I mean why do girls seem act one way one day and the next day be completely indifferent? Is it just the girls that i talk to or is it a general thing for all girls. Can girls even help themselves sometimes? Ugh i am a guy who likes to be positive as much as possible but so many girls act completely positive one day then they act negetive the next day. I understand i get angry sometimes as well but i don't let it effect how i treat other people i don't know. So could somebody please answer this tough question? Thanks Peace and love to all!
2007-05-02 21:36:25 · 21 answers · asked by sims 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is a complex question. Start with selfishness then go on to PMS and hormones and emotions. Next we can add illogical thinking to all the above. Then we can also add insecurity which leads to more idealism that when they figure out that it is what it is they try to cover up with over zealousness. Don't forget about the fact they also have motherly instincts and all kinds of sensitivities going on too.
They also lack attention no matter how much they do get and if it comes from the wrong person or at the wrong time...forget it. I could go on and on but in the end I guess the old saying is true here..."Women- can't live with them can't live without them!"
2007-05-02 21:55:42 · answer #1 · answered by efren 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People have been asking this question since Adam and Eve. Basically men and women are different species. Men admire looks, women admire strength. Men like dependency in women, women like money and status in men. There's a book called *Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus* which is worth reading. Basically women have a constant need to be reassured and complimented.
2007-05-02 21:47:03 · answer #2 · answered by 2kool4u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some girls: theyre bithes
some girls: its not their fault
when i get all like that, happy on the way to dinner, sad during dinner, pissed off after...
my bf never understands and he alwyas thinks i dont like my food or something lol. he draws very unusual conclusions about my behavior because he forgets what estrogen is..
anyways, i ALWAYS say im sorry and "make it up" when i dont feel like that so that he knows that even though im still all blahhh its not me, and i wont be like that forever.
jsut ask them what is wrong and stuff like that and then later when theyre not all blahh tell them you like it when theyre happy, and you dont like to be around them when they act like that, even if its not theyre fault. then if they are bitches they will ignore you, but if its not theyre fault, they might still be all blah, but you will be able to tell they make an effort to be sweet and wonderful when they do have control.
sorry if its not what you wan tto hear, but you are the men, and we are the women. thast just the way it is i guess lol
2007-05-02 21:48:04 · answer #3 · answered by superval13 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ever think that maybe it is YOU and not half of the population (women) that has a problem with anger management
At least you are sensitive enough to know there is a problem - keep working on it and good luck with finding miss right.
2007-05-02 21:44:59 · answer #4 · answered by Sue J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some are clearly insane, but the rest of us, well, our whole hormonal system really messes us about - you have never dealt w/ PMS - you are lucky to be a man my friend.
I guess the answer is - we just are. Sorry. You could become gay, ...otherwise you are stuck with us.
2007-05-02 23:54:27 · answer #5 · answered by slipstreamer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im like that, and its just because i have alot going on in my life, and im sensitive, and certain things can totally kill my day. one day ill be loud and talkative,and the next day ill just be kinda quiet, its not cuz im a *****, im just thinking. girls have more going on than you know, i usually have guy issues, i have bulimia, i got kicked out of school for getting my *** kicked, I fight w/ my friends, ive been used, and used as a rebound girl, my moms an alcoholic, my dads gone, my grandmas dying, and thats why we're quiet, my life really isnt that bad, i just have alot on my mind
2007-05-02 22:34:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well some girls are....ok girls ARE moodlier :D than boys, but you have to understand sometimes, it's just that girls like it more perfect and want everything to be the way they planned and often it doesn't...still, there are a lot of real bitches, who really are unsupportable...get away from the ***** and find yourself a nice girl...good luck :)
2007-05-02 21:45:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
real simple, riding emotions. Something may have angered them earlier in the day, still carring that baggage later, the heart is much slower to forget than the logical mind.
2007-05-02 21:41:42 · answer #8 · answered by shadycaliber 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hormones, they can't help it, how would you feel if you knew that in a weeks time blood was going to start pumping out of your bum or winkle and you had to pad up?
2007-05-02 21:40:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i cant even look at my bf when im pmsing, just leave us alone when we are angry, havent men learned anything at all thoughout history, NO, they find ways to piss us off even more.
2007-05-02 21:47:40 · answer #10 · answered by jen w 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋