time on someone who can't put her first and why would she want to take seconds to his wife and family but at the same time most of the single men her age are divorced with children and they constantly say "my children come first, my children are my priority"? I have tried dating single men my age (40+) and they all seem to be divorced with young children (my child is almost grown) and never seem to have time to date because they are busy with their children't sports activities, etc and they spend their holidays with those children and as a result I am left out just like if I was with a married man. The few single men my age that don't have children are usually those who have never been married (red flag) and are looking for much much younger women to start families with. Where are all these single men that will put me first at? I am not finding them.
2007-04-11 05:42:06 · 7 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If the married man makes you happy, go for it. There is a world full of women, in-love with a married man. If you do not feel as if you are wasting your time, do not worry what others say. Instead of a waste of time, it is probably a lot of precious stolen moments. Sounds like I have experience, HUH? Sometimes happiness is so hard to find. If you have found it, enjoy it while you can.
2007-04-11 06:04:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately....you'll either meet a divorced man in the age group you specified (40+) who does have children he's still connected with and does things on special occasions with...or like you said...a single man, who's never been married and doesn't quite understand "children will always come first".......It's a catch 22 really.......you're damned if you do and you're damned if you don't. You may just be looking too hard and since you're focussed on a man wanting to spend all his time with you and YOU are to always come first...GoodLuck with that*~
2007-04-11 12:48:47 · answer #2 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why in God's name are you messing with married men anyways?!! Even if he ever did leave his wife for you, he'll stray on you...once a cheater, always a cheater...I don't know how live with yourself ....no morals! And, just because a man your age has never been married DOES not mean there is something wrong with him....man, you sound pretty messed up....
2007-04-11 12:50:36 · answer #3 · answered by Spaceyangel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop messing with the married man and maybe you will find someone single.
2007-04-11 12:45:34 · answer #4 · answered by sapphireblaze 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i say when a man is involved with a married woman he shouldn't waste his time on her! just as well.
my best friend is involved with a married man for about 4 years now, she broke his marriage.
now she is stuck with a boyfriend who spend most of his money and time on his kids. and she find her self now cheating on him with another married man.
i dont think it a good thing.
2007-04-11 12:53:49 · answer #5 · answered by daglas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the reason they say that is because the married man usually doesnt end up leaving his wife and if he doesnt sometimes your not who he ends up with
2007-04-11 12:45:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should do as you please, you are over 21.. do what you need to do for yourself.
2007-04-11 12:48:09 · answer #7 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋