Singles & Dating - 11 April 2007

I don't like guys who wear very long shirts to their knees. I prefer a waist length shirt so you can check out his figure. Should I straight up and tell guys who dress like this why I don't want to date them?

2007-04-11 20:05:39 · 7 answers · asked by Bu Tran 6

2007-04-11 20:02:28 · 18 answers · asked by wbettyboo1974 1

I love him and have always been there for him but he doesn't love me at all. I know alot of other guys like me but I have no intrest in them because I love him. Why doesn't he love me?

2007-04-11 20:02:03 · 24 answers · asked by sadgirl 1

my girlfriend and I were just together sexually,our first time,she seduced me.Christine stripped off her clothes and started rubbing on my crotch and I had a full erection,then she pulled down my pants and underware.while starring at my erection she said {WOW are you tiny} after we had been together she said I left her wanting sexually and that I was to small to satisfy her. I need another womans opinion about my size ???

2007-04-11 19:58:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2007-04-11 19:56:18 · 13 answers · asked by tijo 2

WHY IS LOVE SO COMPLICATED? ....SOME PEOPLE THINK LOVE IS THE HAPPINESS YOU FEEL
WHEN YOU LOOK AT HIM....ITS WHEN YOUR AT HOME, EATING DINNER WITH YOUR FAMILY
.....THEN YOU THINK OF HIM AND A BIG GRIN COMES UPON YOUR FACE AND YOUR PARENTS
LOOK AT YOU LIKE YOU HAVE MENTAL PROBLEMS..........THEN TO OTHER PEOPLE LOVE I
WHEN YOU LOOK AT HIM AND SMILE BUT YOUR HEART CANT STOP CRYING BECAUSE HE DOESNT
SEE YOU THE WAY YOU SEE HIM......WHEN ITS YOUR BIRTHDAY AND YOU HAVE HAD THE
BEST DAY EVER...THEN WHEN YOU GO TO BED ALL YOU DO IS CRY ....BECAUSE HE DIDNT
WISH YOU A HAPPY BIRTHDAY........TO SOME PEOPLE LOVE IS SMUDGED EYELINER AND AND
BROKEN HEARTS....TO OTHER PEOPLE ......ITS JUST WONDERFUL....TO ME...........ITS
BOTH

2007-04-11 19:53:38 · 10 answers · asked by BrOwN eYe'D cHiCa 2

Do you think it's more so when guys are younger. My boyfriend of 14 years told me I was not aging well, and that he was just not into me anymore. We have 2 kids and we are both 42. I think I look great. But are men that shallow?

2007-04-11 19:51:58 · 20 answers · asked by Teslajuliet 4

My boyfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship for 3 years. We are now moving in together next week, I'm moving 1000 miles away to be with him.

A few months ago his "friend" came to hang out with him for a night, they went to the bar and she ended up trying to kiss him, or successfully kissing him. He called me immediatly to tell me what happened. Ever since I've been cautious about her intentions, I'm a girl... I know how evil we can be!

He's out of town, she happens to be "vacationing" with her best friend for the weekend in the same city. I told him I was uncomfortable with the whole situation. He said that he wouldn't hang out with her, he didn't realize her intentions may be to get him. I said I didn't want him to have to not be around friends because of a jealous girlfriend, but to be aware of the possible intentions.

Did I cross the line? Was I justified in my concerns? What should I do next?

Thanks for your input!!

DiZdZ!!

2007-04-11 19:50:45 · 28 answers · asked by Randomblina >^..^< 3

If you just started a relationship, and it's going okay, not spectacular, but not bad. Then out of the blue, someone you hadn't heard from in 6 years leaves you a message with her number.

The girl in question is someone Ihadn't spoken to in 6 years because of an argument, but prior to that, I had known her since grade 1, I am now 25. We found out during my last year in highschool that we both had feelings for each other for a long time, and we were really close, but we talked and decided not to do anything because we were going out with other people. We got into an argument because she wanted me to go the same university with her, but I choose to go elsewhere, she said I was abandoning her and that I didn't love her...I was upset she said that, and hadn't talked since.

I know nothing about her now, except that she's a model and a grad student...but I use to think about her, and use to wonder what if.....so now I feel like this is a second chance....what would you do?

2007-04-11 19:50:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey yall
im a year 6 girl right and there s a guy named tim and at a band thing they made every1 get up and dane and he tapped my shoulder blushed said nothing and walked away and laughed with his friends.
IM CONFUSED!! ,^_^

2007-04-11 19:49:05 · 5 answers · asked by deep_thoughts_come_and_go 1

I really want to contact my ex boyfriend even though its only been a week. I mean, we were together for 4 years and I do love him very, very much...I miss him. I was waiting for him to contact me and he hasn't..so does that mean he doesn't care??! Honesty is the best policy!!!

2007-04-11 19:42:12 · 6 answers · asked by ms ambitious 4

I have been having this repetive dream about me falling in love with this guy and he is just my dreamman. everything goes good at first and he is the best man any girl can have but then some things and pictures i can't really make out flash and my dream ends with him taking me to this house and raping me , when i get up in the morning i feel very breathless and like i have just had rough sex my body is usually very tried and feels like i have had a fight with someone, the strange thing is that i say his name and i have never heard of this name in my family or friends,but the weirdest of all is i am still a virgin so then how would i feel what i feel in my dreams. I have had this dream for almost 7 years now at first it came sometime, but lately it is coming more often. I can't even get my thing done because i keep thinking about it, am i going crazy or my dreams are telling me something?

2007-04-11 19:33:40 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

every time a boy asks me i think about what he's up to. Is he just thinking of how to "get some" or is he really their for me.

2007-04-11 19:24:00 · 8 answers · asked by shyfree 2

i am not a person who wants to face the facts...i really want to date this guy but i dont know if he likesme...i dont know what to say to him or waht to ask him...i just reallylike him but he dosetn know it...waht do i do to let him know i like him and know if he lieks me!?

2007-04-11 19:10:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like this girl and I dont know if she likes me or not and i dont know if she even knows that i like her. She goes to an out of state school and I known her for 4 months. I want to text her and see how she is doing but i dont want to be seen as the nice guy or the friend you know. I think I might be there already but there is no definite sign. its funny because she is usually the one who ALWAYS initiates the text convo's, just to say hi or whatever.

After hanging out during break, She wants me to go visit her at college soon and spend the day together going places. not sure if shes interested or not cuz i kept getting mixed signals.

Is it wrong to not text someone when u like them to see how they are doing?

what can i text her that will make her laugh in a flirtatious way and also avoid being too "friendly" but hinting to her that i like her/see how her day went and what she is up to? im new to this texting stuff. and not the greatest flirter..thanks for your help.

2007-04-11 19:08:16 · 16 answers · asked by Mark 1

i as with a girl for 4 years. we separated coz of long distance and religious differences. she broke up with me several times, but only out of anger and despair as opposed to logic and deliberation. a couple yrs ago, she told me, b/coz of family pressure, she was going to get engaged. she still loved me deeply. but, she also wanted me in her life as a friend, or whatever. around that time, i was about to move to a new town. so, i left town w/o giving her my contact--we had stopped speaking a couple of months prior. i left her a message that the only way i can stay in her life is as her b/f, and that i can't just be friends. so this gone for a couple of years. in the meantime, my contact information is leaked to her. then a few days ago, she calls me n we jus talk about nothing, as if n'ing had happened. again, i have to give her the same ultimatum. either we become a couple or nothing. she had never been engaged, not even close. so now i haven't talked to her in two days. any thoughts?

2007-04-11 19:06:25 · 11 answers · asked by cupsandplates 1

and havnt talked to in awhile,is used to getting all the attention from guys, has found out from my cousin (her mom) that i have met a really nice guy. she just called me the other day said she just broke up with her bf and wants to come stay with me and wants to meet my b/f...
i just think she wants to flaunt her stuff and get his attention
she is prettier than me, i am reallly shy and careful with my feelings and its hard for me to be close to someone, i have opened up to my b/f and im afraid she will flirt with him.
i am not unnatractive but im insecure
she is tall skiiny blnd w/ sm bst blue eyes
i am short skinny bsty light brn/red hr grn eyes
i dont know what to do??
she has made me feel like crap on purpose before (she likes to make me jealous) and im afraid for my feelings.

hope i make sense..sorry for all the run ons..etc im in a hurry..

2007-04-11 19:04:06 · 6 answers · asked by jenny m 1

2007-04-11 19:00:24 · 6 answers · asked by NICKY T. 1

So yeah... Im on msn talking to this guy, Ive talked to him for months almost everynight. Is it possible that he could actually have true feelings for me, even if he doesnt know me in person? ( which he never will, and I by the way.. I dont feel anything for him, just enjoy his IM friendship)

2007-04-11 18:58:06 · 13 answers · asked by LaLa 2

2007-04-11 18:52:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK, I posted about this already & have gotten no responses. I caught my bf talking to another woman online, but they both claim to talk as "friends" in a nonsexual manner. He doesn't like me to talk to either of my guy friends (who are both married & I told to both the guys & their wives), so that's a double standard right there, right? So I had this gut feeling, and checked his archives, and here they're talking about him leaving me and sneaking into each others' rooms to screw & "hey, we'll just push the old lady out of the way" and carrying on like that for about 2 hours (per the timestamps). So maybe I shouldn't have looked, but he's done it to me - fair's fair. Now he says HE can't trust ME cuz I DID look & I said it either stops altogether or he leaves. He left. But he wants to come back, but he thinks the whole thing's a joke, he was just "playing", that I'm over-reacting. I think he owes me an apology & that if he can do it online, how do I know if/what he does in person?

2007-04-11 18:48:49 · 44 answers · asked by melissa_53105 1

I met this girl 4 months ago and I know she was going to an out of state college. I was attracted to her and over the months we have gotten to know each other a little bit. she was the first one to initiate contact with me over AIM and we been talking ever since mostly texting

My problem is i think I might be stuck in the friend zone. I dont get what else I was suppose to do with a girl who goes to a school out of state, i know she lives locally so we can hang out n stuff when she is here, but the fact that we have been communicating often over the past 4 months has made me feel like i am in the friend zone for good and she doesnt see me that way?
i mean there are some "nice" things ive done for her but nothing over the top u know? i mean ive kept her company one night by texting cuz she was bored at some lab And we talk about "24" the show often. she has called me nice guy b4 too but ive gotten away from that.

we hung out during break and now she wants me to come visit her @ college

2007-04-11 18:40:05 · 1 answers · asked by Wayne D 1

Im 16, my boyfriend is 23. People think its such a big deal because hes 7 years older. I dont really see why age matters when your in love. And I dont see why people think its wrong. Unless of course its like a 13 year old and a 19 year old..now that would be wrong.

Shouldnt it be more based on maturity level then age? Well..sorta..right? Im much more mature then he is..he can be very immature at times, but im not like that. So i dont see why some people think its wrong, when i act more like an adult then he does.

So is it really THAT bad, like some people think it is?

2007-04-11 18:34:15 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years. I gave it up to him in 7 months of relationship. I love him with all my heart, sex is good sometimes BUT sometimes my body wants to BUT my inner self doesnt. Why is that?

2007-04-11 18:34:04 · 12 answers · asked by mickie 2

Im with this girl right so she tells me that she thinks that she is cursed with males. She says every male that she gets close to something happens to them. Her father was killed and her grandfather died and her other two boyfriends broke up with her. I didnt believe in cursed but now Im starting to worry that maybe she is cursed and I might die or something its really bugging me on the count that this guy I knew just died in a freak accident so Im just a little scared. Is it in the bible can people really be cursed? or am I just over reacting because death is on my mind. What do you guys think?

2007-04-11 18:27:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to have a casual sexual relationship with a man who is also my freind. I want to know if anyone else has done this and it has not ended ugly. I want to know if it is possible to have a relationship like this and still keep the friendship.
Also how do you bring up the subject to your friend? Any ideas would be great.

2007-04-11 18:23:50 · 7 answers · asked by roadtoolong06 1

2007-04-11 18:22:18 · 20 answers · asked by Larissa ? 1

One of my closest friends keeps telling me that my closest guy friend likes me, but i don't know if i should believe her and i don't know if i like him. My friend says the way he acts around me makes it seem he really likes me. I used to like him a lot but i dont know if i still do. How can i tell if he likes me as more than a friend? And is there a way to "find out" if i might like him again?

2007-04-11 18:19:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had plans with my girlfriend to spend time together and go out. But a few of my friends are planning on visiting one of my old friends out of state to drink beer, shoot guns, and do some fishing. It's obvious which plans are more important as guns, beer and fishing are great superior to cuddling. But what would Jesus do?

2007-04-11 18:19:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

am a natural observant.
Observation analysis reasoning is natural to me.
I find the life not any mysterious like many other do, I find it mystic.
I wish the best of everything to all the living kind.

2007-04-11 18:17:29 · 14 answers · asked by surya m 1