my bf wants to go with his friend today, but im alittle confussed. my bf says he wants to be wit me then he says that he wants to go wit his friend who he knows i hate, and his friends gf is a little slut and likes my bf, should i let him? am i being to protective?HELP
2007-04-11 05:58:23 · 18 answers · asked by Angelique 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
his friend has been tryin to break us up for over 2 years now, and i know i can be protective sometimes, but when hes never around ne more its kinda hard not to when you miss him like crazy!
2007-04-11 06:07:52 · update #1
the reason i said LET was cause, he wrote me a note and said " after school im goin to the junk yard, and ill hurry back to u if u wanna go horse back riding and if u dont then i might to to my friends to play some games with him and his gf" so he gave me a choice, but i dont wanna hold him back, but i dont wanna go wit him cause of the issue wit his friend.
2007-04-11 06:12:53 · update #2
nope thats not weird thats being jealous..but thats oky its natural...lol
well for my own opinion let him...dont choke your bf...cuz you might lose him...ofcourse you dont wanna do that right...
or either hang out with them...so what if you dont like the crowd..whats important you are with him...
good luck
2007-04-11 06:04:31 · answer #1 · answered by angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should you "LET"him go. ?? WOW* you have no control over it.. He is a big enough person to make choices on his own. You may not like some of his friends or their g/friends........as he may not like some of your friends etc......
COMMUNICATION! TRUST! AND HONESTY! are the 3 keys to a long healthy relationship. Without those, you have Nothing.
Sounds like you're insecure..thinking if he's going out with a friend you can't stand...and his g/friend who happens to fancy your boyfriend.......You have some trust issues you need to resolve. You need to TRUST that he wont be hooking up with his friends g/friend(whether she likes him or not)...and that you trust him to make right choices. The more you "are too protective over him" the more he'll want to leave you. The more you control his every move, who he can see, when he can see them and what they're all to do when together...the more you're driving your man right out the door~
I can't believe you asked tho " should I LET Him ?....You have no right to stop him~! Start getting a life yourself and living it. Find friends to go out with once in a while, find FUN things you and your b/friend can do together or with another couple.....You may not like his friends........but they're his friends*
Think before you speak and give him the freedom he deserves to make his own choices rather than you controlling everything. Once he sees you TRUST him...he will come straight home to YOU*~ GOODLUCK
2007-04-11 06:07:10 · answer #2 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust him until he gives you reason not to. You might feel a bit over protective at this point, but there is nothing wrong with letting him be "with the guys" once in a while as long as you are allowed the same thing.
2007-04-11 06:02:02 · answer #3 · answered by ciberpunk1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't own your boyfriend, so you have no right to tell him who he may or may not see... would you like him setting such rules for you?
However, you may, and should, make your concerns known to him. Let him know WHY you distrust this friend and the friend's girlfriend, and ask that he respect your relationship by not encouraging or allowing the other girl's flirtations. Remind your boyfriend that it's important that he spend time with you, as well as with his friends.
2007-04-11 06:04:35 · answer #4 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why ?? Because that is Disney World ?!- Where Everything is "intended to BE- a distinct Way ??!" :o Sorry... -This is REAL Life. And IN this Life, men and women fall in Love with Whoever They Choose- Regardless of the "main points..." :)
2016-09-05 10:05:58 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you're not being weird it's only natural to be a little jealous, i agree he is being confusing if he says he doesnt like this friend, and as for this girl who likes him, hes with you and thats all that should matter he wouldnt be with you if he didnt like you just remember that!
2007-04-11 06:02:54 · answer #6 · answered by pink_tomtom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he knows how u feel about the g/f & her friend then he should understand that being wit her makes u very uncomfortable & insecure
& he would try to avoid that situation, ie. if he cares about not hurting ur feelings or ruining ur relationship..
trust seems to be the question here...u dont seem to trust him or her..
2007-04-11 06:05:33 · answer #7 · answered by tigerlily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one, you should never try to control your significant other. You should trust him enough to go out with his friends, and if you CAN'T trust him, then that isn't a relationship. Friends are forever, women come and go. It would be wise that you get along with his friends for HIM or he will find someone who will.
2007-04-11 06:02:56 · answer #8 · answered by Y!A P0int5 Wh0r3 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Any way you look at it you need to trust him if you want it to work. He's your boyfriend, if you don't like his friend that is your problem but he's had this friend before you and you need to respect that. The more understanding you are the more he'll like you. Trust me.
2007-04-11 06:02:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't let him or stop him. he is gonna do what he wants. stop tripping. those are his friends and if you don't like it step. birds of a feather flock together.
2007-04-11 06:02:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋