i want to get know a guy.but i do not dare to ask his name as he is the staff of the outsource company whilst i am the staff of the company rent their place. i really want to get know him,but i just not dare.what should i do?most time i just can look him from far. i wish he will come to me,but i think it will be only a wild dream.or should i just wait or make the move?i not a pretty gal and shy ! he have helped me reduce aircond temperature since then no more talk.what should i do?will it be stupid to do so?thanks for you guys opinion.i really appreciate.
2007-04-11 05:51:04 · 8 answers · asked by jessy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
shelly? is that you? oh my gosh i love you!
2007-04-11 05:53:41 · answer #1 · answered by killer boot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it! You only have one life to live and, at the rate you're living it, it will be over long before you ever attain happiness. If you want this man, then you have to be willing to make the first several moves. Talk to him. Ask him out. Make a move. Those who sit and wait, only grow stale and moldy. If you want something, you have to be the one who makes it happen. Now, good luck and get going!
2007-04-11 12:59:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him for somehting stupid and as long as he shows up act normal as possible and have a nice talk.........nothing out of the ordinary..........you can make a joke about going out or something or just ask him if it has been a good day so far then talk about what you did last night: watch tv or something make it sound like you are single and he will open up........hope he is available!!
Good luck!
2007-04-11 12:57:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's safe to live in your head, but nothing will ever come true, and you will always wonder what if?.......If you try, it may not work, but you will know the answer, and not be left wondering.
Mixing business and pleasure is generally not a good idea.....but what is the worst that could happen......what is the best that could happen?
2007-04-11 12:55:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry. Not a guy. But go for it and do what you want to do. You may not find yourself attractive but others may. Im sure that there is something about you that will just make him shake! Good Luck!
2007-04-11 12:54:42 · answer #5 · answered by smart blonde is not an oxymoron 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Huh?
Why not try just being a person.
If you jumped him, ripped off his shirt & physically ravished him, you might get in trouble, (on the other hand, lots of guy appreciate attention like that).
Start with, "hi, my name is (insert name here), ............
you go from there, my air conditioner is screwed up again, ...
I think you're hot....
would you come adjust my dials............
Use you imagination
2007-04-11 12:54:43 · answer #6 · answered by spam_free_he_he 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmmmmmm...a lil advice.......never mix business with pleasure..it rarely ever turns out.
If you really do fancy gettting to know this fellow........perhaps give him your number next time you see him...and say...if you feel like getting coffee with me sometime, here's my number. That shows him y ou're interested and if he has no other commitments.(girlfriend/wife) and is interested in y ou also...he willl call. If not........all you can do is "dream"......nothing wrong with that......but understand , it's only a 'dream'.
GOODLUCK*
2007-04-11 12:56:04 · answer #7 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll tell you one thing, YOU HAVE NOTHING TO LOOSE!!!!
give it a try, at least say hi, and take it from there!!!
good luck!!
2007-04-11 12:54:33 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋