Two weeks ago, I visited my ex. We had a nice visit and rekindled some old feelings. He has been brutal on email, but he was lovely in person. He asked if I wanted to keep in touch, and was very excited when I said yes. He called a twice last week and said he would like to talk, but that the ball was in my court. Our break-up was traumatic for me, and I had to go through a lot to be open to that: migraines and flashbacks for 2 days. Anyways, I lost control and called him a few times, and he wrote me this horrible letter:
The past few days are all a blur with many things that I had to do. I cannot worry about your feelings because they are not important to me right now. I am sorry you feel the way you do, but i have a life that requires me. I am sorry but you are not currently a part of any of my engagements. I haven't been on a computer 4 2 days. leave trust out of it, and stop talking about the past. i do not give a ****. okay?
2007-05-02 20:45:01 · 6 answers · asked by myrtlebough 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry you are going through this.
I suggest you find a counselor to help you come through these feelings.
As for your ex - he seems to run hot & cold which hurts you. You should not contact him until you are sure you are over him. He's not treating you well - no one deserves that.
2007-05-02 20:50:32 · answer #1 · answered by Treadstone 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a real jerk if you ask me. He definitely has other things on his mind and possibly another girl, you just don't know. Anyway, he says that your feelings dont matter to him then just tell him to screw himself cause he doesnt deserve you in the first place. I don't think I have ever heard a guy say/write anything like that before and it makes me feel like, wow, so that's how guys think when their heartless. You gotta agree. Get rid of this idiot, who by the way, is never gonna get a girl. You've got too much class to settle for a pompus jerk!
Move on Hun!
2007-05-02 20:59:05 · answer #2 · answered by BabyGirl22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My heart is with you. The missive was cruel and unexplainable. Sounds like you are both having difficulties parting but know it's inevitable. You've been kinder and classier than he. Thus you will probably fare better in your next relationship than he will.
2007-05-02 20:59:37 · answer #3 · answered by jourdepaye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you don't give a **** either. Move on cause any guy who will talk to you like that isn't worth your time or energy and is not suitable for any type of relationship.
2007-05-02 20:51:20 · answer #4 · answered by מימי 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a man talks to you like this now its how he is gonna treat you forever. I would get out now before you get even more hurt.
2007-05-02 20:48:26 · answer #5 · answered by ckpipes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him up and move on. no more emails. If he emails you give him the cold shoulder.
2007-05-02 20:49:22 · answer #6 · answered by Blue eyed wonder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋