay behind than she's letting on. Maybe she is scared to separate from her family, perhaps scared of failure. Who knows, I think a good conversation with her should help you out.
2007-05-02 07:13:57 · answer #2 · answered by AlivenWell 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it's scary to think about moving to another place where I don't know anyone, away from my family and jobless, but if I really know that the guy is capable of providing for me (not that I would depend on him, I will look for a new job for me) and he's really trustworthy, committed to me and to our relationship and wants me to be part of his life and he means it, I wouldn't mind.
But I know for sure that as a musician, you really can't just live in one place and settle down. Musicians go around the country looking for chances of fame, money, and a life long career.
2007-05-02 07:14:28 · answer #3 · answered by peachy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People relocate all the time, for a boyfriend or girlfriend (I've known people to do it for someone they met online only a handful of times or less).
Would I relocate to be with a guy? It would really depend on how I felt about him, and how I understood him to feel about me...I love where I live now (it's not Ohio...LOL!) so he'd have to be someone pretty spectacular to get me to leave "paradise"...but I wouldn't say it would never happen.
2007-05-02 07:11:31 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IF you have a good job and could support yourself on your own, sure, there's no reason not to pull up roots and go to another state to live.
However, make sure that if the relationship doesn't work out, you have the financial means to move out on your own, or move back home, whichever you choose. Don't make a move without a backup plan! :)
2007-05-02 07:10:37 · answer #5 · answered by Jarien 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the job is just a job and nothing spectacular like a professional career or the like I don't see what the problem would be.
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2016-10-14 09:01:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
But do you love this person and if you do are you willing to move away from everyone? There's a lot more to it. Now neither of you knows people from the area and it can be very annoying with just that person.
2007-05-02 07:10:26 · answer #8 · answered by Taryn K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I really had strong feelings I would. But, if I had family that I was leaving behind I don't think I would sometimes family and friends are too important to just pack up and leave.
2007-05-02 07:11:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have always been of the belief that if you truly care for someone you kind of have to roll with the punches.
You have to make sacrifices you have to basically put yourself out there because if you don't you may spend the rest of your life regretting it.
So yes I would move there
2007-05-03 00:09:37 · answer #10 · answered by ambidextrous25 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋