So yeah... Im on msn talking to this guy, Ive talked to him for months almost everynight. Is it possible that he could actually have true feelings for me, even if he doesnt know me in person? ( which he never will, and I by the way.. I dont feel anything for him, just enjoy his IM friendship)
2007-04-11 18:58:06 · 13 answers · asked by LaLa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I do not have feeling for this guy! Just wanted to know if it is possible that he does. Just curious.
2007-04-11 19:06:47 · update #1
yes.there's no doubt in my mind.he is in love with you not your looks.its your personalty.the person you are trust me i know.i was talking to this one guy for about a week.i told him things i never told anything we connected.after a few days we were on IM and i tough he was avoiding something that i asked him .but it was just yahoo messing up well then he got back on line he said i been trying to get back on here to tell you i love you.i said but it hasn't been that long.he said i do its you your personalty.but there's a sad ending to the story we never gave each other are numbers and a few days after that yahoo deleted my account i don't know his email and he don't know my new one.i know his real name and the state he lives in but his email is private.well its going on the 3rd week and I'm really having a hard time with this.i fell in love with this guy .now i feel my life is over.so if you and this guy love each other go for it .
2007-04-11 19:12:40 · answer #1 · answered by luv babygurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone enjoys the feeling of falling in love, even if it is pretend. The brain even secretes chemicals that make us somewhat euphoric during those times. Some people are addicted to falling in love. Those relationships last just a little past the wedding and then its on to another person.
Getting to see someone in curlers, snoring, morning mouth, sickness etc. is more of the real deal so if you have to play the game, keep it light and go no further. I would also tell him just that in writing also.
2007-04-11 19:19:47 · answer #2 · answered by Ret. Sgt. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy that's a hard question to answer ..
I know for a fact that 2 people can fall in love with out meeting ..it happened to me 5 years ago .. we did finally meet and are still together ... so yes It can happen ..
BUT having said that .. my fiancee and I were totally honest with each other and we both felt the same way about each other .. and I know that some people are not .. I am the founder of a group site on yahoo that deals with people who have been victims of on line romances and I have read and heard it all ...believe me ..
So yes it is possible for him to have strong feelings for you .. after all you like yourself don't you ? why wouldn't someone else too ..
but having said that if he gets too pushy or demanding then it is time to end the friendship unless you start having those same feelings but something tells me you don't trust him and gut feelings are mostly right .. so play it cool and if it gets to the point where you feel pressured end it .. once and for all ....
There are too many impersonators on line .. and you can never be too care-full ...and I can give you a list of about 13,000 people in my support group that can back up my statement ..
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Gee I wish people would quit using chat room short cuts on here and type in plain English .....that so annoying ....
2007-04-11 19:13:04 · answer #3 · answered by myopinionforwhatitsworth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, its not possible, what has happened is that your body has taken over, u are enjoying the pleasure of knowing someone new, of experiencing something different, this clouds our foresight, makes us believe the other person is faultless and then we start thinking we are falling in love. That is not love, meeting a person face to face, talking to a person, knowing the person, and finding out u can still stand to be around him or her after 6months, that my dear, i the beginning of love. At this point, i suggest you keep an open mind, you don't want to be sorely disappointed when you finally meet up, do u?
2016-05-18 00:10:48 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah but I think you are falling in love with a personality type, you see things that you like in the way he resonds to you.
It may be great on an email, but if you meet each other there may be no physical attraction.
2007-04-11 19:01:52 · answer #5 · answered by crazychick1975 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you can really love someone/get to know them unless you are communicating face to face.
Why msn? Why no phone calls? Why no texting?
You may think you are in love, but you arent.
Setup a time to meet with him/her. Good Luck
The answer is "No" right now though...but everyone is different.
2007-04-11 19:01:59 · answer #6 · answered by Wayne D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
M/S 1 CAN B ANYTHING U WANT TO B, LOOK @ UR PROFILE HOW HONEST WERE U.? UR ? WAS COULD HE HAVE TRUE FEELINGS 4 U? U SAYHE WILL NEVER MET U, & U FEEL NOTHING. U BETTER TAKE A CLOSER LOOK U HAVE PUSHED THE HIDDEN DATING-IT IS EASY 2 FLIRT & GET SENSUAL, U R HOOKED! WHO R Y DENYING UR LUV & TIME DUE 2 THIS 4 MNTHS EVERY NIGHT? SOM1 @ HOME NEEDS THAT ATTENTION
2007-04-11 19:11:10 · answer #7 · answered by ttkmb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I couldn't fall in love with someone without actually meeting them because until I meet them in person I don't know if they are who/what they claim to be. My name is not gullible.
2007-04-11 19:41:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well love aint the thing for this type of relationship, especially yall dont know each other that much in person. but i think that its okay, its possible.
2007-04-11 19:06:54 · answer #9 · answered by sugar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could have feelings for you. Or he could have feelings for a lot of girls he chats with.
Just tell him to remain friends.
2007-04-11 19:02:03 · answer #10 · answered by ♥♥Pro♥♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋