Someone here on answers made that statement and I am just wondering how many of you think that is a fair or accurate thing to say??
2007-05-02 20:34:27 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By the way that is a exact quote..NOT my words at all.
2007-05-02 20:35:09 · update #1
Completely inaccurate, its what we call a paradigm, a self-made judgement from personal hurt.
Its the same as calling all girls are whoress, all men are the same, Jerkss.
As simple as this" Just becomes a few a people are of a particular manner , doesnt mean all like-ones are similar"
2007-05-02 20:47:10 · answer #1 · answered by vio_prince 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is "beautiful" and what is "normal"? Not everyone has the same taste in women, and to think so is ignorant.
I don't buy the original statement, because it's not in line with real life. A woman that many in society says aren't "beautiful" can have many prospects if she's a confident person, and I know of the "beautiful" women who have none. I've seen some hideous-looking women cheat and even break up other people's marriages. It happens all the time.
I think that insecure men say this because they ignorantly think that every man thinks just like him..."I think she's ugly, so no one else will find her attractive, and no one will want to get with her." It's nice to think that "hey, if I get with a homely/normal/ugly girl, she won't cheat on me." But faithfulness is about values, not just opportunity. Besides, who says that normal girls don't have opportunity?
Let me pose it this way. A more "normal" girl may have more opportunity than the pretty girls because men may feel more comfortable approaching them and aren't as intimidated by them. Now what is done with the opportunity is up to the girl, but dating someone one thinks is "normal" or "ugly" is not going to up the odds of a faithful mate.
2007-05-03 06:40:03 · answer #2 · answered by marina_breeze 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually i would believe it's true. Just because of odd's; the beautiful girl will have to fend off many more men than the average one. If 1 in every 100 women cheated after and advance or proposition were made, would the one with more propositions natrually cheat more. A more beautiful woman would also expect more, therefore depending on the guy, and her standards would there not always be somone "better" in her perception. This does not seem to be flawed logic although i have no way to prove either way to the incomplete facts and possible number variations included within this speculation.
2007-05-03 04:48:35 · answer #3 · answered by shadycaliber 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A girl, no matter how beautiful she is would never cheat if she was brought up with morals and values and if her guy treats her right.
Guys who are unreasonably jealous will always have trust issues playing up in their minds though especially if his girlfriend/wife is beautiful.
I know someone who's not good-looking and cheats at the same time, so that's not a fair statement to say.
2007-05-03 03:51:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to this, beautiful girls are not normal, or normal girls are not beautiful. That really bothers me. That's the first thing. The second thing, beauty has nothing to do with cheating. I knew a girl that was everything but beautiful and had a boyfriend that was so good looking and she still cheated on him.
So, I suppose, it's not beauty that makes girl cheat. It depends on what kind of person she is.
2007-05-03 04:02:09 · answer #5 · answered by E.T.O. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The statement is incorrect,any girl can cheat on you.If you take a normal girl,and a ugly girl,and someone makes them feel beautiful they can cheat just like a beautiful girl.
2007-05-03 03:42:49 · answer #6 · answered by cancel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the.
Personally I think that's a rather ignorant statement to say. When people say things like this I love to hear their logic.
I'm assuming that any "normal" person must have the face of Chewbacca or something.
2007-05-03 03:52:29 · answer #7 · answered by Never alone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can never make a statment like that and it be 100% true. in a way, it makes sense, if a beautiful woman, knows she beautiful and wants the attention and can get it.....that particular type will probably be more prone to cheat....
on the other hand, a beautiful woman can have the respect and dignity to no cheat, it never completly lies on how you look, remember that.
2007-05-03 03:41:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely not accurate. That person is just insecure with beautiful women and shallow. I would not even dignify that statement with a response.
2007-05-03 03:42:01 · answer #9 · answered by L L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's fair to say that. Looks have nothing to do with the woman inside. Shallow men not seeing the woman inside is the WHOLE PROBLEM IN THE FIRST PLACE! lol
2007-05-03 03:39:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋