Are you a Cheater?

Question

If so why?

If Not why and what circumstances would you cheat if it came to that?

For me I am not a cheater cause I find no reason to be hurtful to someone I care about even if the temptation is great. Plus I would treat people as I expect to be treated! At this point I haven't found any "excuse" to cheat.

I only ask this question because lately I am hearing a lot of radio and web chat about cheating and circumstances around it.

Answer 1

No, I'm not. If i care about someone i could never do such a thing. I couldn't live with the guilt of what i've done. I try to live by the 'don't do to others what you don't like them to do to you'.
If i ever felt like being with someone else, it would have to be because i'm not happy with my current one, so if i notice i'm not, i would break up with them first. I mean, why would you keep someone around if you know you want something or someone else? I wouldn't, and i don't know why people do this. It's just more hurtful.

Answer 2

There is no "excuse" to cheat. But, sometimes it happens. Even those with the idea that even if things got bad, they'd break something off before they cheated. That is how I was. But alas, I did cheat. Am I ashamed? A little. Do I regret it? No. But then again, I took my cheating as a sign of something being wrong in my relationship, and after realizing I was capable of cheating, it forced me to look at what was going on in my life, in my relationship. I ultimately ended it. Maybe it wasn't the best way to go, but sometimes life just happens. Mistakes are made, its a matter if you learn from them or repeat them. I hope I've learned from mine.

Answer 3

ok I am not a cheater!!ANYMORE. i was with someone for 3 yrs and i cheated, the reason was that i was young,stupd and selfish. i didnt care about anything but keeping myself happy,without considering my mans feelings.now knowing that i hurt him as bad as i did!! nobody deserves to expierence that feeling. thats why i havent cheated since!!ive been with my new guy for 3 yrs now and i am faithful as can be!! ladies there is no point in cheating!! if you are not happy then leave the person you are with and do whateva,but dont cheat!! why would you cause someone that much pain when you can easily avoid it!!

Answer 4

I admit, I have cheated in the past. As to why, well that's simply because I chose to. No more, no less. I wouldn't do that now. I've grown as a person.

At this point in my life I'm secure in myself enough to have friendships outside my relationship tha include flirting, hugging and kissing (as in the quick kiss you give to a friend in greeting). There's no shame in anything I do now as that's how I am as a person. The guy I just started seeing knows how I am and it doesn't bother him. I may be a flirt, but I do know how to draw the line. I would never do anything I wouldn't want my parter to know about.

Answer 5

I would never cheat!! If I didn't want to commit to one person I would tell them. I could never hurt someone in that way. I want to be treated with respect and whoever I'm with at the time I would treat them the same way.

Answer 6

I have never cheated and never want to. I just beleive that love is not a game and I just dont think cheating would help anything, plus it hurts people. I agree with you!

Answer 7

I cheated because I was accused of cheating, even though, at the time, I was innocent. So, I figured that if I was going to get punished for it, I may as well commit the crime.

Answer 8

I never cheated, but I was the one that always got cheated on, I'am faithful to my boyfriend , cause He never cheated on me, and I would die before I would cheated, I hate pepole who cheat on someone.

Answer 9

I would never cheat on my boyfriend. I would leave him if things were not working out.

Answer 10

i'm not a cheater
because that would mean that i'm not trustworthy and that is an important thing for me i want people to be able to trust me. i would never cheat