we have seen each other once after more then a month. talk everyday, but sometimes i dont hear from her til later at night. she lives in a foster home so she is preoccupied. but i dont think its to the point where she cant take 2min to call me to tell me if she's gonna be calling me late,cuz i dont wanna miss her call,thats my only way of staying connected to her. she sometimes doesnt call me at the times stated. when we see each other, its all love. we fool around a lil bit, but no sex. im her first kiss, she's 17.
and her first sexual craving physically.but i wanna wait. so does she.
she likes talking to me, but we've been rocky because of the keeping in touch thing and her not coming over as often, the foster home she lives in is strict now. she likes me to the point where she wanted me to promis id take her virginity when she turns 18 this year. i just want our bond to be stronger,i never wanna lose her.
so do you think that maybe i shoul take my time and not stress over this
2007-05-04 03:48:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be patient and show you are tolerant of her.
2007-05-04 03:52:25 · answer #1 · answered by Sleuth! 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's very likely that everything is alright on her end and she just has a stricter living environment right now. That doesn't mean that she loves you any less. Relationships where you don't see each other very often can be very stressful sometimes--but never give up believing that they can work. You should definitely go by the way everything is when you two are around each other. If she adores you, then you know it in your heart, regardless of how hectic things are over the phone. As for taking her virginity once she turns 18, that's something that shouldn't be "planned out" or something you have to promise her. It's best to let that sort of thing happen naturally when you're both ready rather than setting a time frame on it. Believe me it will be a lot better for her--and you too. Everything that's happened at the foster home is beyond her control so even though you're probably missing her badly, try to keep a clear head and know that it's not her deciding she can't make time for you. It's just a situation that will get better with time. Best wishes! :)
2007-05-04 03:57:41 · answer #2 · answered by Missy K 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The question is, how sick are you? In the hospital sick, you may have relationship issues. At home with the flu or stomache, YOU'LL BE ALRIGHT! If you are contagious she may not be able to see you for fear of infecting the animals. If you've been laid up for a few days (not contagious), the FRIENDLY thing to do is just to stop in and say Hi! Maybe you really need to take a long look at your relationship. Unfortunately she may view her animals as being more important than you, and in that situation it's just best for you to move on. Some people view animals as family or children and if that is her case you may be up for a hell of a discussion (be prpeared if you don't win). Anywho, Good Luck and I hope you feel better soon.
2016-05-20 04:01:09 · answer #3 · answered by ayesha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There may be other things that are going on in her life. Think about it: she lives in a foster home. Foster homes aren't exactly bliss.
Don't stress over it! Just be there for her, as I'm sure that's what she wants from you. ;)
Good luck!!
2007-05-04 03:52:34 · answer #4 · answered by Stephy B. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait until she moves out of the foster home (one more year to go I presume?). Than you will have a better idea of what is going on.
2007-05-04 03:54:29 · answer #5 · answered by Smiley 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have a talk with her and air yoiur feelings for each other. This way, neither one of youy will have to waste time with each other should one of you want to part company.
2007-05-04 03:52:31 · answer #6 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i agree you should talk to her about it, but also you shouldnt worry, if her foster parents are strict it probably has nothing to do with her being sick of you
2007-05-04 03:52:35 · answer #7 · answered by IAN 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hmm... i think, your girl is just busy! just understand her... don't make yourself down with your problem...i know it's hard losing someone you really love... but this is just a challenge in your relationship...this will help your relationship more stronger...=) fight for it! trust God...=)
2007-05-04 03:54:06 · answer #8 · answered by blinkaye 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Try talking to HER about it?
2007-05-04 03:50:49 · answer #9 · answered by Dennis L 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
seems to me like she's trying to forget u. u should mave on.
2007-05-04 03:53:44 · answer #10 · answered by sexy_stud829 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋