Okay i went out with this guy but he dumped me after we had sex and i felt so nasty and betrayed well he called me several times and i voided him but after awhile i finally talked to him and he wants us too hook up angain and do it again and i don't know what to do he said he is sorry he used me like that but i don't know and if i have sex with him he would dump me again so he said how about friends with benifits and i dont know what to do cause next weekend im going to a party and he will be there and he knowes all my spots that make me horny and i will be tempted and i dont wanna do it again but then i do? Help please...................................
2007-05-04 03:37:58 · 11 answers · asked by erika 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why would you go back to a guy that dumped you after having sex? if he knows the spots.. then he has experience.. chances are your guy is just using you for sex..
2007-05-04 03:43:55 · answer #1 · answered by sajirvill 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DON'T! Can't you see this guy only wants you for one thing? Going to that party is a bad idea if you know he's going to hit on you and expect the same and give you the same treatment. Unless you are so afraid this is the only guy in the world that would want you. You don't have to do anything with him to prove anything to your friends or yourself. What you have to prove to yourself is that you aren't going to be a patsy for anyone and be prey to his moves he can put on you to make you an easy piece.
2007-05-04 04:08:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. If the first time he showed you what a dog he was, what are the chances he won't do it again? His record isn't too good. You got out the first time with him. Do you really want to go through that again? Don't even give him that. Save it for someone who deserves it!
2007-05-04 03:43:05 · answer #3 · answered by Amy L 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ur comfortable with marriage to a guy who has already slept with women? reason a very severe-high quality virgin dude who expects u to be virgin too might locate u a 'incorrect' woman to get married. U extra useful desire u get former one. on condition that ur no longer waiting to tell the actuality to the latter sort.
2016-10-04 09:13:43 · answer #4 · answered by clawson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need anyone in your life thats just going to use you. Stay away from him the best you can. Go to the party with some of your girlfriends and tell them what the deal is. Tell them you don't want him around you and maybe they can help you out.
2007-05-04 03:43:16 · answer #5 · answered by Baby Jax 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do it for the second time. If he dumps you again, that's the end of the road. I really think he just wants you as a booty call.
2007-05-04 03:43:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Get an AIDS test and be careful; the life you save might be your own.
2007-05-04 03:41:59 · answer #7 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
go with him and dump him after you have sex!
2007-05-04 03:47:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is just using you, don't give in
2007-05-04 03:41:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
hello
reverse it.
dump him now.
best
2007-05-04 03:55:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋