Singles & Dating - 11 April 2007

If I am having trouble trusting my boyfriend should I check up on him by checking his email etc? Or do you think what I don't know won't hurt. I have the chance to check his mail but I don't know if I should.

2007-04-11 06:48:09 · 23 answers · asked by netlee 2

If so why?

If Not why and what circumstances would you cheat if it came to that?

For me I am not a cheater cause I find no reason to be hurtful to someone I care about even if the temptation is great. Plus I would treat people as I expect to be treated! At this point I haven't found any "excuse" to cheat.

2007-04-11 06:47:36 · 15 answers · asked by Okaydokay21 4

I was out one night and hooked up with this guy. Well come to find out he had a girlfriend I did not hear from him for about a month then they broke up he called me we hung out a lot for about three weeks then they got back together and he just ignored me. Are men really this heartless, to just use girls? Does he Truly love her if he is cheating on her???? Men explain I would love to know, what your thoughts are.

2007-04-11 06:46:39 · 5 answers · asked by WHY!!! 1

On Friday Is The one month aniversary of me and my Girlfriend. SHe is almost 15 and I am almost 14, what should I get her. Oh yeah we will have to babytsit about 10 kids on that day, so please, nothing fragile.

2007-04-11 06:43:34 · 21 answers · asked by Beau B 2

My boyfriends being a jerk at the moment.
Just got a message from him though.
Should i ignore him or reply with a sarcastic comment?

Being nice is not an option!

2007-04-11 06:38:58 · 54 answers · asked by only_lil_kez 2

my boyfriend stuck his hand down his pants and underwhere and felt himself out, then took his hand out from his pants then he put his hand under my nose several times, and it smelt funny, why did he do this?

2007-04-11 06:34:56 · 1 answers · asked by sexual investigation 1

I'm 17 yrs old.I'm deeply in love.Can't move on.
If u yet don't understand wat I hav typed ask again i'll mail it 2 u in a proper way .
See there is a girl from college dat i'm in love with.She means more than life 2 me.We met ,had fun 4 sum time.After sum months i proposed 2 her.She said NO.She said she wasn't ready 4 having commitments & dat i culd find a better girl.After a week or so i proposed 2 her again.She still said NO.But she said mayb after 12th grade. Now a days whenever i call her up,she says that she will call bak ,but she never does.She sent me a mail later saying that her MOM doesn't lik her speaking 2 guys & said that i shuld stop calling.But she wild speak 2 me thru her e-mail ID.Well she doesn't call me nor does she sends me any mails.I saw her last week she smiled at me & i walked away as her mom was next 2 her.
So wat shuld i do ?
Shuld i continue 2 love her ?My heart says 2 do so.
Does she love me ?
Does she feel the way that i feel ?

2007-04-11 06:30:27 · 12 answers · asked by confused lover 1

k so a couple of months ago i was dumped b/c the guy thought I didn't trust him.i wrote him a letter explaining everything and how wrong he was b/c the truth was that i was and still am in love with him. we were going to take a break anyways b/c we were both so busy and we tried to make things work but it just got messier.we've been fighting on and off for months.but last night he called me up telling me about a dream he had where we were married...after we hung up he called me right back up and was like "i may sound stupid but i've really missed you over these months" and then he hung up.i'm just so confused b/c i know how i feel about him but i still remember the aftermath of it all and I'm just scared and have no clue what to do.should I stay or should I go?

2007-04-11 06:27:49 · 10 answers · asked by nadia 3

i am dating this girl but she told me recently before we started dating (2 weeks before) that she slept with her ex-boyfriend. However, I had kissed her prior to, but we didnt become exclusive until just a few weeks ago. Do I trust her or dump her? One reason why i dont trust her is because he calls her to come over all the time because he is expecting one thing from her but she does not go, but she still takes his calls.

2007-04-11 06:16:54 · 25 answers · asked by j j 1

It's my boyfriend's birthday soon and I'm thinking about singing him a song at his party - any suggestion? I would like sth that i can play on the guitar, nothing too difficult, just a nice sweet song :)

2007-04-11 06:15:38 · 2 answers · asked by damn_da_ds 2

does anybody know anything about southern illinois university, or the community in that area? i went to a very large 4 year school several years ago and left because i felt lost in the crowd. i'm looking at siu, and would like to know if anyone has any knowledge, firsthand or otherwise about what the people or like and the quality of life there? P.S. the party phase is through, i'm looking for a school or place that offers quality, well rounded people.

2007-04-11 06:15:17 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I got pretty drunk at a bar and seen my bf's friend......he kissed me and I kissed him back....when I realized what i was doing I stopped and told him how I felt about my bf and asked him not to say anything....well I think he said something bc the next day my guy told me he had something to talk to me about...he proceeded to ask did you k.....then stopped and said nevermind we'll talk later......but he has never brought it up since then but I don't want him thinking that he can't trust me or that when I go out Im kissing guys b/c thats not the case....I really care for him and want this to work out. So do I tell him what I did or leave it alone since he hasn't mentioned it? I sense nothing wrong between us and he doesn't act weird or different with me......

2007-04-11 06:11:01 · 34 answers · asked by a1980 3

My bf and i had a fight over this. He made a comment about him having whoever he wanted in a place he says is perfect for having sex. That remark made me feel very bad. I mean "whoever"? He said that i'm not the only one, i said that i should be for him, and he said he didn't like the way i think. Thing is, we have been together for 4 years, and have an exclusivity agreement. I think he's feeling the need to play the field, but he doesn't break up with me, he just says all sorts of hurtful things. But later he says stuff that he needs to find someone who DOES want to be with him. As if i don't because i point out that i don't like those comments and they make me feel bad, and that if he loves me he shouldn't say those things.
But just a few days back he acted all concerned and sad cause he said he felt i didn't love him, which i assured him i do.
What's going on here?

2007-04-11 06:03:26 · 8 answers · asked by jade 2

Who was it to ? Where and when was it ? Did it work ? Would it work again ?

2007-04-11 06:01:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

my bf wants to go with his friend today, but im alittle confussed. my bf says he wants to be wit me then he says that he wants to go wit his friend who he knows i hate, and his friends gf is a little slut and likes my bf, should i let him? am i being to protective?HELP

2007-04-11 05:58:23 · 18 answers · asked by Angelique 1

It's about a guy who started working in the same office about a couple of months ago. We don't work in the same department but we casually talk, email/message every day in the office. A few weeks ago we went for lunch together and the next week Friday we went for drinks after work. He initiated the both occasions and we sneaked out to avoid being caught by other colleagues. I really like this guy (he doens't know) but I am very confused because he says he is not up for office relationships (though he also said "unless it's serious"). What does this mean? Is he just expecting me to be his close workmate???

2007-04-11 05:53:08 · 5 answers · asked by pinetree 1

2007-04-11 05:52:17 · 23 answers · asked by Star 2

I gave my girl fren( unofficial ) a soft toy. Now she is overseas and she took it along. What does this mean?Aww man i really miss her, what do i do?We still mail each other once every week... But she came back but didnt inform me..But 2day she asked me to go online and when i asked her why, she said we havent spoke to one another for a long time.What does this mean?

2007-04-11 05:52:01 · 3 answers · asked by Fr3e@K3D 1

i want to get know a guy.but i do not dare to ask his name as he is the staff of the outsource company whilst i am the staff of the company rent their place. i really want to get know him,but i just not dare.what should i do?most time i just can look him from far. i wish he will come to me,but i think it will be only a wild dream.or should i just wait or make the move?i not a pretty gal and shy ! he have helped me reduce aircond temperature since then no more talk.what should i do?will it be stupid to do so?thanks for you guys opinion.i really appreciate.

2007-04-11 05:51:04 · 8 answers · asked by jessy 3

I am in love with a boy and we have been together for about 9 months....and i broke up with him cause i thought he was cheating on me.....the next day three people that i know told me he was with his friend. So i asked him about it and he said no....and he is mad at me cause i don't believe him...i don't know what to do. I don't want to lose him. I care more about him than i do myself. I want to be with him, but i don't want to get hurt.

2007-04-11 05:47:06 · 9 answers · asked by LaUrA-pOo 2

time on someone who can't put her first and why would she want to take seconds to his wife and family but at the same time most of the single men her age are divorced with children and they constantly say "my children come first, my children are my priority"? I have tried dating single men my age (40+) and they all seem to be divorced with young children (my child is almost grown) and never seem to have time to date because they are busy with their children't sports activities, etc and they spend their holidays with those children and as a result I am left out just like if I was with a married man. The few single men my age that don't have children are usually those who have never been married (red flag) and are looking for much much younger women to start families with. Where are all these single men that will put me first at? I am not finding them.

2007-04-11 05:42:06 · 7 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5

Erik ( my close friend) just met Danielle in new york he said he felt a real connection with her they text and talk almost every day... but she lives in new york and he lives in florida... should he persue this relationship.... Please help thanks!!

2007-04-11 05:27:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was w/ my x for 5 yrs & we have 2 kids 2gether. We split up a few mos. ago(my choice). I startd seein this guy rt away & really startd to care about him. Now that relationship has startd to go bad & I'm really hurt about it. My x is still here wantin to get back 2gether & sayin he still luvs me(he doesn't know about the other guy) I'm heart broken over my recent split but I'm startin to think that I should go back to my x bcause honestly he does luv me & what more could I want? I got a taste of being back in the single life & the games ppl play & I know my x's luv is true. I just found out a grl has been callin my x & now I'm scared he's goin to move on if I don't make a decision. I'm not rdy to go back to him yet but I don't want to end up alone. I feel bad bcause he knows somethin botherin me & I can't tell him I'm upset about the othr guy. My x & I hung out for 2 dys, kinda back to normal but I tld him lst nite I'm not rdy yet & now I'm scared the othr guy will find out.. HELP!

2007-04-11 05:20:55 · 8 answers · asked by justbeingme_ 2

we wanna know whats the real meaning of love.

2007-04-11 05:20:11 · 5 answers · asked by hadi 1

i know the answer may be different for different ages, please tell me your age

2007-04-11 05:18:59 · 34 answers · asked by ME girl 3

2007-04-11 05:09:56 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and My Bf of 8 months jsut broke up, he gave me a bullshit reason, and now he is with another girl already! what do i do to stop thinking about him and how much i want him back?

2007-04-11 04:55:18 · 1 answers · asked by Beautiful Sunshine 2

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for about seven months now. In his past probably like 5 to 7 years ago he had a girlfriend that he cheated on. When we were first going out in our relationship he did explain how he did cheat on her and how he felt bad after the fact, and how he was caught. I've personally have been cheated on in the past relationship, and it seems like i'm having trust issues with him. For example, how he's always working and even on his days off hes working overtime. But he works at a call center were he claims they hardly ever have time to talk to anyone. He does call me from his job from time to time when hes working on his days off but its like, i seem to still not trust him. I feel that if he cheated on his girlfriend in the past he will cheat on me. Honestly I mean he really hasn't given me any reason not to trust him. But it seems like I just can't. So what should i believe he will cheat on me like he did to his ex? Or how can i learn to trust him

2007-04-11 04:45:19 · 22 answers · asked by starlight2007 1

To all the guys out there who have a phobia of commitment: What is the safest way to bring it up in conversation? Been dating for about a year now, and I am nervous to have the "talk". He is very set in his ways. What should I say? I feel it's important to me if I am going to continue with this relationship.

2007-04-11 04:41:47 · 8 answers · asked by Bunnikins 2

I always start to like people and then they tell me they dont want to ruin our friendship. Im tired of being just the cool girl friend, i want to be more than that what do i do

2007-04-11 04:36:58 · 7 answers · asked by carriestrader 1