i would like some help?

Question

k so a couple of months ago i was dumped b/c the guy thought I didn't trust him.i wrote him a letter explaining everything and how wrong he was b/c the truth was that i was and still am in love with him. we were going to take a break anyways b/c we were both so busy and we tried to make things work but it just got messier.we've been fighting on and off for months.but last night he called me up telling me about a dream he had where we were married...after we hung up he called me right back up and was like "i may sound stupid but i've really missed you over these months" and then he hung up.i'm just so confused b/c i know how i feel about him but i still remember the aftermath of it all and I'm just scared and have no clue what to do.should I stay or should I go?

Answer 1

Honestly I would probably try ONE MORE TIME... if it doesnt work out this time, then let it go. Sometime people just need a wake up call such as a dream or a friends comment to make them realize what they are missing out on. Good luck

Answer 2

I feel he was being sincere when he told you that he has been missing you. He broke up with you because he felt you did not trust him, and trust is important to have in a relationship. I guess he is has been having a change of heart about you and him and is hopeing if he gave this relationship another try that things will be better. If you care for him and want him back tell him also that you have missed him. See where it goes from there. If you two get back, I would advice for you to try and work on trust in the relationship. Remember, to love is to trust, to trust is to take risks of being hurt, but if you love you must trust. Best of luck to you!

Answer 3

Sounds like you and he need to sit down and spend some one on one time together, opening up Honestly with each other..what you want out of this relationship.

If you miss him and he misses you.....you're both still talking.....he's even dreaming about being with you......then there's a good chance this all may work out.

Just remember- Communication Trust & Honesty are the three keys to a long healthy relationship...without those you have nothing*~

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Answer 4

go.........if you are fighting that much now......marriage would be a living hell.....give yourself some time and you will find someone you have more in common with and is a better match for you. Why are young people always so hung up on "making things work out"????

believe me.......people 30 and over look at their behavior when they were younger and think, """"""why did I feel the need to make it work?........I should have lived a little and found the right one"""""""

Answer 5

if you really love this guy,then just tyring to be friends is a start in the right direction,but if he is having dreams bout you being married then have him tell you what he missed most bout you being together and what he did not miss and you do the same,and see what happens from there.Good Luck!!!

Answer 6

hmmmmmm
u said that he didn't trust u . So prove it 2 him dat he can trust u.U shuld believe him.He does Love u.He was also confused sum time ago.Listen 2 ur heart deeply.Get bak with him.Try 2 work things out.If it doesn't ............. jus try. If u know him well u jus may know wat he is thinking, how he feels ,how much he misses u.
Well i tried my best telling u.Hope it works out.
ALL THE BEST !!!!

Answer 7

I would try one more time. If things don't work out then let it go and move on. There are plenty of guys out there.

Answer 8

I would try one more time because if you don't it you might always wonder what if. Life is too short to have regrets. Good Luck!!

Answer 9

Yea, try it one more it seems like he cares then after that kick him to the curb on his mistake

Answer 10

My dear.... how old are you????????????