Ok i went on a blind date with this guy and we had fun. I But he didn't flirt that much. The next day he texted me and was friendly, but didn't ask me for date two. And again the next day we texted and nothing. So by day three i figured he wasn't into me but i wouldn't mind having this guy as a friend because he's relly funny and we have alot in common. So i texted him and said that i get it that he's not into me and i asked if he wanted to hang out 2 days later. He seemed confused and said he was just trying to take is slow and if he flirted too much i might be scared off. I aploygised (and felt like a tool) and asked if he still wanted to hang out on that day, he said yes. Well the day comes and he sent me a cute text but didn't say anything about hanging out. And he didn't text or call me at all. I decided if he wanted to hang out with me then he would have contacted me. I don't want to have to chase a guy. So what the H? Did i scare him off? he was still texting me. Did he forget?
2007-05-02 21:12:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He told me that he was intersted in getting to know me better. but didn't want to scare me off.
2007-05-02 21:42:53 · update #1
Slow down if he really wants you he will call you.
stop looking for him and he will look for you. you follow it it runs, you run it follows you.
2007-05-02 22:09:05 · answer #1 · answered by foxylady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once upon a time, the guy always asked out the girl. The woman usually answered with yes, or no; there was always respect involved and there was no such thing as a stalker. Now men and women have that word to deal with, how far can i go, how aggressive should i be, then we find ourselves waiting for the other person to make the next move. Sadly you both seem intrested in each other, but are unable to communicate it effectivly due to the new standards of dating, no enough and too much.
Then there's determining the difference between nice, friendly, flirtatious, and interested; that pretty much has everyone confused.
good luck ;)
2007-05-02 21:31:14 · answer #2 · answered by shadycaliber 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe he is very shy and wants to take things slow cause he has been hurt in the past. But on the other hand to drop you when you guys made plans and not even act like they were made! He didnt forget! He is being a moron! I would confront him about it! after all you have nothing to lose! But you need to know where you stand with this guy so that you dont waste your time!
2007-05-02 21:28:10 · answer #3 · answered by Stacey-Lee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid of growing up. An average person lives to be about 70 - 80.. And you only spend 19 (If you count the teens, which ARE, children, but older children) years of your life being a kid. If you don't count teens, that's only 13 years.
2016-05-19 05:10:53 · answer #4 · answered by arline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he maybe really shy and scared--got with a girl i knew for 4 years and we talked on a daily basis and one day talked about getting together as much time as we spent together asking her out took for ever and to this day im still some what shy even though ive known her a while
2007-05-02 21:23:52 · answer #5 · answered by radicalroberts2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boys are like that maybe he don't want you to look at him as a girl wanted man i know you wouldn't but boys sometimes think some thing and some how that is odd for girls just go out with him and help him
2007-05-02 21:21:24 · answer #6 · answered by Ased Kooshan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he wants friendship, but he feels as though you want more than that. He is probably also very unsure about what he wants at the moment.
2007-05-02 21:35:59 · answer #7 · answered by Mista R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could just be busy, when i first meet someone, i call one week later, it isnt weird if hes not dying to hang out with you the very next day.....
2007-05-02 21:22:14 · answer #8 · answered by jen w 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't call him or text him anymore. when he's ready or really want to hang out with you he will do the asking
2007-05-02 21:19:12 · answer #9 · answered by My Dear 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should ask him these questions. Communicating with someone is not chasing him.
2007-05-02 21:23:32 · answer #10 · answered by Smartassawhip 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋